Abhir feels ignored: Epi Air Date 18 May 2023 - Page 16

Originally posted by: IAMHope

He talked about what was made in his house daily food and he broke his answer into two one I suppose when his mom was alive and the second part now when they buy food from outside. I felt very bad for him. In many families the mom is the anchor. 😭

I wonder what cancer she succumbed to.

No idea Ash but it’s sad she looks quite young in the photo

No wonder he’s so philosophical and serious sometimes, I think his mom died in 2013/2014 Ash . I think he said for the last couple of months they don’t have a cook, or was it for 10 years.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I really don't understand what makers are trying to show ak 6 years se prepare kar rahi hai. She could have read all important case files now as 6 years is enough for her to do that.

Instead of keeping all the things ready she is just ignoring abhir and on a call with lawyer to give him points. What was her real prepartion all these years

Ab practical experience aayi na voh lawyer k sath meeting ka.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Ab practical experience aayi na voh lawyer k sath meeting ka.

Does that mean Abhir ka surgery ho gayi and he is at BH ? 383 /8 ....is it Abhi got custody ? ....i m confused

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Guys most awaited abhim is going to slam manjari. 😎i think. Look at 384/10 & 385 /2. He calls and slams badly. Actors are manjari and arohi 😆

No I think he snaps at Arohi because remember in the earlier scene she was caught talking to Akshara on the phone. Must be giving away Abhimanyu's strategy. But even after he will say "Arohi I promise to marry you" but in gussa

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Only two things which pulled me.

1. Arohi looks hints jaan ja rahi hai.

2. Manju says surgery hogayai.

Might be surgery didn't happen and mata is talking about old one. If it was we could have got promo for surgery by now.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

I have a feeling Abhir will be asked his opinion on the custody claim and based on what Nav told him (it’s a surgery before the big surgery) he will pick DocMan.

So the child will respond based on that understanding and pick DocMan and Abhi will gain custody. Possible?

Aree yaar jo baccha thek nhi heu usko lekar b nhi aayenge.

No scenes of Abhira. Several of AbhiM and Ar and Manj

And to be very honest , I definitely don’t want Akshara to be a heartless person who would use Nav and then throw him .. whether she loves him or not so far both of them have stood by what they have built very sincerely .. and that definitely counts for something .. I want Abhira to happen .. but I definitely don’t want them to happen with them deliberately using or hurting other people sand being okay with it in the name of love .. she had a love marriage. But what did it get her? The guy who claimed to not be able toLive without her , didn’t take a second to throw her out .. what is the use of such love? Is it even love really? How does anyone say he still loves her the way love is really supposed to be is a mystery to me ..Arohi has history so to some extent I can rationalise things that happen with her .. but Abhinav definitely has only been good to Abhir abd Akshara and has stood by her at her lowest .. the result of that cannot be her throwing him.. that part I hope they handle well .. I am saying this because I am hoping they will rebuild Abhira and this time it will be a good love story .. what was that sahaj pake wala dialogue by Mimi before Abhira2.0 .. I would like to see a slow build up with good moments .. although I have no reason to trust makers I guess I can still hope till they break that hope ..

Originally posted by: solembaum

Watched today .. Abhimanyu was smart .. but his definition of family .. no wonder Akshara said he never even. Considered her family .. where did he support her when she needed ? And just being superficially nice is not what family is .. even Neel, Parth, Anisha - no one got the right kind of guidance or care in that house .. not to talk about a bunch of noncompoop adults .. but anyway it was a good move on Abhimanyu’s part and hopefully Ru and Abhir will continue to gel well .. I just hope Abhir won’t become the Akshara in that relationship .. Again since Ru is the tantrum queen, Abhimanyu abd co would continue to handle her with kid gloves like Arohi was handled by Goenkas and Abhir will be the understanding kid like Akshara and I wonder if history will repeat there .. but for now one problem solved .. Don’t know about everyone , but I think it is normal for such things to happen like what is happening between Akshara , Abhinav sbd Abhir .. I am sure there are days when we have done this with our kids or our parents have done this with us that they are busy with something else abd couldn’t listen to us when we wanted to talk .. and I understabd Nav’s insecurity too .. it is natural .. and I don’t get why people get riled up by Akshara .. whether we like it or not , she is married to Abhinav and she really believes that Nav has fulfilled all responsibilities of a father.. what do people expect her to do? Abhir went with docman and Ruhi .. she will not go behind them to check or take care right? She has been playing fair and assumes he will be taken care of .. and don’t we all have moments when our partner has to bolster our failing confidence or courage ? I don’t know about interpretations like Meher etc .. but as far as I am concerned as a layman viewer who does not understand any deeper meanings or symbolism , Akshara is fighting to keep her son with her and her husband .. she is obviously going to assuage her husband that he is indeed papa.. and he is too for all practical purposes .. he is not worldly wise and he is not smart or rich or handsome .. but he is the one who ended up being papa to Abhir because Abhir’s birth father felt his mother is not fit to be part of his family , that she is a murderer and he cannot risk his family because of her.. so he threw her out from his life .. it was his choice and following that she made a choice .. and she built a world around that choice .. I don’t think she is fighting to prove Abhimanyu is father and she is mother .. whatever else I might think of Akshara , I am yet to see a case where I felt she was acting deliberately to bring something negative in someone’s life .. she is still a person who is an empath.. yes she doesn’t empathise much with Abhimanyu .. but he is the person who promised her the world and then abandoned her in her hour of need .. but she is definitely not a use people and throw them person .. so just like Abhimanyu is fighting for full custody , she is fighting too and she needs her partner to feel confident and comfortable in his skin .. she cannot win this fight alone , if Abhinav will look doubtful and tentative in court .. I don’t mean to say as a single mother she cannot win … I mean she is married and she and Abhinav are the family the kid knows .. so they have to be strong as a unit and right now Abhinav is overwhelmed by situations he has never thought of or faced in life and the kind of dynamics and politics that he has never had to think of .. and why is it wrong of her to try and address that ? Anyway I too hope for one win for Akshara .. but let us see what makers have in store..

I agree with everything you said except this is the one instance where it is GLARINGLY obvious that Akshara made a wrong choice with Abhinav. Just because he saved her and her kid she married him. What is the logic. A marriage is a lifelong relationship and commitment. If Abhimanyu and Akshara are not suited for each other, neither are Abhinav and Akshara. Their backgrounds are so different that they will never gel. He is so unprepared and unfit and out of place in this situation. That is because he has never been given the tools to deal with these kind of situations. Plus sorry but he seems a little dim and slow to understand things. Does he really think he can compete with Abhimanyu's wealth by driving a cab? Is he seriously so dumb and dense. He is also not a good partner when things are crazy or when troubles arise. Also he loves being praised and will do anything to make the other person think he is good including throwing his partner under the bus. Each time we have seen Akshara rise to his defense, I have not seen Abhinav do the same for her