Akshara has no qualification? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Yaar jo khud school mein fail hui hk usse Kaun tuition lega?

May be that’s why inka savings ghar ke gullakh jitna he hai because bank saving ke liye kuch bachta he nahi hoga.

Apne child ko aj mai yeh dekh kar education and degree ka value samja rahi thi.
Ab sab bahot mehenga ho gaya hai and upper middle class life ke liye dono husband-wife ka acha career profile bahot zaruri hai.
Shayad naira uss time zinda hoti toh uski beti school mai aise padhai mai kamzor nahi hoti. Acche se padhati-likhati apni beti ko.

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

Tbh I'm glad they didn't go down that route 'cos many like me r genuinely tired with d single mother trope in every second serial. I'm all for women empowerment but not marrying/raising a child alone isn't d only testament for it. Plus like I've mentioned somewhere before Akshara has never been shown that emotionally strong or career oriented to lead her life alone. Moreover, if she opted for being a single mother we would just get another troubled puzzled child yearning for his papa & being on constant lookout for a father figure, OR we would get a child chronically angry with his father. In this gen itself the difference bw d 2 kids is crystal clear. Abhir has none of the issues or complexes Roo has n has grown up confident, loved n emotionally healthy. Last but not d least, being solo meant one fine day the og sperm donating father Dr. Abhimanyu would return n start lecturing emotional sermons on baap ka farz, baap ka pyaar, baap ka haq (like Kartik, Virat Chavan) & force Akshara back to him. Abhinav's presence shields Akshara n Abhir from returning to that hellhole of a family.

abhinav need not be a stranger. Rather i would have preferred him to be her best friend and since she knew him from long time she decided to marry him.

As it looks more like akshu married the first person who opted to help her in her state. It gives a very bad persona of akshu and makes her desperate. What if she would have found a married man will she marry him too and she married him without any love so even if there was a married man if he lies to her she would have married him too for her child. I do not like the shows where women are shown as weak. Where as in real life women are fighting with the world to get justice for themselves.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Doing very well! Nahi ! Clearly dikh raha hai inke pass koi savings nahi hai 6 saal mai isiliye toh ghar mai he treatment ke liye jewellery and gullakh fod rahe the. Wealthy and rich ka sochna toh illogical hai!

Jitna kharcha hai , jitni zarurat hai utna bhi house income nahi ho raha hai. Abhir’s needs are priority so abhir ko sab best dene ki koshish kar rahe hai but overall apni zarurat thik se puri kare itna bhi inka monthly income nahi hai.
Lol Kasauli jaise chote se kasbe mai jam se fix income kabhi nahi mil sakta , same amount toh bahot durrrrr ki baat hai. Every month nearly stable income home tuitions or banking job or any other job se definitely zyada mil sakta hai.
That’s why I asked about her qualifications. Abhinav ka toh samaj mai aata hai zyada padha likha nahi hai so firms mai usko job nahi mil sakta.

Yeah but it’s not normal for people to get deadly illnesses where they have to arrange 20 lac overnight. And just like you mention, Kasauli the small town, that’s why I said she was probably making the same as she would have made from those other jobs. Abhir was going to a great school and they were eating good food. Pizza here and there, going out sometimes like normal families do. Nav was shown to have a stable income from his business. I don’t think they should them poor, they just showed them middle class.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

May be that’s why inka savings ghar ke gullakh jitna he hai because bank saving ke liye kuch bachta he nahi hoga.

They have money but There is no bank in RishtaVerse, that's why they are collecting/saving their money in gullakh.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

abhinav need not be a stranger. Rather i would have preferred him to be her best friend and since she knew him from long time she decided to marry him.

As it looks more like akshu married the first person who opted to help her in her state. It gives a very bad persona of akshu and makes her desperate. What if she would have found a married man will she marry him too and she married him without any love so even if there was a married man if he lies to her she would have married him too for her child. I do not like the shows where women are shown as weak. Where as in real life women are fighting with the world to get justice for themselves.

Umm as far as I remember, she married him after Abhir’s birth because she saw how he took care of her during her pregnancy and of Abhir after birth. I don’t know why people keep calling him a stranger, she had already known him for at least 5 months if not more by then and people are clearly no longer strangers after that timeframe. Not like she knows Abhimanyu for years before she fell in love/decided to marry him lol.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Yeah but it’s not normal for people to get deadly illnesses where they have to arrange 20 lac overnight. And just like you mention, Kasauli the small town, that’s why I said she was probably making the same as she would have made from those other jobs. Abhir was going to a great school and they were eating good food. Pizza here and there, going out sometimes like normal families do. Nav was shown to have a stable income from his business. I don’t think they should them poor, they just showed them middle class.

Middle class toh nahi hai yar, kyunki aj kal middle class log bhi health insurance lete hai and 5-7 lakh ka saving bhi minimum hota hai unke pass.
Bichare yeh log lower middle class hai shayad.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Umm as far as I remember, she married him after Abhir’s birth because she saw how he took care of her during her pregnancy and of Abhir after birth. I don’t know why people keep calling him a stranger, she had already known him for at least 5 months if not more by then and people are clearly no longer strangers after that timeframe. Not like she knows Abhimanyu for years before she fell in love/decided to marry him lol.

I believe she was in trauma and she was not in state of mind of take decisions and on what is good and what is bad for her. Even if abhinav lied to her and took care of her during her pregnancy will she marry him without being sure that he is safe to marry.

6 months is less too when you don't share any common friends nor you know about their background or family.

Abhinav shown as orphan what if turns out to be fake person who just pretended as orphan to get attention from akshu.

I guess there were lot of ongoing cases where a women was married to married man and he kept his marriage truth hidden from his new wife.

Abhi was well know surgeon his background need not be verified as they are in headlines and they were from well reputed family. But abhinav was stranger and she do not share any common friend nor her family knows him.

If she would have married atleast 3 or 4 years after falling in love with him i was still okay. But sorry it looks very desperate move of her to marry a guy for her child where as she did not even had any love for him. As her sole reason to marry was financial stability for her kid.