Maa ki mamta - Page 7

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

I mean he literally divorced her and let his family throw her out. He lost his rights then and there as a spouse.

This is more on that lines of a guilty conscience. Abuse stemming from actions of your own, if you may.

I mean when you have abused your ex wife and then couldn't be bothered about her or her healthy and she doesn't ever want to deal with your abusive ways and family ever again..you are bound to develop a guilty conscience. Still didn't land on her feet and beg for forgiveness though..for being an absolute disappointment of an ex-husband. Should have atleast thanked her for not filing a domestic abuse complaint. Nope. That would've actually made him somehow redeemable. To ask for forgiveness without any motive.

But instead he did what most abusers do the moment he saw an opening.. Beg her to reconcile and to come back to him shamelessly (this is highlighted in the Spousal Abuse post as a trait of the abuser which Abhimanyu fulfills too) ,leaving her family,husband and son... without even fully realizing the depth of his abuse on that day.

Hope you got your answer. Happy to help you out whenever 😆

No coz i asked about what Akshara did.

This we get it Abhimanyu is a bad bad human being. Laden k baad wahi aata hai 😂

But my question is what Akshara did leaving the person she said she loves the most(reason we know) but abhimanyu didn't. She said she will be there when he opens his eyes but she wasn't and he has no clue for a year.

He suffered from existential crisis, insomnia, anxiety disorder, trust issues. Does this count as Abuse?

@bold figuratively yes.

Literally he gave divorce and stood there. Akshara signed it and walked out in a disturbed state Btw great acting by both. But this is not my query.

I watched these episodes so quite clear on what happened and what not.

You please answer my question about akshara and not abhimanyu. Very important for my story 😸.

Meanwhile, i am gonna go get an ice-cream 🫣

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I think I’m qualified to answer this question. And I will try to answer it without going into much details.
My now preteen daughter has recently been interested in knowing why her parents are divorced. It’s been seven years since the divorce. She started asking me about it around the age of 10ish. I have tried to answer her questions to the best of my abilities and honesty. I gave her answers that she could understand at her age, without placing blames on either one of us. Of course when she is a little older and mature, I will open up more to her and will be able to tell her the exact reason! I Hope that she will be able to understand why her parents weren’t good for each other.

It’s really important to watch how you talk to kids and what you say to them. Their minds are still developing and they may not be able to understand complex situations. ✌🏼❤️

I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here but isn't this to say ur child did know about her father nd that her parents r seperated nd u chose to tell her about the details of your divorce as she grew up when you thought she is mature enough to understand the stuff being told to her

Here in the show Abhir already knows that Nav is not his bio dad ...idk how knowing AbhiM is his bio dad would have a negative effect on his psyche....he can be told about the white day nd the reason for their divorce with time like u did with ur child

Originally posted by: chaipaani

No coz i asked about what Akshara did.

But my question is what Akshara did leaving the person she said she loves the most(reason we know) but abhimanyu didn't. She said she will be there when he opens his eyes but she wasn't and he has no clue for a year.

He suffered from existential crisis, insomnia, anxiety disorder, trust issues. Does this count as Abuse?

Allow me. This was Mr kheras condition to operate on him. That akshara leaves with him immediately . . She left him so that he doesn't lose his hands which r most imp for a surgeon.

Now ask who is she to decide for him? Yes she decided for him without consulting him , that's her foolishness . She should have woken him up from anesthesia and asked him if you want me or your hand. Abhim would have chosen his akshu. He loved her so deeply . ❤ luckily his akshucame bk to him after a yr but his hand wouldn't..handicap ho jaata wohi sahi tha uske liye in his own words..great lover.

Now ask why didn't she tell him later and break the contract with khera ? No she didn't bec that's what she is . Ab woh ichadhari toh hai nai..

Originally posted by: Krinya

Allow me. This was Mr kheras condition to operate on him. That akshara leaves with him immediately . . She left him so that he doesn't lose his hands which r most imp for a surgeon.

Now ask who is she to decide for him? Yes she decided for him without consulting him , that's her foolishness . She should have woken him up from anesthesia and asked him if you want me or your hand. Abhim would have chosen his akshu. He loved her so deeply . ❤

This is not the answer as well. This is more of a summary of what happened.

Did abhimanyu knew for a year that she left coz of Khera ki condition and all. That's not the point she left without saying anything we knew she wasn't happy herself, we knew what she did for him but did he?

Answer is no and he felt like she didn't choose him, he couldn't sleep, his anxiety worsen, he developed self harming so was it under spousal abuse or not?

They reconciled later coz he realised that she left for him only. He sent divorce paper without consulting he said sorry I will listen to you but he didn't we all know. But this is not my question.

I mean didn’t he divorced her and then she left? Should she have continued to stay there? He lost the rights to know about her whereabouts the moment they both signed those papers, right?

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Hi Guys Mickey here relationship expert.

Quick Query does Akshara leaving Abhimanyu for a year without telling him why and how.

During which he clearly developed insomnia, anxiety disorders.

Falls under the spousal abuse?

Asking for a story 🤓📰

Originally posted by: Sana_a

I mean didn’t he divorced her and then she left? Should she have continued to stay there? He lost the rights to know about her whereabouts the moment they both signed those papers, right?

No i am asking about during the first leap. When he had a surgery, and then she left for a year due to the condition put by dr kunal khera.

Abhi wasn't aware of any such condition and he had no idea where she went and why. Later everyone convinced him that she left with Kairav(who at that time was running from police)

Can I ask you something have you watched the show since the start of gen3 or from last few months.

It’s all good! 👍🏼

I was trying to answer this question by Krinya

“Suppose abhir knows abhim is his father and he asks Dr "why aren't you and mummy together ?" , what will his reply be ?”

Keeping in mind the “Suppose” part of the question 😊

And yes, imo she should tell him who is his father but he should be told about the white day and the reason for their separation at a later age when he will be able to understand and make a sound decision.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here but isn't this to say ur child did know about her father nd that her parents r seperated nd u chose to tell her about the details of your divorce as she grew up when you thought she is mature enough to understand the stuff being told to her

Here in the show Abhir already knows that Nav is not his bio dad ...idk how knowing AbhiM is his bio dad would have a negative effect on his psyche....he can be told about the white day nd the reason for their divorce with time like u did with ur child

Ohhh!!! Sorry didn’t get that before lol ☺️😬

Tbh I have watched in bits and pieces.
And frankly, from what I’ve read/heard/seen about the character of AbhiM before/after both leaps is a little triggering for me as his traits/personality, as a spouse, resembles a lot like my ex husband so I’m afraid to watch more than what I already have.
Sorry, but please don’t judge me 🙏🏼 ☺️

Originally posted by: chaipaani

No i am asking about during the first leap. When he had a surgery, and then she left for a year due to the condition put by dr kunal khera.

Abhi wasn't aware of any such condition and he had no idea where she went and why. Later everyone convinced him that she left with Kairav(who at that time was running from police)

Can I ask you something have you watched the show since the start of gen3 or from last few months.

Originally posted by: Sana_a

Ohhh!!! Sorry didn’t get that before lol ☺️😬

Tbh I have watched in bits and pieces.
And frankly, from what I’ve read/heard/seen about the character of AbhiM before/after both leaps is a little triggering for me as his traits/personality, as a spouse, resembles a lot like my ex husband so I’m afraid to watch more than what I already have.
Sorry, but please don’t judge me 🙏🏼

Hey no why would i judge:)

First of all i am so sorry to hear that it resembles your ex husband and it's triggering for you.

But i would suggest not to make impression of a fictional character only by what you hear.

But during their marriage they had their up and down.

Incidents where both were wrong, incidents where akshi was wrong only, incident where abhimanyu was wrong.

What happened the day known as white day was wrong. Abhimanyu was wrong that day and everyone agreed to that. Infact so does the character abhimanyu that he was wrong.

But calling him a abuser with abusive behaviour cycle would be wrong.

Moreover, it's a fictional character it's better to take it lightly.

I hope you are in a better place now ❤️