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That letter says everything. She was willing to let go of her desire to have kids. She was willing to attend those parties she didn't like. All for him. But I like that she also wanted him to see her world too. The one she liked. Thats what a true marriage is. Both seeing and accommodating the other's world.

What did she feel she had to learn to be part of his world? I wish she realizes that she can do that without compromising her principles. She was feeling insecure in those gatherings. Did Arnav and Payal not realize that?

The ball is in his court now. He has to weigh between his business interest and his personal life. Will he go on that trip or will he go to her? Could he take her with him while they work this out?

Originally posted by: tashi26

I trust you as writer, and I am sure whatever you have in store for us will definitely be worth the wait. But you see I wish the story was complete before I started reading it, just so that I could have read it in one go and be done with all the emotions at once. Believe me you are a wonderful writer to make your readers feel this.🤗

"Same here sister!"

Are we twins by any chance? (one of those Kumbh ke mele bichre huye?)😝

I was grinning seeing this, if you're confused why I say all this, well then you need to check my comments after the 1st or 2nd chapter.

All in all i am just happy seeing this comment.😂🤌

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

"Same here sister!"

Are we twins by any chance? (one of those Kumbh ke mele bichre huye?)😝

I was grinning seeing this, if you're confused why I say all this, well then you need to check my comments after the 1st or 2nd chapter.

All in all i am just happy seeing this comment.😂🤌

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

"Same here sister!"

Are we twins by any chance? (one of those Kumbh ke mele bichre huye?)😝

I was grinning seeing this, if you're confused why I say all this, well then you need to check my comments after the 1st or 2nd chapter.

All in all i am just happy seeing this comment.😂🤌

Many of us feel that way I am sure. We just didn't say it. Its hard waiting to see what happens when the emotions run high like they are for this story. Whenever I am awake at nights, I am thinking of Khushi and crying for her.

Again a fabulous chapter! It gets better and better!

Mahesh telling Arnav “Not everyone had your foresight to keep their priorities in order, Arnav. I should have thought of my family more often. I should have learned something from you too.” sounds weird, when Arnav's divorce is out in open and it shows Arnav too is not perfect in handling family and business together.

Arnav is missing a bigger point here and needs to do a solid introspection as to why he is not ok with Khushi immediately moving on to marry someone else after divorce was already filed when he himself had moved on to end up cheating and sleeping with another woman! After all they both were drifted apart but he had moved on way before.. Her behavior considering her family into the picture is just reaction to his action of divorce!

Shyam and his mother, exact same that I had anticipated, self-centred hypocrites! They both should be in jail for his first wife’s murder and not arranging his second marriage!

I love this Payal for speaking thetruth and cornering Arnav the best. She call Arnav dimwit and curses - “If she does get married, I hope he turns out better than you. God knows she deserves it!” So true, Khushi deserves so much better!

I disagree that Arnav talking to Khushi would have changed anything, knowing Khushi she would have still chosen his happiness with the other woman and walked out with her head held high leaving Arnav with the same restlessness! He did not wish her on the anniversery, what can be a bigger hint than that? She might have heard his conversation with Lavanya and decided to isolate herself to save from further heartbreak.. She left his mother’s bangles, the pride of Raizada bahu, a clear indication that she lost hope to salvage the relationship.

Arnav is truly dimwit if he needed Payal’s smart brains to explain his own relationship with his wife or an actual love note to understand he meant the universe for Khushi! He was her everything, period. Her loyalty, love, adjustments while smiling and sacrifices were never in question, his behavior was and is!

I still believe one fact, Arnav did love Khushi and he knows it's improssible for anyone not to fall in love with her! But he took her for granted, his control freak nature, his way or highway decisions, establish business and earn money at any cost had made him compromise on ethics. Khushi being too much in love with him, starstruck by his persona, initially obliged by the marriage, and mainly being submissive by nature does not help here either.. He is a shrewd businessman who knew he could get away with ignorance or not valuing relationship as much as she did! But he went too far with his infidelity!

Still my gut feel says he finally realized his grave mistake after sleeping with Lavanya (I am assuming it's one time and not an affair but I could be wrong) that he wronged Khushi and went for divorce, righteous decion for Khushi. This was trigger point apart from not wanting to have a baby issue. Khushi being Khushi walked out feeling his happiness now lies not with her but with the other woman assuming she heard him! The letter made me cry but I will write about it later!

I will be the harshest on Arnav for sure and there is a reason! I will share once you reveal his relationship with Lavanya! The Arnav you have depicted here is so accurate and I have seen one in real life! Trust me when I say this, the Arnav is more dangerous for naive Khushi than the Shyams out there!

Arpita, you are gifted writer is a given! Your story has been on my mind all the time, especially when I figured why I was so repulsive towards this Arnav! An emotinal roller coaster ride that you have brought is amazing! We need all your stories that you wrote but never published, every single dribble!

Looking forward to the next update!

Swati

I am assuming Khushi's parents are not aware of the fact that it was Arnav who does not want children and Arnav and Khushi do not have kids not due to Khushi's inability to conceive.

Khushi has I am thinking hidden this from her parents to protect Arnav's name and reputation?

They should know the truth. Enough of Khushi taking all the blame and enough of Khushi's wishes getting trampled over and over, by both her parents and her soon-to-be-ex-husband.

I keep thinking how Khushi's condition must be worst than a caged bird now. For heaven's sake, both her parents and Arnav, allow her to fly on her own. Let her take some breaths feeling independent.

even though it may not the fit the Khushi characterization here. I skipped it yesterday by choice..but need to say this😊

Khushi parents. Shyam.

Khushi parents are privy to how disgustingly Shyam had behaved 10 years ago. Verbally he has apologized and is "willing" to marry their soon to be divorced daughter that all is forgiven. Garima was overjoyed that Shyam mom likes Khushi. Her dad is relieved.

1.Have her parents even paused to think that what it feels like when someone chases you and violates your personal space? The scars don't go away with time. Anyway.

2 Shyam and Khushi for both it will be a second marriage. He in fact has additional baggage of having a child. But still Khushi is the one who should be grateful..that she is been accepted by them?

3. Shyam supposedly is remorse about his past behavior. If he has reflected and is apologetic.. the conversation should have been about how it must have affected helpless Khushi.

That it must have scared her and left a scar. It was just wrong. But the apology is that he was young and in love. He made it about him rather than the victim,Khushi!

Her parents are constrained by their environment and are her welfare is most important. How come her dad did not dig deeper with Shyam about his past behavior?.

It is because their belief that Shyam and his family are being kind and generous to marry their soon to be "divorced daughter".

Their daughter is the "problem" and like Khushi said needs to be pawned off to the first available match. Their thinking is no different than the society they live in.

Khushi is not the naive 19 year old. She understand all this and will still marry him to appease her parents!

It is time for her to be a grown up and make a sound decision. She has today both means and choices. Otherwise the blame is on her and not her parents or society.

Ps. Buaji who has lived in the same environment as her parents at least is looking at Khushi and is able to understand Khushi unhappiness,discomfort..but they dont.

Originally posted by: canapoem

I am assuming Khushi's parents are not aware of the fact that it was Arnav who does not want children and Arnav and Khushi do not have kids not due to Khushi's inability to conceive.

Khushi has I am thinking hidden this from her parents to protect Arnav's name and reputation?

They should know the truth. Enough of Khushi taking all the blame and enough of Khushi's wishes getting trampled over and over, by both her parents and her soon-to-be-ex-husband.

I keep thinking how Khushi's condition must be worst than a caged bird now. For heaven's sake, both her parents and Arnav, allow her to fly on her own. Let her take some breaths feeling independent.

The issue is not that their assumption she cannot conceive . That may be the gossip monger conversation reason for divorce.. it is her being a female and is divorced.

It is between a couple..not sure the parents need to know..why they are not having kids. She loves him..this is the last thing she will share. Even if they knew they would keep quiet..as he is the husband.

Swati, you hit it out of the ballpark with this analysis. I agree with almost all of your thoughts. Arnav did indeed move on from his marriage by sleeping with Lavenya which for me is the sticking point. I think the footsteps he heard were Khushi’s who overheard his conversation with Lavenya and as you said, agreed so easily for the divorce for his happiness. I also, think that him talking with her before hand would not have changed his mind. I think even finding the letter before hand might not have mattered. It just would have added to his feelings of guilt. In fact, he had expected to talk with her and was willing to tell her about Lavenya in order to get his way. He was just thrown off because things didn’t go as he thought it would. Khushi walked out with dignity and asked for little of nothing from him and thus he was not able to allay his guilt. So for both of them they were on the path to divorce.

I also believe he once loved Khushi and we’ll possibly find out more when we see his reaction to her accident. It was alluded to in this episode. I don’t agree that he divorced Khushi because he felt he had wronged Khushi and did it for her. I wouldn’t call it a righteous decision for her. He knew how badly it would hurt her to sleep with Lavenya and he did it anyway. Yes, he knew he made a mistake and probably felt guilty. Rather this was the final straw that made him realize that if he was capable of infidelity, then the marriage had no meaning for him anymore and was dishonest to continue. This divorce decision was for him, to feed into his ego at being an honest enlightened man. Now, he is realizing the magnitude of that decision which was unexpected to him.

I don’t know what your reasons are for disliking Arnav but I agree in this case, men like Arnav are more dangerous to a woman like Khushi than a Shyam. His righteous ego gives little room for a gentle soul like Khushi to plead her case for anything. He feels he is an enlightened man doing things for the good of others so in my mind he is more hypocritical than a stupid man like Shyam. His decisions which break her heart will in the end be for her own good as determined by him.