Originally posted by: daydreamers
Weaving of past, present and future decisions 
Oftentimes one has to take difficult decisions for a better future. These decisions are harbingers of change. 
We look at future as our destiny. But if we change our perspective, the past was our destiny and future is our freewill. 
In this tug of war of destiny and freewill, a decision can change the course of our entire life. 
I wanted to call this post as "decision" but when I look at the pattern being weaved I stick to "Past, Present, Future". 
Today's situation is a result of decisions made in the past - be it BK, Virat, Pakhi, Sai Or Amba. 
If BK was like this in the past, didi puraan would have never begun and Ghum never would have started. Giving her some credit there. 
Today, their realizations have struck at wrong moments. At a moment when too much water has passed and now those who enter it will only drown. 
I recall making few posts on this in Sherry's thread on Shiddat. This particular track is a culmination of those patterns. 
A time which needs to be handled with care and passivity, everyone is jumping the gun and making a decision. 
Be it Sai, Satya Or Virat. Sai was right in calling out BK today. The flame is lit by BK and now everyone is burning in the same. 
Amba is right in advising her son. And her words pour out of her own experience. Years ago she took the decision to raise her child on her own because the father then decided to side with his other family. Amba is looking at present with the black glasses of past, so her assessment of future is clear. 
BK wants to influence Sai into changing her decision because she can look right into the storm that's waiting at the corner. 
Virat with his impulsive decision making habit has already led to this chain of events. Satya's decision is only based on the idea of escaping the daily household chatter. 
Sai is making the decision based on her hurt, pain, anger and the past experience with Pakhi being in the middle. 
Everyone's decision currently is a foggy picture of past, present and future who either want to escape pain, avoid damage or start a new life. 
Though each of them wants a change, none of them is willing to change.