AbHiM finds a letter: Epi Air Date 31 May 2023 - Page 25

Originally posted by: Siasia2014

The are aiming at getting us so pissed with AK that we would not want HC to say sorry. As it is most of us are already irritated with her. They have also not show AB do a lot of stupid things. He can’t overnight change but him hiding stuff from KM is a start. Atleast he is not repeating mistakes that would piss us.

Rather than this version of Ak I would have liked to watch bad-ass Ak bajaoing Abhi’s band. But we got Ak with AA jap 🤦🏻‍♀️

Atleast I want both of them to say sorry to each other, hug and make up. Put them in fire like before and let them sort out their brains and say sorry 😅

Same here. I don’t expect it to happen over night but they need to stop giving AA importance slowly. And if they want to keep him make it obvious. If the live him so much have the guts to say that he is never going to leave.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No apologies necessary. I just wanted to clarify my side :)

He only went to the Goenkas after Shefali was shown asking him why he isn’t thinking where Akshara is and they showed it like it never occurred to him to him to wonder about Akshara ki condition before that. That is what I found contrived. I do remember the scene of him going to Goenka house to ask about her and talk about how broken and confused he’s feeling but it felt like patchwork after the stupid scene they showed with Shefali.

I understand that ultimately grief tore everyone apart that day and Abhi’s grief was on multiple levels too. My take on this is more that Abhi’s mind stops working when he doesn’t have Akshara with him and then her blunders make an already bad situation worse cuz she keeps blubbering instead of explaining her side properly.

What is compatibility really? I feel their hard and soft sides do compliment and complete each other whenever they aren’t being sabotaged by their families. Communication toh is a work in progress in many relationships and this is ITV where that is even more of a luxury. Lol

Made for each other in Abhira’s case means that they cannot live without each other. They are merely existing like shells when they are apart. They breathe life into each other and that is why they need each other. Akshara spent 6 years away from him because she had a piece of him with her - his son. And Abhi spent 6 years away from her by pouring himself into caring for Ruhi. Neither of these can be called full lives because they weren’t in their true selves.

Reg made for each other - I don’t subscribe to “cannot live without each other” wala kind of love because it is more of fantasy than anything. Infact living with someone when you know their flaws, quirks etc is more difficult in reality. Not just co-living like Akshnav but actually sharing your life, future, aspirations etc. So when I say compatibility, I mean their thought process, how they react to situations and their personality is completely different. Living with such a person will never be easy inspite of all the attraction and passion. One can make it work, but it needs lots of efforts.

In Abhira case, be it the Manjiri anniversary party track, Neil’s truth track, Manjiri divorce track, first leap, they just didn’t gel - both of them had different views of the situations. After first leap when they got back together, they tried and succeeded to some extent but then bham second leap drama.

Isliye tho apne yahan kundali milate hai to figure out if prospective groom and bride are compatible (wish that would work but doesn’t work IMO)

Anyways whether made for each other or not, I say put them back together, I don’t mind seeing them fight with each other like cats and dogs, that is better than watching ooija wala drama😂

Our entertainment is more important 😄😜

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

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Reg made for each other - I don’t subscribe to “cannot live without each other” wala kind of love because it is more of fantasy than anything. Infact living with someone when you know their flaws, quirks etc is more difficult in reality. Not just co-living like Akshnav but actually sharing your life, future, aspirations etc. So when I say compatibility, I mean their thought process, how they react to situations and their personality is completely different. Living with such a person will never be easy inspite of all the attraction and passion. One can make it work, but it needs lots of efforts.

In Abhira case, be it the Manjiri anniversary party track, Neil’s truth track, Manjiri divorce track, first leap, they just didn’t gel - both of them had different views of the situations. After first leap when they got back together, they tried and succeeded to some extent but then bham second leap drama.

Isliye tho apne yahan kundali milate hai to figure out if prospective groom and bride are compatible (wish that would work but doesn’t work IMO)

Anyways whether made for each other or not, I say put them back together, I don’t mind seeing them fight with each other like cats and dogs, that is better than watching ooija wala drama😂

Our entertainment is more important 😄😜

Aren't all love stories fantasies only? Isn't this fiction we are watching here anyways?😆.....I view each story as per the parameters it is set in, not about what I personally subscribe to😆......if I understand the characters per their characterizations, it doesn't mean I subscribe to that behavior in real life (I will hardly subscribe to someone throwing around furniture in anger as relatable...lol)....lol so when I say made for each other for Abhira, I'm basing that on the narrative of a fictional love story where they have been shown literally being unable to breathe without each other. It's not about whether that happens in real life....it's about what's true for these particular characters.

LOL seems like you really just want them to keep fighting with each other so that you get to see sparks since they have chemistry compared to Akshnav😆. I think they deserve to be together as per the universe of this story where fate has been unfair to them in many ways.

Compatibility discussion is pointless in this case.....this is a high voltage prime time Star Plus show, not a web series where they will show realistic, organic conversations for people to find "compatibility" over😆.....this is a story of intense love at first sight and the subsequent intense emotions the star crossed lovers navigate.....ismein kaun relatability and realism dhundega....enjoy it as a fantasy😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Aren't all love stories fantasies only? Isn't this fiction we are watching here anyways?😆.....I view each story as per the parameters it is set in, not about what I personally subscribe to😆......if I understand the characters per their characterizations, it doesn't mean I subscribe to that behavior in real life (I will hardly subscribe to someone throwing around furniture in anger as relatable...lol)....lol so when I say made for each other for Abhira, I'm basing that on the narrative of a fictional love story where they have been shown literally being unable to breathe without each other. It's not about whether that happens in real life....it's about what's true for these particular characters.

LOL seems like you really just want them to keep fighting with each other so that you get to see sparks since they have chemistry compared to Akshnav😆. I think they deserve to be together as per the universe of this story where fate has been unfair to them in many ways.

Compatibility discussion is pointless in this case.....this is a high voltage prime time Star Plus show, not a web series where they will show realistic, organic conversations for people to find "compatibility" over😆.....this is a story of intense love at first sight and the subsequent intense emotions the star crossed lovers navigate.....ismein kaun relatability and realism dhundega....enjoy it as a fantasy😆.

lol I don’t want them to just fight but whatever they show I want Abhi-Ak (HC-PR) to be on screen together.

I haven’t watched ITV series for 10 years and started watching this show for them, so I don’t want to let go just yet. But agar Akshnav ko dikhate rahe tho mera bye bye hai 👋😔.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He didn’t throw her out, he divorced her. People trying to make it sound like he physically dragged Akshara and tossed her out is simply wrong. It’s not the same thing. He was out of his mind in grief that day but not some animal like people try to paint him here.


And even if he really threw her out as you are trying to claim, it still doesn’t give Akshara the right to change Abhir’s father on the fly. Abhi never abandoned his child. He didn’t even know. Simply having issues with the mom doesn’t make it ok for someone to erase your existence from your child’s life.

Akshara giving compassion to Manjiri is called her greatness but all expectations are from Abhi to never make mistakes. lol where does Akshara’s compassion go conveniently then?

Abhi did!!!!

Before signing divorce papers, when akshu tried to talk to him. Abhi did not listen and and kept on repeating 'meri baat kyun nahi sunti' ....so akshu listened to him and signed the divorce papers.

similarly, when akshu tried to talk to abhi about abhir, he dd not listen and clearly said he has nothing to do with akshu and the kid...and akshu listened to him...

he had issues with akshu not listening to him, and so she did.... I think now he should not have any issues,!!!

ab akshu kya kare....uski sune to problem, na sune to problem!!!😂 yeh abhi chahta kya hai!!! apne mamma se poochega...😂🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: shalu1786

Abhimanyu's character is relatable because he has all emotions of a normal person. On other hand akshara is selfless just like every ITV FL. But here apart from that her character is irrational and impulsive enough to make stupid decisions and stubborn enough to think that all her decisions are correct.

When akshara was in aaru Jaap mode it took so many effort from Abhi to knock some sense on her. He was humiliated many times during that period. Now she is in her angel patti jaap mode. This time Abhi alone can't put some sense on her, efforts from abhir is also needed as maker's have made Abhi dumb.

I feel all characters have been dumbed down to accommodate the current track. All characters brain flicker when story needs to be moved a bit and then go into deep sleep!

They had gradually dumbed down Abhi after the first leap itself. When BP pointed out that they should work on their trust issues or stay separate from families, neither Akshara nor Abhimanyu took his advice seriously before getting together. After that the whole Arohi blackmailing incident happened - there too Abhimanyu didn't deal with it maturely(he wanted to explain Abhir regarding his condition truthfully but not Akshara back then). Whether it is Manjiri hiding Neil's truth or Arohi's blackmail or fake pregnancy - he does seem to let the truth slide for the family's sake many times - which is what his mom taught him I guess - but he needs to come out of it too so he can see his family for what it is.

Right now, no one including the Sharmas behave like a family unit - everyone just takes decisions and announces to others: marriages, custody, going to US, restraining orders, asking Abhimanyu to stay in Kasauli - list goes on!

After Akshara-Abhimanyu met first time in Kasauli, there is a scene where she's standing making jams and wondering that she had the opportunity to tell Abhimanyu the truth so why didn’t she reveal it! Then after Abhimanyu treats Abhinav and leaves from Kasauli - she takes a promise from Abhinav to never tell Abhir.
Later we see her preparing law with the sole intention of winning her child's custody - so in a month track changed completely.

No explanation given regarding Akshara and Goenka's relationship - from not wearing their jewellery on Mimi's birthday to whole heartedly accepting their gifts/clothes etc on Gangaur and Abhir's birthday - no idea what changed. Every one seems to have multiple personalities - depending on the scene/upcoming track we get totally new versions of the characters.

We are trying hard to enjoy the show for the characters we have liked but it seems the makers are only interested in ruining things.

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

I felt exactly the same, half of the episode if not more was abt KV/MK - who is interested in their love story 😕

I never understood the pause in their love story in the first place...the declaration and refusal and then whatever...gotto be the most meh love story ever😴😴

I miss Mayank as Kairav, he had some depth in emotions!