The episode was not bad, atleast it stuck to the theme. There was no unwanted or forced romance. Wish they had focussed on this main track a week ago, instead, they were too busy showing Ak's efforts trying to convince Nav the marriage will become real.... too much waste of screen time!
Yesterday, we all were discussing why Ak is the way she is. There are many decisions of hers that I don't agree with. She is too emotional, impulsive, and idealistic when it comes to taking decisions. She doesn't think about the consequences. She is very idealistic in her opinions, and a lot of times they are not suited for the real world. We all agree that her childhood trauma is what makes her shy away from sharing her problems with her family. As a child, she hid her problems and prioritized AR's and then continued to hide hers so that others don't get worried. The net result is that her family always felt she would solve her issues, she was very adjusting, understanding, and capable and she never broke that image. Truth is Ak is a closet rebel.... she does not function to the regular norms of society... she has her ways and things she considers as a priority and she doesn't want those priorities questioned. She wants people to break through her silence to her thoughts and figure out when and what help she needs or work out her real intent behind any decision. And when that doesn't happen, when they question her regarding her off-beat choices/ decisions, she gets dejected ad feels they don't trust her.
Today, we saw Ak/ Nav are both borderline idealistic and impractical. Their attempts at gathering money were quite unrealistic.... who would loan such amounts to a taxi driver and jam maker without any collateral for it.... which world is this couple living in? The fees were such a sticker shock for them. They are talking about dying for their child but will not let their stubbornness die and make a few phone calls!
One thinks her respect will be lost if she goes to Ab.....though she mentioned all the blames she got in Ud, the way she took his name a few times it felt like she hates him so much or thinks he would insult her for asking help? Then she also never understood him..... saving a life is more important to him than anything in this world. He saved Nav's life and never mentioned it again. He used to tell her that he does not let respect/ ego come when dealing with loved ones. That is why he always forgives people, even those who wrong him, does not keep it in mind.... or never hesitates to ask for forgiveness.... Yes, he has anger issues and gets unreasonable, but given a chance, he will make reparations for that . She thinks he never understood love.... truth is his definition of love is just different from hers....it certainly does not make him wrong.
More than disliking AB or UD folks, it was the second thing that terrifies her.... she knows Ab will find out her secret if she takes Abhir to him.... so even now hiding that secret is important. I think it's not only her fear, but she is slightly guilty of hiding Abhir. 6 years back, in a distraught condition she made this life-changing decision. Then she was extremely angered by his angry reactions, and over the years it turned to stubbornness in her to not let Ab ever find out.... and now she is terrified of the very same thing. Her saying she's ok if the father of her son marries her sister shows that impulsiveness... i think she has never quite understood till now that if this marriage happened she would allow her son's biological father to become his uncle, simply because he is unaware of the truth.
The other one... Nav....thinks his ego will be hurt if she takes help from..... strike three and counting.... as she allowed him more haq, he is slowly showing his hidden shades. I saw his stubbornness for the first time today.... he looked and sounded quite angry and firm when he commanded her to not talk to BP... even taunted her with a tit-for-tat regarding her decision regarding the doctor. Even in this dire situation, he could think of petty stuff like tit for tat?. He knows BP/ Ak are very close, yet now this decision will drive a wedge between BP/ AK when he finds out. BP will be very sad, this time it is NAv's fault but Ak will bear the brunt of that decision. Does Nav fail to realize Ak has a right to that money.... she has a lot of inheritance. She does not need a loan from BP, only needs what is rightfully hers.... does he know her at all?
Yesterday Nav said that destiny had sent Ak/ Abhir in his life.... but I need to ask, did destiny ask him to keep them there with him? 😈
PS: Are we finally leaving the station? 🤓 Have the Cvs exhausted all the Abhira moments? This is one time I should be thankful that Abhira had only a handful of moments that were real and not a dream! 😆
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