What will ex husband Manyu will answer for Abhir? - Page 2

Abhinav is not father to Abhir because he saved or carrying full day. He is his father because he is AK husband. Whatever it is foster or step but he is father for him not bio but he is his father because he saved him, legal husband of AK, love him, care him, do everything what father should have done. He is father in every manner.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Abhinav is not father to Abhir because he saved or carrying full day. He is his father because he is AK husband. Whatever it is foster or step but he is father for him not bio but he is his father because he saved him, legal husband of AK, love him, care him, do everything what father should have done. He is father in every manner.

We all are well aware of what all he has done - we get a reminder of it in every other episode making sure we don't ever forget it. That is not my point here. I was only referring to the things Akshara has told Abhir in the past and how that would impact the kid and the subsequent questions n conflicts he could have.

What will ex husband Manyu will answer for Abhir?

Ans : Abhir beta , tumhari maa ne tumhare bhai/behen ko maar dala along with your chacha neil . Tumko bhi maarne ki tayyari thi par tumhara good luck ki tum bach gaye . Kyonki tum uske tummy mein they isliye woh tumhe asani se mujhse door le gayi . Tumhari maa kisi ke pyaar ke laayak nahi hai kyonki woh ungratefull and selfish hai , par main tumse bahut pyaar karta hoon kyonki tum mera khoon ho .

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I don't think its going to be that simple for Akshara-Abhinav either. She had once told Abhir that Abhinav is his father because he saved his life. So now that Abhimanyu has saved his life, he too becomes father? For a 6 year old, he is going to go through a lot of emotional conflict and that too while recovering. All the lies, cover-ups and Akshara shutting him up when he said he felt Docman is like a father to him.
And whatever be Abhimanyu's past, the truth has reached Abhir via Abhinav.
Are you all so consumed with your dislike for Abhimanyu that you would want that little kid to grow up having similar hatred for Abhimanyu as Abhimanyu had for Harsh - and become similarly bitter/angry in life?

@bold No she told that story to make Abhir realize his mistake in talking rudely fo his father for getting a single room.

@blue On this pt. I agree with u. Abhir is a child & the events of WD are too harsh & serious for him to comprehend. They'll scar him for life. For the sake of child's mental n emo health the truth needs to be disclosed with caution & some info needs to be refrained for now.

But in the end in rishtaverse it doesn't matter what we want.. this all is only gonna get messed up one way or the other..

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I am waiting for abhir to roast this bachu and bachu ki momma 🤣🤣🤣



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Originally posted by: verve

@bold No she told that story to make Abhir realize his mistake in talking rudely fo his father for getting a single room.

@blue On this pt. I agree with u. Abhir is a child & the events of WD are too harsh & serious for him to comprehend. They'll scar him for life. For the sake of child's mental n emo health the truth needs to be disclosed with caution & some info needs to be refrained for now.

But in the end in rishtaverse it doesn't matter what we want.. this all is only gonna get messed up one way or the other..

I understand why she told the story. But I am just thinking from Abhir's perspective. He is going to question his reality and the very definition of who a father is - and he will use whatever he has been told as the basis of those questions.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Are you all so consumed with your dislike for Abhimanyu that you would want that little kid to grow up having similar hatred for Abhimanyu as Abhimanyu had for Harsh - and become similarly bitter/angry in life?

When it comes to the "truth" , it must be hidden from abhir coz he is only 6. But he should know abhimanyu is his father ,it's his right , then he is not 6 ? Obviously when he will know abhim is his father he will have a lot of questions..he will be more hurt when they will go through the custody case . The child will suffer bec of adults mistakes and their impulsiveness. There is no way abhir can be shielded from it.

Secondly , aksharas lies have been upgraded to a sinful level so let everyone know the truth inspite of their age gender and medical condition ..if only truth is important , let it be complete truth.. . It's only fair ..😆

Originally posted by: Krinya

When it comes to the "truth" , it must be hidden from abhir coz he is only 6. But he should know abhimanyu is his father ,it's his right , then he is not 6 ? Obviously when he will know abhim is his father he will have a lot of questions..he will be more hurt when they will go through the custody case . The child will suffer bec of adults mistakes and their impulsiveness. There is no way abhir can be shielded from it.

Secondly , aksharas lies have been upgraded to a sinful level so let everyone know the truth inspite of their age gender and medical condition ..if only truth is important , let it be complete truth.. . It's only fair ..😆

Truth is important yes. Regarding the complete truth - it should be out for everyone - both Akshara's side of what happened with her and Neil and also what all Abhimanyu said to her that day. Him checking to see she's home, the truth of what was said over phone - all of it. But this truth should right now be for the adults in the families to know - all of them need to know what went wrong and think about how to best manage the current situation. And the elders need a realisation as well of how messed up their children have been.

The restraining order and the custody case in reaction to it - both were foolish moves. I don't support them and I agree that knowing about it would hurt him a lot more, there's already so much for him to deal with.

Both Abhir and Ruhi are too young to understand the details, they need to know the mistakes made by their parents but not in a way that would scar them for life.

For first time in a very long time I agree with a statement made by Akshara to Abhir - that she will disclose more information as he grows and is able to comprehend more. If the entire truth is told after he grows up - it would create a lot more complexes and insecurities in the child.

The shield has already broken with half-truth, now they can only try their best to lessen the impact it would have on him by all 3 collectively deciding what and how to tell him.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

What will ex husband Manyu will answer for Abhir?

Ans : Abhir beta , tumhari maa ne tumhare bhai/behen ko maar dala along with your chacha neil . Tumko bhi maarne ki tayyari thi par tumhara good luck ki tum bach gaye . Kyonki tum uske tummy mein they isliye woh tumhe asani se mujhse door le gayi . Tumhari maa kisi ke pyaar ke laayak nahi hai kyonki woh ungratefull and selfish hai , par main tumse bahut pyaar karta hoon kyonki tum mera khoon ho .

Fer toh pakka abhir is nafrat pa lega tabhi abhir puchega usse. Agar meri maa apko apse dur lekar Gaye toh aap dhundne kyu nhi aaye meri ko ek baar b ? Tab kya bolega ab ?

I have watched so many the triggering incidents in this show but I absolutely do not wish to see a child's emotions being played with so that adults can justify their stand in life.

The issues between Akshara-Abhimanyu and Goenka-Birla families need to be sorted between them. Abhir or Ruhi didn't create these problems, they are not responsible for it and they should not have to suffer for it.

PS I don't get why people hate Abhimanyu but want Abhir to turn into another Abhimanyu(and not Akshara or Abhinav) and take a stand for Akshara!