Aarohi ka PUNARVIVAH

Punarvivah show mai and bahot sare real life couple mai dekha hai ki jab ladka - ladki dono ke bacche ho and dusra shaddi kar rahe ho tab dono parties ek dusre ke bacche ko pyar se accept kar ke he aage badhte hai.

Jab log punarvivah karte hai tab bacche ko samjate hai ki naye papa or nayi mummy ke sath ek bhai ya ek behen bhi ayega.

Yaha bade papa Abhimanyu ne bachpan se chote bhai ki beti ko pyar diya , confidence diya ki woh uske poppy banege , chote bhai ki biwi mai koi interest nahi hai fir bhi chote bhai ki beti ke liye forcefully he sahi, shaddi karna accept kiya kyunki chote bhai ki beti se bahot pyar hai.

6 saal ki chote bhai ki bacchi ko bade papa jo poppi hai unhone pyar diya , pamper kiya , priority diya lekin iss bacchi and uski maa ne khud he iss baat ko apne mann mai badhava diya ki SIRF AND SIRF RUHI KE POPPY bann kar he bade bhai ko chote bhai ki beti ke liye jina hai. He can’t have his own relations near him.

Aj bhi iss baat ko aarohi ne itna protsahit kiya ki ruhi can’t share poppy with anyone so iss punarvivah mai poppy can’t have his child around him ! Seriously! 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Agar aarohi ko apni beti ke liye PUNARVIVAH karna hai toh sabse pehle toh usko khud ko yeh baat accept karna chahiye ki yeh punarvivah hai and jaise Abhimanyu uski beti ke sath usko accept kar raha hai waise he usko bhi achanak se unki zindgi mai aye hue bete ke sath Abhimanyu ko accept karna padega kyunki jab bacche ke sath punarvivah hota hai toh aise he log acceptance ke sath aage badhte hai.

Yaha toh aarohi khud he aisa punarvivah chahti hai jisme uski beti ko sab kuch mile lekin dusro party can’t have his child around him kyunki uski 6 saal ki beti ke liye woh sharing mai papa nahi chahti hai.

Agar aisa hai toh aarohi has 2 option for punarvivah, yah toh woh koi aise admi se punarvivah kare jiska koi baccha na ho so uski 6 saal ki ruhi ko kisi se papa share na karne pade or woh apni 6 saal ki beti mai yeh nurture kare ki uske jo bhi papa banege woh sirf and sirf usi ke papa bann kar rahe aisa zaruri nahi hai or she can lead her life without doing any punarvivah.

It was good to see how she handled manjari today and how she made her stand clear.

Ab jab usne apna stand clear kar he diya hai ki usko aisa punarvivah Abhimanyu se chahiye jisme uski beti ko kisi ke sath papa share na karne pade toh fir toh usko aise admi se punarvivah karna chahiye jiska khud ka koi baccha na ho.

Aarohi punarvivah mai yeh expect nahi kar sakti ki uski 6 saal ki beti ko akele ko sab kuch mile isiliye other party can’t have his child around him.

Bacchi ko pyar dena , pamper karna priority dena ek baat hai lekin iske badle mann mai yeh badhava dena ki iss admi par meri beti ke allawa kisi ka haqq ho he nahi sakta yeh toh bahot nichi baat hai.

Khud ko apni beti ke liye punarvivah bhi karna hai, khud yeh bhi chahti hai ki dusri party par sirf and sirf usi ki beti ka haqq Ho and dusri party ka baccha toh uske around tak gawara nahi hai . Yeh kaisi baat hui!🤮

And usko toh day 1 se pata hai na ki Abhimanyu can’t balance anything fir kyun banaya usko poppy? Kyun karna hai usse punarvivah ? And agar Abhimanyu se he punarvivah karna hai toh accept him with his child . Condition nahi rakh sakti ki agar abhir ghar mai aya toh woh and Ruhi ghar chod kar chale jayege. Better you don’t do punarvivah and stay as Neil’s widow or leave as Neil’s widow.

Ruhi ki galti - poppy ko leke bahut posesssive. Even though poppy ne khud dher saare vaade kiya the usse. Tab Abhir equation main nahi tha. Ab achanak se aa gaya and Ruhi is supposed to deal with all the changes.Kyunki Abhimanyu aapne bete ko nahi chod sakta

Ruhi sirf 6 saal ki. Ruhi ke liye Abhir uske Maasi-Mausa ka beta hai. Uska sibling naahi hai Cousin haa. Agar aapke Papa aapke Mausi ke bete ko aapse zyada pyaar kaare toh bhi usse bura nahi laga chahiya kya

Abhimanyu made promises to Aarohi. But still She is not supposed to hold him accountable for it

In sab main Aarohi se lekar Ruhi tak sabki galti haa

Paar Abhimanyu uska kya. Kya uski koi galti ha ya nahi

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Ruhi ki galti - poppy ko leke bahut posesssive. Even though poppy ne khud dher saare vaade kiya the usse. Tab Abhir equation main nahi tha. Ab achanak se aa gaya and Ruhi is supposed to deal with all the changes.Kyunki Abhimanyu aapne bete ko nahi chod sakta

Ruhi sirf 6 saal ki. Ruhi ke liye Abhir uske Maasi-Mausa ka beta hai. Uska sibling naahi hai Cousin haa. Agar aapke Papa aapke Mausi ke bete ko aapse zyada pyaar kaare toh bhi usse bura nahi laga chahiya kya

Abhimanyu made promises to Aarohi. But still She is not supposed to hold him accountable for it

In sab main Aarohi se lekar Ruhi tak sabki galti haa

Paar Abhimanyu uska kya. Kya uski koi galti ha ya nahi

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ko priority diya itne saal yeh uska galti hai?

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ko pamper kiya ye uska galti hai?

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ka PTM attend kiya yeh uska galti hai?

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ka poppy se papa banne ka vada kiya yeh uski galti he hai na! Kyunki poppy se papa banne ki kimmat yeh hai ki iss punarvivah ke baad puri zindgi sirf bhai ki beti ke poppy bann kar raho aur apne achanak se mile bete ko bhul jao kyunki samnewala party nahi chahti ki uski beti papa share kare.

You are wrong, problem yeh nahi hai ki ruhi yeh samajti hai ki abhir uske masa masi ka beta hai, problem yeh hai ki ruhi mai aarohi ne yeh nurture kiya hai poppy ki life mai ruhi ke allawa koi rishta ho he nahi sakta.

Aarohi ki bhi punarvivah mai yeh condition hai ki since uski beti poppy share nahi kar sakti so aarohi doesn’t want shared father so samnewale admi ka bete unke around nahi rehna chahiye. That’s why aarohi should search for man jiska koi apna baccha na ho so ruhi ko kabhi father share na karna pade.

Agar ek bacche ke Baap Abhimanyu se yah kisi bhi bacche wale admi se shadi karegi toh ofcourse jaise dusre purnavivah mai bacche share karte hai ekdusre ke sath parents waise he aarohi ko bhi open rehna padega.

OFCOURSE RUHI IS SUPPOSE TO DEAL WITH CHANGES BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS DOING PUNARVIVAH

Baccha 4 saal ka ho , 6 saal ka ho , 10 saal ka ho yah 12 saal ka ho , jab maa bacche wale admi se punarvivah karti hai tab dono party ke bacche ko yeh samjaya jata hai naye papa or nayi mummy ke sath bhai behen bhi ayega sath. Aisa kahi nahi hota ki 4,6,8,10 saal ke baccho ko kabhi kuch samjaya he nahi jata jab unke parents punarvivah karte hai tab.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ko pyar diya yeh uski galti hai?

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ko priority diya itne saal yeh uska galti hai?

Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ko pamper kiya ye uska galti hai?
Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ka PTM attend kiya yeh uska galti hai?
Abhimanyu ne chote bhai ki beti ka poppy se papa banne ka vada kiya yeh uski galti he hai na! Kyunki poppy se papa banne ki kimmat yeh hai ki iss punarvivah ke baad puri zindgi sirf bhai ki beti ke poppy bann kar raho aur apne achanak se mile bete ko bhul jao kyunki samnewala party nahi chahti ki uski beti papa share kare.

You are wrong problem yeh nahi hai ki ruhi yeh samajti hai ki abhir uske masa masi ka beta hai, problem yeh hai ki ruhi mai aarohi ne yeh nurture kiya hai poppy ki life mai ruhi ke allawa koi rishta ho he nahi sakta.

Aarohi ki bhi punarvivah mai yeh condition hai ki since uski beti poppy share nahi kar sakti so aarohi doesn’t want shared father so samnewale admi ka bete unke around nahi rehna chahiye. That’s why aarohi should search for man jiska koi apna baccha na ho so ruhi ko kabhi father share na karna pade.

Agar ek bacche ke Baap Abhimanyu se yah kisi bhi bacche wale admi se shadi karegi toh ofcourse jaise dusre purnavivah mai bacche share karte hai ekdusre ke sath parents waise he aarohi ko bhi open rehna padega.

Haa. Abhimanyu ki galti haa. There is no point denying it

Usne bachpan se Ruhi ko ye yakeen dilaya ki usi life Ruhi sabse zyada important haan. "Ruhi poppy ka pura dil haa" "Poppy Ruhi ke tunes pe dance karte hai" etc

Ruhi ke maan main ye baat ki Abhimanyu ki life main sirf Rhi hi hai. WOh Abhimanyu ne hi daal hi

Shaadi bhi Usne aur Uski maa ne propose kiya tha. Aarohi ne nahi. Usne convince kiya tha Aarohi ko shaadi ke liye. Aur jab sagai hui thi tab Abhir equation main nahi tha

Ab aachanak se aa gaya

Jab ek baache wale aadmi se shaadi karte hai tab Ladki ko baache ke baare main pehle se pata hota haa

Yaha sagai hone ke baad pata chal raha. Uski baachi se saare kasme vaade karne ke baad pata chal raha haa

Abhimanyu ko pehle hi manaa karne dena chahiya tha Manjari ko shaadi ke liye. Aur Ruhi se baade vaade nahi kane chahiye the. Tu mera dil ki dhadkan ho vagera vagera

Abhimanyu ki galti hai. Is main ko do rai nahi ha

WOh aapna pala jhad nahi sakta

Usko wajah se Ruhi ko ab zindagi bhaar Trust aur abondonment issue honge

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Haa. Abhimanyu ki galti haa. There is no point denying it

Usne bachpan se Ruhi ko ye yakeen dilaya ki usi life Ruhi sabse zyada important haan. "Ruhi poppy ka pura dil haa" "Poppy Ruhi ke tunes pe dance karte hai" etc

Ruhi ke maan main ye baat ki Abhimanyu ki life main sirf Rhi hi hai. WOh Abhimanyu ne hi daal hi

Shaadi bhi Usne aur Uski maa ne propose kiya tha. Aarohi ne nahi. Usne convince kiya tha Aarohi ko shaadi ke liye. Aur jab sagai hui thi tab Abhir equation main nahi tha

Ab aachanak se aa gaya

Jab ek baache wale aadmi se shaadi karte hai tab Ladki ko baache ke baare main pehle se pata hota haa

Yaha sagai hone ke baad pata chal raha. Uski baachi se saare kasme vaade karne ke baad pata chal raha haa

Abhimanyu ko pehle hi manaa karne dena chahiya tha Manjari ko shaadi ke liye. Aur Ruhi se baade vaade nahi kane chahiye the. Tu mera dil ki dhadkan ho vagera vagera

Abhimanyu ki galti hai. Is main ko do rai nahi ha

WOh aapna pala jhad nahi sakta

Usko wajah se Ruhi ko ab zindagi bhaar Trust aur abondonment issue honge

Aarohi bachpan se he hamesha seerat and kartik ki ONLY daughter bann kar rehna chahti thi but Akshara kartik ki legit beti thi so yeh ho nahi saka . Woh jo apne liye chahti thi wohi same aj apni beti ke liye chahti hai ki woh hamesha ek lauti aulaad ban kar rahe uss admi ki bhi jisse woh punarvivah kare.

Ek lauti aulaad bann kar rehne ki aarohi ki chah ki wajah se he barso pehle Akshara ko woh sideline karna chahti thi apne liye and Aj Abhir ko sideline karna chahti hai apni beti ke liye.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Poppy ki life mai sirf ruhi hai lekin hamesha poppy ki life mai sirf chote bhai ki beti he rahegi aur koi kabhi nahi hoga iss baat ko nurture karne mai aarohi ka main role hai.

Aarohi bachpan se he hamesha seerat and kartik ki ONLY daughter bann kar rehna chahti thi but Akshara kartik ki legit beti thi so yeh ho nahi saka . Woh jo apne liye chahti thi wohi same aj apni beti ke liye chahti hai ki woh hamesha ek lauti aulaad ban kar rahe uss admi ki bhi jisse woh punarvivah kare.

Ek lauti aulaad bann kar rehne ki aarohi ki chah ki wajah se he barso pehle Akshara ko woh sideline karna chahti thi apne liye and Aj Abhir ko sideline karna chahti hai apni beti ke liye.

Abhimanyu ka bhi lead role ha. Aarohi ke saath saath

"Poppy aapke tunes se dance karte hai" "Poppy ka dil ho" etc etc waali baat sab Abhimanyu ne uske dimaag daali haa

Woh apni galti se bhaag nahi sakta

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Abhimanyu ka bhi lead role ha. Aarohi ke saath saath

"Poppy aapke tunes se dance karte hai" "Poppy ka dil ho" etc etc waali baat sab Abhimanyu ne uske dimaag daali haa

Woh apni galti se bhaag nahi sakta

Bhai ki beti ko apna dil maan kar pyar karna galti nahi hai.
Agar bhai ki beti ko yeh jataya ki woh uska dil hai, uske tunes par dance karta hai etc toh bhi yeh galti itna bada nahi hai ki Punarvivah ki condition aisi ho ki iss punarvivah mai aarohi ki beti ko sab kuch mile isliye dusri party ko apne achanak se mile rishte chodne padega.

Agar koi punarvivah mai aisi condition rakkhe ki mere baccha ek lauta bann kar rahega , tumhare bacche ka presence around nahi hona chahiye toh fir aisa punarvivah karna he kyun?

Punarvivah mai dono parties ko ekdusre ke bacche ki presence ko accept karna hota hai and apne bacche ko iske liye taiyar karna hota hai irrespective to child’s age. Agar aisa hai toh aarohi ko bacchewale admi se punarvivah karna he nahi chahiye.

OFCOURSE RUHI IS SUPPOSE TO DEAL WITH CHANGES BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS DOING PUNARVIVAH

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Bhai ki beti ko apna dil maan kar pyar karna galti nahi hai.
Agar bhai ki beti ko yeh jataya ki woh uska dil hai, uske tunes par dance karta hai etc toh bhi yeh galti itna bada nahi hai ki Punarvivah ki condition aisi ho ki iss punarvivah mai aarohi ki beti ko sab kuch mile isliye dusri party ko apne achanak se mile rishte chodne padega.

Agar koi punarvivah mai aisi condition rakkhe ki mere baccha ek lauta bann kar rahega , tumhare bacche ka presence around nahi hona chahiye toh fir aisa punarvivah karna he kyun?

Punarvivah mai dono parties ko ekdusre ke bacche ki presence ko accept karna hota hai and apne bacche ko iske liye taiyar karna hota hai irrespective to child’s age. Agar aisa hai toh aarohi ko bacchewale admi se punarvivah karna he nahi chahiye.

OFCOURSE RUHI IS SUPPOSE TO DEAL WITH CHANGES BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS DOING PUNARVIVAH

Galat hai. Kissi bacchi ko ye yakeen dilana ki woh hi tumahri sab kuch hai aur baad main mukkar jana galat haai.

Punarvivah main dono party ko ek dusre ke baache ke baare main pehle se pata hota hai. Aarohi ko sagai ke baad pata chala

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Galat hai. Kissi bacchi ko ye yakeen dilana ki woh hi tumahri sab kuch hai aur baad main mukkar jana galat haai.

See, I know you like Abhimanyu s character. Paar hum jo characters ko like karte hai woh hamesh perfect ya flawless nahi hote. Aarohi aur ABhimanyu dono ki galti haai

Punarvivah main dono party ko ek dusre ke baache ke baare main pehle se pata hota hai. Aarohi ko sagai ke baad pata chala

Jo dikhaya hai according to that iss punarvivah mai Abhimanyu is loving for Aarohi’s daughter but aarohi wants to discard other party’s child from their life kyunki “ek lauta “ rehne ki uski bachpan se he chah rahi hai

Abhimanyu is wrong jab usne neil ki biwi and beti ko yeh indication diya ki neil ki beti is the only person who is her priority. Kabhi kisi ko aisa indication dena he nahi chahiye ki you are my priority except your own child. This is his main mistake. Pyar karo par yeh indication na do ki you are my priority kyunki priorities situation ke hisab se update hoti rehti hai day to day life mai.

Aarohi and Abhimanyu dono ko sagai ke baad pata chala ki abhimanyu bacchewala admi hai lekin shaddi se toh pehle pata chal Gaya hai na ki other party bacchewala admi hai , ab agar usko dusri party ke bacche ki presence se problem hai toh usko punarvivah karna he nahi chahiye.

Jaise koi aarohi se yeh force nahi kar sakta ki tum abhir ko accept kar ke punarvivah karo waise he aarohi bhi yeh force nahi kar sakti ki ruhi ko ek lauti aulad maan kar Abhimanyu uske sath punarvivah kare.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Punarvivah show mai and bahot sare real life couple mai dekha hai ki jab ladka - ladki dono ke bacche ho and dusra shaddi kar rahe ho tab dono parties ek dusre ke bacche ko pyar se accept kar ke he aage badhte hai.

Jab log punarvivah karte hai tab bacche ko samjate hai ki naye papa or nayi mummy ke sath ek bhai ya ek behen bhi ayega.

Yaha bade papa Abhimanyu ne bachpan se chote bhai ki beti ko pyar diya , confidence diya ki woh uske poppy banege , chote bhai ki biwi mai koi interest nahi hai fir bhi chote bhai ki beti ke liye forcefully he sahi, shaddi karna accept kiya kyunki chote bhai ki beti se bahot pyar hai.

6 saal ki chote bhai ki bacchi ko bade papa jo poppi hai unhone pyar diya , pamper kiya , priority diya lekin iss bacchi and uski maa ne khud he iss baat ko apne mann mai badhava diya ki SIRF AND SIRF RUHI KE POPPY bann kar he bade bhai ko chote bhai ki beti ke liye jina hai. He can’t have his own relations near him.

Aj bhi iss baat ko aarohi ne itna protsahit kiya ki ruhi can’t share poppy with anyone so iss punarvivah mai poppy can’t have his child around him ! Seriously! 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Agar aarohi ko apni beti ke liye PUNARVIVAH karna hai toh sabse pehle toh usko khud ko yeh baat accept karna chahiye ki yeh punarvivah hai and jaise Abhimanyu uski beti ke sath usko accept kar raha hai waise he usko bhi achanak se unki zindgi mai aye hue bete ke sath Abhimanyu ko accept karna padega kyunki jab bacche ke sath punarvivah hota hai toh aise he log acceptance ke sath aage badhte hai.

Yaha toh aarohi khud he aisa punarvivah chahti hai jisme uski beti ko sab kuch mile lekin dusro party can’t have his child around him kyunki uski 6 saal ki beti ke liye woh sharing mai papa nahi chahti hai.

Agar aisa hai toh aarohi has 2 option for punarvivah, yah toh woh koi aise admi se punarvivah kare jiska koi baccha na ho so uski 6 saal ki ruhi ko kisi se papa share na karne pade or woh apni 6 saal ki beti mai yeh nurture kare ki uske jo bhi papa banege woh sirf and sirf usi ke papa bann kar rahe aisa zaruri nahi hai or she can lead her life without doing any punarvivah.

It was good to see how she handled manjari today and how she made her stand clear.

Ab jab usne apna stand clear kar he diya hai ki usko aisa punarvivah Abhimanyu se chahiye jisme uski beti ko kisi ke sath papa share na karne pade toh fir toh usko aise admi se punarvivah karna chahiye jiska khud ka koi baccha na ho.

Aarohi punarvivah mai yeh expect nahi kar sakti ki uski 6 saal ki beti ko akele ko sab kuch mile isiliye other party can’t have his child around him.

Bacchi ko pyar dena , pamper karna priority dena ek baat hai lekin iske badle mann mai yeh badhava dena ki iss admi par meri beti ke allawa kisi ka haqq ho he nahi sakta yeh toh bahot nichi baat hai.

Khud ko apni beti ke liye punarvivah bhi karna hai, khud yeh bhi chahti hai ki dusri party par sirf and sirf usi ki beti ka haqq Ho and dusri party ka baccha toh uske around tak gawara nahi hai . Yeh kaisi baat hui!🤮

And usko toh day 1 se pata hai na ki Abhimanyu can’t balance anything fir kyun banaya usko poppy? Kyun karna hai usse punarvivah ? And agar Abhimanyu se he punarvivah karna hai toh accept him with his child . Condition nahi rakh sakti ki agar abhir ghar mai aya toh woh and Ruhi ghar chod kar chale jayege. Better you don’t do punarvivah and stay as Neil’s widow or leave as Neil’s widow.

I don't know what all Aruhi said just watched some clips.

Even though what she said to Manju and AbhiM about not thinking about Abhir's mother, even Abhir. It being there zid and what's there plan.

But she is wrong in saying woh accept nahi karegi and all.

I agree with this post.

So even though Aruhi is right somewhere yet she is wrong with her thinking. Like usne bola sab sahi but how she reached that point is wrong.

I somewhere asked too what if Akshara died today all scenarios same and she died. AbhiM will get the custody and not AbhiM then what. As someone jiske bache ko woh banda apna bacha bna kr rkh rha hai she should be acceptable towards his child too.

But in this show sabka matha khrb hai ek banda 50% logic ki baat nahi krta.

Abhinav is mature but I am not liking is driver h toh wahi rahega aur self righteous acts and whatever it's.

I become Surekha nowadays if I watch those clips - hogya inka drama shuru.

No hate to the character still better than all post leap Birlas to me.