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So it is ok to justify Akshara’s actions based on her upbringing but not use Abhimanyu’s childhood to justify his actions?

A guy having issues makes him a man-child but a woman having issues becomes the victim of circumstances?

I am saying this mainly about her basic trait. She never learned to stand up for herself, always put others’ interest above herself until 2nd leap happened.

I am neither commenting on her action nor justifying it.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

So it is ok to justify Akshara’s actions based on her upbringing but not use Abhimanyu’s childhood to justify his actions?

A guy having issues makes him a man-child but a woman having issues becomes the victim of circumstances?

@bold Agreed

Sorry I'm just butting in. I don't know your preferences.

But imho both are pathetic & nuisance in lives of all. Idk how are these even leads in a legacy show... In other shows, leads characterization go down the drain after some time. Inka to day 1 se hi kharab tha 🤣

So OG Akshara is like GEN 3 Akshara as she was also brought up in a family why do people say that OG Akshara was class? Because as ppl say Naira was alone so she was superior to akshara.

Should akshara not learn the skill of standing for herself as she was never raised by Goenka as she stayed out of Udaipur post Sirath death?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I don’t know about others if Ak chooses AbM, it’s her choice. Whether we like it or not, hold 100 pages of discussion nitpicking over choice, in the end, we have to live with it, or leave the show. What’s so complex about this.

The problem on this forum starts when someone speaks out for a particular ship or a character. A clique bands together to harass and bully the poster.
It’s my personal observation, and therefore have started maintaining distance with some threads and members. If anyone has problem with my opinion, can’t do anything about it and will bot respond anymore.

From what I have seen, it is Abhira shippers who get "bullied" on this forum. Take your comment for example, there was no need to tell the PM to stop wishing for Akshara with Abhi since PM was criticising Akshara. And I've seen many threads where Abhira shippers or Abhi stans open a thread but get critiqued as if it's a sin to support a character of a show.

That's where the problem is when people start moral policing others for shipping or stanning a character.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

what is wrong with abhinav.. and why does akshara deserve someone better,..is it because he’s poor. There’s more to life than money..and as far as the narrative has shown..abhinav is a very good person. I think he’s perfect for akshara 🤷🏻‍♀️..he’s a thousand times better than any of those birlas or goenkas…abhimanyu included 🤨

I never mentioned financial status?

I don't think Nav is right because Akshara doesn't seem to have feelings for him. It comes across as a debt she needs to pay off which is quite frankly, gross.

Nav is a good guy but that doesn't mean he is right for her. She also has to have feelings for him and from what I can see, her heart is not accepting him but her mind is. A man and a woman can be good friends, you don't have to shove love angle into it.

My sister recently went out with a guy who was perfect look wise, carree wise and personality wise and I really wish she had said yes to him but she just had no feelings for him. It would be wrong of me to pressure her to be with him just because I think he is right for her. At the end of the day, you should listen to your heart.

That was just banter. I can not force anyone to have a particular view or opinion. You haven’t been to this forum for long otherwise you wouldn’t have said Abhira shippers were bullied. Observe for two or three days and then talk about who bullies who.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

So it is ok to justify Akshara’s actions based on her upbringing but not use Abhimanyu’s childhood to justify his actions?

A guy having issues makes him a man-child but a woman having issues becomes the victim of circumstances?

@Bold This needs to be addressed. The makers use serious topics like child abuse like it's no big deal.

Abhi has faced child abuse and if Akshara's weaknesses are excused as trauma then same should apply to Abhi.

When Ak herself said she would choose Abhinav as her husband for 100 times, if she had a choice, then tell me why do all the abhira shippers disregard her choice and wants her to be with Abhimanyu.

You don’t want to force your sister to be with a guy because she doesn’t have any feelings for him. Then similarly why does every abhira shipper disregard Akshara’s choice and decide how she feels for someone on her behalf?

What kind of hypocrisy is this?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

That was just banter. I can not force anyone to have a particular view or opinion. You haven’t been to this forum for long otherwise you wouldn’t have said Abhira shippers were bullied. Observe for two or three days and then talk about who bullies who.

Apologies.

I have observed and I'm saying it for a reason. How many pro Abhi/Abhira threads do you see? It is not because there are no supporters, it is because most feel unwelcome here. My friend who is a neutral viewer also messaged me saying how this forum is anti Abhi. Most people I used to interact with before stay on Twitter because they say its toxic here.

And I've been attacked for simply commenting just because I stan Abhi. Asking Abhi stans if they're women and if they would like their sisters to face what Akshara faced etc All that shouldn't be part of this forum. Thats one of the main reasons I stay away. That and the lack of interest in the show.

I don't deny Abhira or Abhi stans can be toxic but I do dislike the generalisation that goes on around here. Not all Abhi stans are teenagers or anti feminists or bullies.