Why did you like Abhimanyu? - Page 3

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Mujhe toh yeh samjh nahi aaya k jab bhi AbhiM ko gussa aata tha toh background mein lion type sound kyun dete the.

If in reality koi aese behave kare woh gaali khayega k bhai tu hai kaun teri sune kyun hum

Uska poora family usse darta hai, phir Goenkas bhi usse darne lage aur sab ladkiyon ko wahi chahiye

Oh!!! Ab mujhe samaj aaya ki woh kya sound tha.. Mujhe laga.. ki earphone mei kuch problem tha.. yaar..

I only heard it when he was confronting Parth...

But when he was throwing his bed and all his bedroom stuff in the room.. tab toh nahi tha? When Ak was pleading with him to not make a sound and he roared at her.. the lion's roar would have synced.. nai? missed opportunity yaar.. koi nai..

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Jab nayi nayi shaddi hoti hai tab ap ke sasural ke internal relations ka zyada idea nahi hota ki logo ki history kya hai kaise react karte hai etc so yeh muje bahot accha laga tha jab Abhimanyu ne Akshara ko nayi nayi shaddi mai clearly yeh bata diya ki yaha logo ke internal relations tumhare maayke jaise nahi hai so kisi ke bhi matter mai matt padna and ho sake utna sirf apne rishte par dhyan dena. Yeh bahot acha start tha jaha husband apni nayi ayi hui wife ko sahi guide kar raha tha. Apne father ko Abhimanyu day 1 se sir bolta tha and openly apni maa ke liye unke sath fight karta tha so yeh clear tha Akshara ke liye ke saas-sasur ka rishta kabhi nahi normal tha yeh alag baat hai ki akshara ne Abhimanyu ke words ka weight/gravity nahi samaja aur harsh-manjari ka anniversary party organise kiya etc etc jisne unke zakham ko hara kar diya tha.

Yeh bhi ek bahot acha part tha jab Abhimanyu Akshara ke singing career ko birlas se protect kar raha tha. Jab harsh mahima ne music department bandh karne ka decision liya tab it was Abhimanyu jisne Akshara ke liye openly sabse fight kiya tha and again yeh alag baat hai ki uske baad Akshara ne yeh decision liya ki woh charity hospital ke music department mai job karna chahti hai so she joined there.

Muje ek aur step bahot acha laga tha jab pata chala ki Akshara pregnant hai but uss pregnancy mai uski jaan ja sakti hai so he was not at all in favour of continuing pregnancy because akshara was always more important than baby for him. Divorce isiliye nahi diya tha ki ab babies nahi rahe toh akshara ko chod diya. Divorce was triggered because of neil’s death.

The best part was india mai aise bahot kum husband hote hai jo wife ki complicated pregnancy ke liye advance mai paternity leave le to take care of wife and Abhimanyu ne bhi yeh step liya and woh Akshara ki bahot acche se care bhi kar raha tha before Neil death case and at that time he was way more careful for babies and Akshara more than akshara.

Akshara ne jab kid ke piche forest stunt kiya tab yeh saaf saaf dikh raha tha ki Akshara dusro ke liye apne babies ki jaan ka risk bhi le sakti hai isiliye fear tha ki Akshara ke aise stunts kahi sabko bhari na padd jaye aur wohi hua. Akshara ka second stunt sabko bahot bhari pad Gaya. As always Akshara ne again dusro ke liye apne babies ki jaan ka risk liya aur iss bar ek baccha aur neil dono ne uss stunt ki kimmat chukai .

Abhimanyu muje tab galat laga jab usne Neil ke death baad immediately divorce diya akshara ko. Akshara ke sath bahot zyada compatibility issues the unke shaddi mai so divorce woh sab kuch shant hone ke baad, akshara ki miscarriage wali body ki recovery ho jane ke baad dena chahiye tha.

Abhimanyu ko chahe Akshara kitni he pasand ho par Muje Akshara kabhi pasand nahi thi Abhimanyu ke liye kyunki woh ladki kisi bhi random se tisre ke liye apne babies , apna pyar daav par laga denewalo mai se thi since day 1, Abhimanyu toh fir bhi sirf apni kaadmata ke liye sab kuch risk mai dal deta hai unlike random sa koi bhi tisra insaan. Akshara kabhi Aarohi ke liye, kabhi random forest kid ke liye, kabhi orphan girls ke liye kisi ke bhi liye apne unborn baccho ko, apne pyar ko daav par laga deti thi. Jab Akshara ne forest stunt/ goons stunt kiya tab aise lag raha tha maano akshara ke liye apne unborn baccho ki jaan , apne babies ke liye ek couple ke Armaan , apne pyar ke sath zindgi butane ke liye apni shaddi ko diya hua dusra mauka sab kuch secondary hai. Agar kuch most important tha toh woh dusre ke liye khud ke baccho ko risk mai daalna bhi no big deal chahe woh forest kid ho yah orphan girls ho, all were always above those unborn babies.

Thanks for the answer..

Will reply in detail after sometime

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

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You cracked me up here.....

ITv ke saare ladies ko aise hi items pasand aate hai and they fight over such losers - every epic show has such MLs and mind it agar FL zaraa awaz bhi utha le gusse mein, she will be tagged as villain or negative... I wonder why no show shows woman getting angry and kicking man out of house 🤣 and see the reaction.. Yaar...

Coming to real post... I may like an actor to an extent but I cannot opt for watching show for one actor if their character sucks. Abhimanyu has some popularity because of HC, and based on what I previously read his character seemed to be a husband who helped his wife grow as person. So, people start watching it for actor and keep building on such nice traits. As @chaaipani mentioned, seems like makers also glorified his anger issues with brave music which may have meant that his anger were usually towards right people and in right situation. 😆

Ek grey female character nahi hai ITV mein not even Beyhadh's maya they started with Grey and ended her as a psychotic lover. Sometimes i wonder JW why defend that character too.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Jab nayi nayi shaddi hoti hai tab ap ke sasural ke internal relations ka zyada idea nahi hota ki logo ki history kya hai kaise react karte hai etc so yeh muje bahot accha laga tha jab Abhimanyu ne Akshara ko nayi nayi shaddi mai clearly yeh bata diya ki yaha logo ke internal relations tumhare maayke jaise nahi hai so kisi ke bhi matter mai matt padna and ho sake utna sirf apne rishte par dhyan dena. Yeh bahot acha start tha jaha husband apni nayi ayi hui wife ko sahi guide kar raha tha. Apne father ko Abhimanyu day 1 se sir bolta tha and openly apni maa ke liye unke sath fight karta tha so yeh clear tha Akshara ke liye ke saas-sasur ka rishta kabhi nahi normal tha yeh alag baat hai ki akshara ne Abhimanyu ke words ka weight/gravity nahi samaja aur harsh-manjari ka anniversary party organise kiya etc etc jisne unke zakham ko hara kar diya tha.

Yeh bhi ek bahot acha part tha jab Abhimanyu Akshara ke singing career ko birlas se protect kar raha tha. Jab harsh mahima ne music department bandh karne ka decision liya tab it was Abhimanyu jisne Akshara ke liye openly sabse fight kiya tha and again yeh alag baat hai ki uske baad Akshara ne yeh decision liya ki woh charity hospital ke music department mai job karna chahti hai so she joined there.

Muje ek aur step bahot acha laga tha jab pata chala ki Akshara pregnant hai but uss pregnancy mai uski jaan ja sakti hai so he was not at all in favour of continuing pregnancy because akshara was always more important than baby for him. Divorce isiliye nahi diya tha ki ab babies nahi rahe toh akshara ko chod diya. Divorce was triggered because of neil’s death.

The best part was india mai aise bahot kum husband hote hai jo wife ki complicated pregnancy ke liye advance mai paternity leave le to take care of wife and Abhimanyu ne bhi yeh step liya and woh Akshara ki bahot acche se care bhi kar raha tha before Neil death case and at that time he was way more careful for babies and Akshara more than akshara.

Akshara ne jab kid ke piche forest stunt kiya tab yeh saaf saaf dikh raha tha ki Akshara dusro ke liye apne babies ki jaan ka risk bhi le sakti hai isiliye fear tha ki Akshara ke aise stunts kahi sabko bhari na padd jaye aur wohi hua. Akshara ka second stunt sabko bahot bhari pad Gaya. As always Akshara ne again dusro ke liye apne babies ki jaan ka risk liya aur iss bar ek baccha aur neil dono ne uss stunt ki kimmat chukai .

Abhimanyu muje tab galat laga jab usne Neil ke death baad immediately divorce diya akshara ko. Akshara ke sath bahot zyada compatibility issues the unke shaddi mai so divorce woh sab kuch shant hone ke baad, akshara ki miscarriage wali body ki recovery ho jane ke baad dena chahiye tha.

Abhimanyu ko chahe Akshara kitni he pasand ho par Muje Akshara kabhi pasand nahi thi Abhimanyu ke liye kyunki woh ladki kisi bhi random se tisre ke liye apne babies , apna pyar daav par laga denewalo mai se thi since day 1, Abhimanyu toh fir bhi sirf apni kaadmata ke liye sab kuch risk mai dal deta hai unlike random sa koi bhi tisra insaan. Akshara kabhi Aarohi ke liye, kabhi random forest kid ke liye, kabhi orphan girls ke liye kisi ke bhi liye apne unborn baccho ko, apne pyar ko daav par laga deti thi. Jab Akshara ne forest stunt/ goons stunt kiya tab aise lag raha tha maano akshara ke liye apne unborn baccho ki jaan , apne babies ke liye ek couple ke Armaan , apne pyar ke sath zindgi butane ke liye apni shaddi ko diya hua dusra mauka sab kuch secondary hai. Agar kuch most important tha toh woh dusre ke liye khud ke baccho ko risk mai daalna bhi no big deal chahe woh forest kid ho yah orphan girls ho, all were always above those unborn babies.

I agree with you somehow but the flaws you mentioned in Akshu that AbhiM have too. Way more protective, way more possessive if Akshu was new in the equation of Birla family so was AbhiM.

Aru was wrong and with time more of black then grey but AbhiM way of treating her was wrong. He did left her at the altar and no one gave her time to grieve too. Anyways that's apart.

Even if I agree 100% with all your points, nothing can justify what AbhiM and his mother did with Akshu when Neil died.

When he can have/grow empathy towards Aru who by the way was a compulsive liar and faked pregnancy a day or two ago before Neil died coz of the situation.

Where was this concern for your love of the life, meri Akshu, uske bina kya karunga who just miscarriaged your babies whom you anyway wanted to abort coz of her life.

Chalo Mahima and all toh were like never cared but Abhi, his ma, Akshu's family you got time to celebrate a freaking b'day but ghar ki bachi hai kahan, meri duniya meri Akshu hai kahan no idea except for Bade papa and then that ph call of marriage.

No one visited her if they did, they would have known the conditions she is living in, that she is pregnant but no one and that is the reason they don't know about Abhir's parentage.

Like Akshu aptly put out agar us din woh mar jaati tab bhi yahi krte, Neil ko ghar se nikal dete.

And kuch nahi toh general courtesy mein usko uske ghar chod aate bolte baad mein baat hogi and baad mein boldete k bhai divorce humnse na ho payega

But the way they treated Akshu after claiming Akshu toh ghar ki jaan hai and all is something sbe didn't deserve.

So yes AbhiM doesn't deserve Abhir, his family doesn't deserve both Akshu and Abhir.

PS: I hate the current track and how they are on their way to butcher Akshu's character more

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Ek grey female character nahi hai ITV mein not even Beyhadh's maya they started with Grey and ended her as a psychotic lover. Sometimes i wonder JW why defend that character too.

If you've watched Anupama... I seriously want FL like Kavya in some show.... But little less Psycho version... Like somewhere in middle... Kavya went neurotic to blindly hate Anupama🤪 but they always glorified Anupama and Kavya became negative lady for audience.

Maya was always negative... 😆 she kinda killed Pandit in the promo itself who predicted bad omen as Arjun and her wedding. I doubt any ML killing could have redemption arc.. But who knows... ITv has done such things before. Maya remained the lead till end but she was extremely... Beyhadh..

Then little more tolerable version was Janvi from Sarvagun Sampan show, which was decent... She did horrible things with her difficult childhood, but she had gotten boring arc post leap.

Originally posted by: umawanderer

Let me tell this first.. This is not sarcastic post.

I am simply curious. Why did you love the character, 'Abhimanyu'. For me he is not as bad as Vanraj Shah.. but near Virat Chawhan.. That is why I can not understand this overflowing love towards his character.

I liked him because I liked harshad I think. It was my first serial of him. I was seeing some issues in him before marriage too but I did ignore all because I loved his acting and maybe looks too haa haa. I don't know if it was harshad or Abhimanyu I was liking. But that didn't stay for long. After marriage my conscience just could not support Abhimanyu. He was getting butchered day by day and I could see that. Started separating character from actor. Now I have zero sympathy for Abhimanyu but I still enjoy watching Harshad on screen. Just want him to get a new female lead opposite him whom he will fall in love with and we see parallel story because I can never connect with Abhira again.

I like Abhimanyu because he is not a typically white character, he is not a sugary sweet like Anuj (Pre-IPL 2023) or completely kameena like Virat

He was always a perfect balance of good and bad, I like characters I can relate to, the choice is limited as ITV doesn't really have a character graph because characters behave differently in different track. I don't relate to people who do only good or only bad, this one dimensional approach is boring

Like in upcoming track, people want Abhimanyu to behave nicely, I want him to be a total a$$ and use his power and money to win Abhir then realize that Abhir wants his parents and give him back

It doesn't make him bad or wrong, he is just like any human, who'd do anything in his power to get what he wants and give up on him because the love he has for his son means more to him than the need to be with his son

Although, I don't understand what he likes in Akshara, I just see that as an ITV quirk and ignore it

Don’t know . But I like Abhimanyu ,🤩and abhira 🥰.. I liked akshara as well .. but I am irritated with akshara character ,, 🤯seems like she is not ruling her life but her gussa ,,, she is not in love with Abhinav ,🤷🏼‍♀️, but to show her anger towards what Abhimanyu did 6 years back she is doing this ,,, patha Nahi kab she will get her senses back 🙄 .. And an answer for your sarcasm .. i love harshad and whatever Khadiya role he plays 🤪

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

If you've watched Anupama... I seriously want FL like Kavya in some show.... But little less Psycho version... Like somewhere in middle... Kavya went neurotic to blindly hate Anupama🤪 but they always glorified Anupama and Kavya became negative lady for audience.

Maya was always negative... 😆 she kinda killed Pandit in the promo itself who predicted bad omen as Arjun and her wedding. I doubt any ML killing could have redemption arc.. But who knows... ITv has done such things before. Maya remained the lead till end but she was extremely... Beyhadh..

Then little more tolerable version was Janvi from Sarvagun Sampan show, which was decent... She did horrible things with her difficult childhood, but she had gotten boring arc post leap.

People only say they want to see gray characters who r not mahaan , more human , it's just in their minds. Theycan never accept gray characters. It's just a means to justify their fav chars.... ke they r human they make mistakes.

Look at akshara. She is in gray zone but she is being continously bashed.... for going against Mr. God abhimanyu, for choosing abhinav over abhimanyu , for keeping abhir from abhimanyu , for not consulting anyone for her abhir , for Neil's death , for the death of one of her babies , the list is endless.

The fact is audience r more flexible in accepting abhimanyu type toxic characters but fls r not given any leverage at all.

I seriously don't wanna see positive negative or gray women . I wanna see kickass , smart , sensible women , at least partially. I believe akshu is taking the correct decisions for herself and abhir but the problem is she can't defend herself against her toxic family n let's her biggest weakness rule her ..abhi Nd the toxic families. The day she can do it , I will cheer for her.