You may call it a sudden realisation but I woke up one morning about a week ago and thought that I do not want any truck absolutely with the (self-inflicted) miseries of an (unpaid) maid trying to belence her useless matke.
Yes, we have mocked her out of frustration many a times, but the character of Anupamaa truly deserves better.
Because it truly doesn’t deserve sane viewers wasting their time and emotion on it in any sense.
I am happy for you and I would want to cut off from this show entirely too. This forum is almost addicting and truth be told I am still invested in the Anupama and Anuj that I had seen and loved. It's proving more difficult to let go than I thought.
Truly, Anupama deserved better. I remember rooting for Anupama in the early days as she was someone who could be as relatable as possible in an ITV show on a middle aged woman searching for her own individuality after so many years. That show with its moving tracks of Anupama learning to drive, going out with Devika under the Shahs nose, taking divorce, moving to a rented house and so many things seems to be a different one with no resemblance to this one.
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Couldn't quote you, I guess you have made your profile inactive again. Frankly, wise decision, keep well and hope to reconnect on a good serial's forum. 
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