Nav’s growing insecurity: Epi Air Dt. 17-6-23 [DT NOTE PG 31] - Page 18

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Here’s my ashirvaad shraap for cringey cutoo couple

“Sadaa dukhi raho jitna torture aur cringe tumne

Humko diya utna tumhe bhi mile

cliff pe jhaake jaldi dafa ho jaa”

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

hain 😆 you have too many high hopes from me I am dummy number one. Please you record it and post it.

by the way Did you read my two new books which I released today written by a dummy for a dummy and published by a dummy. Page 2 please read my post I was waiting for your feedback as well as Nisha’s.
Akshu has become do predictable that I even guessed her upcoming beh

Nitya, like they did with AK, DKP have actually laid the foundation for 2 new careers for you. unlike AK you have already proven your prowess in both fields

- a humourist and

- a telepathist

dummy for a dummy is by far the best title and will be my first read from your collection

Haven't watched the episode yet. But would just like to point out the hypocrite that Ak is. With Abhi she expected such insane amount of trust that he was supposed to believe her even after she disappeared for a year. Even during the second leap she kept thinking he would figure it out cause of course she hasn't moved on and him thinking that is his fault.

And now with Nav, if he has insecurity her solution is to pacify him with hugs ??? What sense does this even make ? If you do think he should be trusting you, can't you just talk about it ? Infact with everything she does that..Abhi's pain is nothing or he is overreacting but Nav's pain is paramount, he is God and can do no wrong.

Isn't this insecurity part of Nav not trusting Ak. Aren't their communication issues clear with them hiding things from each other ? What is this dumb facade of a perfect marriage they keep playing ?

Originally posted by: sunshining

Nitya, like they did with AK, DKP have actually laid the foundation for 2 new careers for you. Although unlike AK you have already proven your prowess in both fields

- a humourist and

- a telepathist

dummy for a dummy is by far the best title and will be my first read from your collection

Originally posted by: Siasia2014

I know I know I order my fav food and couldn’t eat. My hubby things am coming down with something. What to say am depressed. Just angry everyone is deciding without including Abhi. Ak is getting worse day by day. She had whitewashed every good Abhi has done to date. It’s like Nav is god. I really hope his insecurities increase. But am more angry with AR. Praising Nav didn’t Abhi do the same thing for her daughter. He even agreed to marry her for her daughter. But no Nav is great to agree to such complicated relationship. Abhi has it bad cause he doesn’t like her and she is AK sister and Neil’s wife. More complicated for him.

Purre show mei jitne b characters hei sab bas nav puran hi karna mei Lage hei🤦

https://twitter.com/neevs13/status/1669947823024996353?t=HE0dUcx_scvBjnf6Y3lNsA&s=19

Originally posted by: Padm1

hey are you Telugu??

Im a malayali but I love watching telugu movies. 😊

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Basically aj ke episode mai couple things, hugs, nickname yeh sab kuch tha. Akshara ne apne husband ko cutuuu bola, apne husband ko usne shaddi outfit mai color coordinate karne ke liye bola, apne husband ko comfort hug diya, uske husband ke gaal khich kar cutuuuu aisa bola, apna as a wife pura haqq jata kar baat kar rahi thi.

So writer ka aj ka goal tha ki audience ko yeh pukhta saboot de ki Akshara ke I love you ko duniya seriously le. Iss goal ko achieve karne ke liye ye episode design kiya tha.

Bhai mai toh 10000000% maan gayi ki Akshara abhinav se bahot pyar karti hai in fact maine toh hamesha uske I love you so seriously he liya tha.Bhagvan kare kasauli couple ka pyar aise he nana rahe and abhinav zinda rahe.

Udti khabar yeh hai ki Abhimanyu will accept aarohi with whole heart. I don’t mind and I am happy.
Jaise Abhimanyu ne apne shortcoming par kaam kiya hai waise he aarohi ke character mai bhi bahot growth hai and usne bhi apne ap par kam kiya hai. Atleast she is not like usko apne actions ke liye na koi idea hai na koi improvement kiya hai.
Aarohi ne aj jo bhi Akshara ko bola woh 1000% sach tha, anyway akshara apna pyar already yesterday declare kar chuki hai so aarohi ke Aj bhi kuch bhi point of view dene se koi turning point nahi aane wala hai.

I doubt if abhimanyu can love anyone except Akshara. Udti khabaro ka yakeen na hi Karo toh better hei. Filal sab bas dragging point par hei aage tab trp giregi tab kahani aage badegi.

Originally posted by: Siri918

So finally Another supporting role also becomes lead?

Good work DKP! No need to watch anymore.

She is an akshara nav fan. Don't believe all this till they show such things in episode.

Thanks for the thread!

Out of curiosity, I watched the episode.... maybe I'm one of those who love to torture themselves now and then..... otherwise why would I skip good episodes and watch these boring ones? 🤪

Anywho, it was slow but I felt the chips are all moving into place. I felt today was the last day of calm before the next storm. 😔 Why? Because Ar has made her move..... this time she hit Bullseye when she targeted Ak! Till now she was trying to manipulate Ab but that didn't work, so she behaved as if she was letting him go ahead and do what he wants. But, with Nav's behavior, she got the opening she is seeking. And she has started using him to keep Ak in check and make Ak think twice before being too friendly with Ab. In this story from the start, every time Ar sets into motion a series of events.... she did it again! 👍🏼 So, I'm hoping we will finally get some movement in this stagnant story.

The big elephant that surprised and secretly affected everyone (except, maybe Ab ☺️) is Mamaji's blessing..... it was awkward, no one wants to discuss it, but it put Nav in deep thought, and feeling insecure and doubtful of his actions.... this is the first time he is wondering about the morality of his actions and I appreciate that thought from him! As the days go by, he is going to feel more and more guilty. 👍🏼

If I was in Ak's place, I would start getting tired of Nav's insecurity at the drop of a hat.... him constantly seeking her validation for the smallest of things..... is he the 6-year-old now? And in spite of constant reassurances and love-filled gestures from Ak in private and loud, vocal support in front of everyone, he still doubts her words. If he didn't he wouldn't feel insecure and feel as if he is in the wrong place. As a viewer, I know he is being selfish and hypocritical, but Ak has not given him any reason to think that, so he should trust her words. Funnily, Ak did not get that he is insecure... she assumed it as a wedding-related problem.

Ak's whole 'I'm angry and disappointed with you' attitude for Ab, for the past 6 months does not hold much water anymore.... time she understood the concept of co-parenting and the fact that she cannot have it all..... If Ak wants to be with Nav, even without Abhir in the mix, then she should gracefully share her son with Ab now.... Navra themselves will understand the true face of their relationship only after that. Even after sharing custody if Navra still feel they belong to each other, then so be it. This relationship was based on a compromise where Ak wanted to hide her son from Ab, yet wanted her son to have a father..... but now the need to keep the foster father away from Abhir's truth has become primary. Her priorities are changed and she has not even consciously realized yet! So she feels compelled to molly-coddle and pacify him (as if he is the child), for every small hurt or insecurity, otherwise, he may try to leave as he did after the first UD visit. She does not want a repeat of that. The proof is the two hugs.... first Nav hugged but neither was happy or convinced.... Second Ak hugged but he didn't hug her back. She just acted so chirpy that she didn't notice he didn't hug her back and neither missed it.

In her conversation with Ar, her words that Nav will give up everything for others may end up being the opposite. I feel Ab will be the one to give up, opening Ak's eyes to his old, true self, and she will herself take Abhir to Ab. From the beginning of this leap, every one of Ak's accusations to Ab or her rants about him to anyone, have been opposed to his actions.... Only she has not recognized it yet! Every prayer of hers to her Kanhaji has not been fulfilled, vs all of Ab's prayers to Mahadev..... why? Because this time Ab's intentions are pure, he does not want to hurt anyone and that is his constant prayer. But all her prayers are to keep Abhir away from Ab, his real father.... and in the process hurt him, demean and insult him.

Ar was correct in that analysis of Nav, that guy is living a life based on a lie, it seems he has it all but nothing belongs to him, except Ak and Abhir for now.... and when Abhir finds out the truth Nav will have to start sharing him as well and his very basis of existence in this story will be shaken.... he can no longer hold the identity of the real father. So will he remain Ak's husband, a relation which is based on him being a father? His house of cards is bound to crash or at least will lose a few rows..... that day will be sooner than he thinks..... within the next 2 or 3 days.....

Because Abhir will soon be on the move. He is not Ab's son for nothing.... those persistent genes with the never give up attitude! Hats off! I want him (and his able, equally stubborn, and precocious assistant with the second set of Birla 'never give up' genes ) to not stop their search and come up with all sorts of silly, goofy, irritating, innocent yet enterprising ways to fish out Ab's real identity from among the sea of men present. Best wishes to you boy! It's time to break some illusions and make the adults (especially Navra) face reality and come to a mature agreement among themselves, that is best for the boy.