Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 3

Sorry for butting in the conversation

Apologies to the TM if you feel I'm diverting the topic

To preface AK confessed she loves Nav nd I'll believe her...if 6 yrs of camaraderie has led to live for her nd she's over her past and has moved on in life...good for her. Afterall ur true thoughts come out when drunk...so if she drunk confesses she means it

Now coming to the topic I'd still have liked her to have grown professionally during the leap...No disrespect intended to any small business i wish her Jam business was atleast a little sucessful ... i don't like that she seemed to have changed career paths but in suddenly trying her hands at Jam making homestay business law and doesn't seem to be serious about anything at all.

I kinda disagree with what you say about it being unethical to earn money from healthcare.... there's so much hardwork required to become a nurse or a GP let alone a surgeon...surgical instruments, machines, procedures require so much capital, it's not possible to provide such services for free especially in a country like ours which has got such a huge population

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

well i have seen clips of little kairav.. he was searching for his father..he was disturb..he wanted his father..why? Couldn't naira keep him happy? Why she wasn't enough for her baby? In that case Abhir was very happy kid..he got Mother and father both..both loved him that he didn't need anyone else..

Naira was doing her best to raise the child and also the child was mostly happy.As a child he was naturally curious about his father.But later on, there was a track where he hate him too.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Contradictions contradictions everywhere. Why did Naira become a dancer or dance teacher after she "ran away" from her husband who questioned her character? Why does a yoga instructor deserve more respect than a jam maker? Now I'm not the kind of a person who judges women for making choices that do not align with my own, but according to you faking your own death, leading your family (a very loving family who always supported her btw) to believe that you are no more, is better than getting married to a decent man and leading a peaceful life away from the chaos , and still maintaining communication with your family is far worse, eh? Lol And in your opinion, only single parents deserve respect, but not the ones who chose to remarry and move on in life? My cousins' moms who live in small villages, are homemakers and help out in with the finances by making homemade achars and papads and doing other household chores do not deserve your respect eh?

Well the point was mentioned meant that to survive Shaadi karna zaroori ni h ... All jobs deserve respect... Jam wali ya yoga instructor wali....

Point yeh h ki you don't see people getting married aise jo Akshara k type .... Which really doesn't make sense... Aaj kal sab Bolte h uska marzi uska haq n all toh why compromise and get married just because she wasn't strong enough to survive n heard people ka tana ?? Was it required? When she was hospitalized she could have asked money from kairav kv hated birlas anyway toh he would have helped her without anyone's knowing if required ( afterall she is his sister n Karthik naira's daughter) n started her own jam business with loan from kairav n lived her life raising abhir .... Not saying she should go back to Abhimanyu.... Abhinav could have been like a best friend who supported her than this love angle...

Why don't people help others thinking it's brother or sister i these serials...why is it always go to love angle....har koi stranger help karega kya love k liye .... Agar reality m if i help someone stranger I'll think bhaiya h ya behen h hel karte h....

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Contradictions contradictions everywhere. Why did Naira become a dancer or dance teacher after she "ran away" from her husband who questioned her character? Why does a yoga instructor deserve more respect than a jam maker? Now I'm not the kind of a person who judges women for making choices that do not align with my own, but according to you faking your own death, leading your family (a very loving family who always supported her btw) to believe that you are no more, is better than getting married to a decent man and leading a peaceful life away from the chaos , and still maintaining communication with your family is far worse, eh? Lol And in your opinion, only single parents deserve respect, but not the ones who chose to remarry and move on in life? My cousins' moms who live in small villages, are homemakers and help out in with the finances by making homemade achars and papads and doing other household chores do not deserve your respect eh?

I didn’t say jam makers or homemakers are weak.that’s hard work and passion too.But, my point is Akshara relied on a random stranger on the bus and had to be dependent on him to move on in life.But Naira stayed independent and raised her child on her own without marrying or living with random man who she met on a bus.So to me clearly Naira is far stronger than Akshara.Even if Naira ran away she fought her battles herself for a good amount of time.Also she didnt give up on hobbies or talents.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

Sorry for butting in the conversation

Apologies to the TM if you feel I'm diverting the topic

To preface AK confessed she loves Nav nd I'll believe her...if 6 yrs of camaraderie has led to live for her nd she's over her past and has moved on in life...good for her. Afterall ur true thoughts come out when drunk...so if she drunk confesses she means it

Now coming to the topic I'd still have liked her to have grown professionally during the leap...No disrespect intended to any small business i wish her Jam business was atleast a little sucessful ... i don't like that she seemed to have changed career paths but in suddenly trying her hands at Jam making homestay business law and doesn't seem to be serious about anything at all.

I kinda disagree with what you say about it being unethical to earn money from healthcare.... there's so much hardwork required to become a nurse or a GP let alone a surgeon...surgical instruments, machines, procedures require so much capital, it's not possible to provide such services for free especially in a country like ours which has got such a huge population

I said it's unethical to earn profits i.e make a business out of healthcare. This doesn't always include doctors and other healthcare providers.

To explain further : the same blood test that requires the same equipment can cost vastly different in two different labs or hospitals.

US is a prime example of this where doctors have to take out loans for applying to residency interviews and patients have to pay thousands of dollars for something as basic as ambulances

Changing career paths is neither a crime nor a downgrade. I am sure JS/PR/HC did not go to a film school for their Bachelors' degrees

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Naira was doing her best to raise the child and also the child was mostly happy.As a child he was naturally curious about his father.But later on, there was a track where he hate him too.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

I didn’t say jam makers or homemakers are weak.that’s hard work and passion too.But, my point is Akshara relied on a random stranger on the bus and had to be dependent on him to move on in life.But Naira stayed independent and raised her child on her own without marrying or living with random man who she met on a bus.So to me clearly Naira is far stronger than Akshara.Even if Naira ran away she fought her battles herself for a good amount of time.Also she didnt give up on hobbies or talents.

In the first sentence you say one thing and in the right next sentence you go on to say the exact opposite of what you said . Do women who manage to move on in life and marry someone else after a divorce even if its for the sake of stability not deserve respect?

And Akshara didn't fight hers?

I don't judge Naira because it was a CHOICE she made for herself just like AKSHARA did .

Originally posted by: Naay

Well the point was mentioned meant that to survive Shaadi karna zaroori ni h ... All jobs deserve respect... Jam wali ya yoga instructor wali....

Point yeh h ki you don't see people getting married aise jo Akshara k type .... Which really doesn't make sense... Aaj kal sab Bolte h uska marzi uska haq n all toh why compromise and get married just because she wasn't strong enough to survive n heard people ka tana ?? Was it required? When she was hospitalized she could have asked money from kairav kv hated birlas anyway toh he would have helped her without anyone's knowing if required ( afterall she is his sister n Karthik naira's daughter) n started her own jam business with loan from kairav n lived her life raising abhir .... Not saying she should go back to Abhimanyu.... Abhinav could have been like a best friend who supported her than this love angle...

Why don't people help others thinking it's brother or sister i these serials...why is it always go to love angle....har koi stranger help karega kya love k liye .... Agar reality m if i help someone stranger I'll think bhaiya h ya behen h hel karte h....

Why cannot she marry because she wanted to? Usse kisise bravery aur strength certificate lene ke liye ajeevan sexless, companionless rehna chahiye tha?

By that standard, Arohi is the best character in the show.

Aur ye don't marry strangers ka kya chakkar hai? Log kya maa ke pet se dusro ko jaan ke aate hai. Every relationship outside of blood starts as stragers lol

Let women live or not live with whoever they want lol.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Naira was doing her best to raise the child and also the child was mostly happy.As a child he was naturally curious about his father.But later on, there was a track where he hate him too.

And Abhir was always happy with Akshara and Abhinav he still is. So what seems to be the problem here?

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Who cares about Abhinav and Abhimanyu. MY post is about the character building of a female lead by the producers.

True.... It's about how the Akshara character is portrayed.... People are still not getting it ki .... Naira situation is just an example... That akshara could have done better that showing bechari one time n next moment women empowerment....

Women empowerment k naam kuch bhi Bolte h log ... It's fine if she doesn't go back to Abhimanyu or stay single or move on n get married.... But start se hi spineless character dikhaya uska .... Iss show ko bhi Anupama bana k rakh ne ka socha h i think...

But Anupama n Akshara k situation m bihat difference h.... Abhimanyu wasn't abuser or cheater .., no one is ready to go back and see what happened in Analysis in detail ki akhir aisa kya hua ... instead of making a statement.... Har sikke ka do pehelu hote h .... Everyone is sympathetic towards Akshara now ....abhinav is great.... But koi Abhimanyu ka socha ni ....uski yeh galti h ki use askhu ki samjhane ki koshish ki but usne ni mana toh gussa hua n same time useke mom ki halat was not great like on verge of death... Abhi koi normal insaan kya karta bolo maa ko dekhta ya biwi ko.... and be practical and think in real life m ( like everyone is so much relating to abhinav, think about in real life jo Abhimanyu ka situation m kon my karta ) ...

It's not about who is good HUSBAND .... It's about what is right based on the situation....

Just my opinion feel free to analyse