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Originally posted by: chaipaani

I edited my comment that's why. I don't care who hates who but you can't call playing victim. Also, I haven't been playing victim but stating the truth.

Let me highlight I have been a AK supporter and have many disagreements with Diya only regarding white day but none got too bad that we started calling eachother names etc

Then I stopped liking Abhinav coz I don't relate to his actions during the surgery track which I pointed out and there the bashing begins. I even normally stated somewhere laughingly k fans aesa bhi krte hain(I swear to god i wasn't aware of the rules then and someone pointed out to me that I can't call out fans like that)

And it's a fact actually that I have had disagreement with Diya, Tania over how wrong Abhimanyu was on whiteday and why AK did what she did but the moment I said something about Nav things changed for me in this forum.

I don't hate you chaipaani. That is a big word. Why will I hate somebody for fictional characters? I actually use to like you.

But if you are going to overexaggerate the situation every time we have a discussion to make me look like a bully when I have been nothing but respectful to you. Then tell me what am I supposed to gather from that?

@Agni

I know they do it and I stop them, in my thread whoever goes overboard is stopped by me whenever I read something which can offend fans, I make sure to ask them to edit it and report the post.

But, you have been deflecting since beginning, you are telling us that it is difficult for you to be here and most here came in your support, including myself. You say Abhira fans do it but when you see someone doing it in your post when you are complaining about it, you blame the person who is showing you how things are on the other side, why?

Why can't you for once ask your friend to stop instead of continuously defending them?

Chaipaani's threshold is hers, this is a personal remark

If you want good environment, why don't you start it? You have been continuously blaming people, for once look at this thread itself and see the difference

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Ok. Since you have tagged me and since we are talking so openly today, I would like to point out two things-

Personally, I do think you have a habit of victim-playing a bit. I mean I am sure not all your points are wrong. But you do exaggerate many comments. I have personally experienced it in that where we discuss a "mass number of people not liking Abhinav"

Secondly, you can Hate Abhinav because of his fans as you stated in your previous post. Lostin90s can hate Abhimanyu fans for constantly wishing for Abhinav s death.

It's only fair. don't you think? I don't see anything wrong with that

Also, now that we are talking talking don't you think picking out a particular word in that comment was more exaggerating than what i did. People have started ask me to present proofs as if I am writing a white paper or something. I won't deny that you particularly mentioned that i should have avoided using mass but still the others it was as if Mass bol kar kuch bht galat kar dia ho.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Adding to it Yesterday only you defended someone while you clearly knew that the other persons tone was actually rude in comparison to mine.

So obviously i will point that out and that is not victim playing or whatever

Exactly

Whole fandom is not the problem, many are good and respectful. There are 2-3 members who instigate everyone which leads to thread being closed, we can always find these 2-3 members being problematic and they do it more because they get support from fellow members.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Adding to it Yesterday only you defended someone while you clearly knew that the other persons tone was actually rude in comparison to mine.

So obviously i will point that out and that is not victim playing or whatever

If you are talking about @OnBlock. Then let me tell you that your " Never read it ever" to her well-articulated post about fictional characters was rude. I stand by that

If you are talking about Chaitu, then yes her tone was rude. But even your comment was unnecessary. If a person tells me not quote I will avoid their post. That helps to maintain peace

Originally posted by: R.G.C

To clarify HC fan statement at least one of them was me, and was not particularly targeted to you alone bro, its not fair if you say that, I strongly believe that is what is happening, if I go to twitter, half of them have HC as their dp and complain about how can Ak choose a chomu over a 6 pack ab person, or attack Jay/Pranali/Karishma’s instagram accounts instead of throwing logical arguments, or even attack in Youtube comment sections of interviews. So, the population of such HC fans bringing in hate is pretty large to be ignored. There have been twitter spaces held, jo leak hue hain where these girls discuss how they approve a particular actress opposite HC and how they reject others. This is toxic, when we are calling things like this out, its not targeted to one person as such. No matter how much one may hate Abhinav, it still should be called out if they are putting molestation charges on the actor for that. Does Jay or anybody deserve this? They don’t even spare kids, having said disrespectful things to Hera, kal fir kahenge dekhna when that scene airs where she tells Abhim that Abhir won’t accept Birla house, its toxicity on another level

we have simiar arguments but we can't make it generic na. half of the people who are hating abhimanyu and supporting NavRa have supported arohi in the past and trolled HC very badly. We can also generalize na people are supporting NavRa are HC haters. We did not as it contains different set of fans. like there are js fans, there are some yrkkh 1 fans and some may not be both. But if you make such statements in open forum how should others feel.

Blue bird pe jo bhi hua woh waha ki baath hai. yaha par aadhe se zyada log waha jaathe bhi nahi hai. i only go there to watch vms and fetch precaps. ab uske liye hum kya kare. and why every arguments has to start with abhimanyu was abusive and toxic when you know that will hurt abhimanyu fans. just that we are not vocal like others.

As I silent reader who comes her for drama and old topics I can say there are exactly two members how go to every topic and instigate others. One particular account loves to call herself mature and neutral. 2-3 weeks back that account was partying with akshnav fd and now she is in abhira fd because chemistry and abhinav crys too much. I personally find her very annoying. She have this special talent of derailing any topic.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

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Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

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Originally posted by: Romanoger

As I silent reader who comes her for drama and old topics I can say there are exactly two members how go to every topic and instigate others. One particular account loves to call herself mature and neutral. 2-3 weeks back that account was partying with akshnav fd and now she is in abhira fd because chemistry and abhinav crys too much. I personally find her very annoying. She have this special talent of derailing any topic.