Originally posted by: Neha_S
Why doesnât she accept it then?
Meerab doesnât accept it for a few reasons and let me try to articulated this to the best of my ability.
Forced/Coercion
This marriage wasnât one she wanted. She fought against it. She fought so hard that she had to lose her identity and her parents before she accepted it. Accepting him means she accepts that what her parents did was right in the end. And sheâs not to take that lightly.
Loss of freedom/ambition
For her being the Khanam isnât something great. She doesnât like the rigid shackles that this title places on her. Nor does she want to accept the feudal system or itâs guidelines- that she canât speak up against KMK even when heâs doing something wrong- she is in a situation where her career aspirations and her dreams, her previous free life all are lost for this marriage.. and she canât just let it go
Fear
For all her mujhe dar nahin lagta- sheâs scared of Murtu and always has been. Sheâs scared because he has all the power and she has none. He can literally toss her from the balcony and no one can do anything-
Anwar to meerab - if he leaves your side
Meerab- even you canât do anything?
When she starts dancing at the walima and she sees him all angry- she backs down- because deep down sheâs scared he will hit her- yes thatâs how she sees him regressive and dominating- and violent.
When he makes her wear the chain and sheâs being sassy one line from him shuts her up and she mellows down. When sheâs harassing him about Haya touching him, ar one point sheâs looks at him and backs down- did I cross a line?
Mere andar ka jaanwar tum sambhal nahin paogi
Mere qiyamat tum seh nahin paoogi
Etc etc
There are countless examples whereby itâs evident that she fears him- she fears that there is suppressed violent side - that might materialize anytime.
Haya
Who wants a toxic cousin in love with your hubby? Who is doing all that she can and get away with him and your hubby in many ways encourages her?
I wouldnât want this marriage if there was this third party issue too
Toxic In laws
MB only gives a shit when sheâs preggers- at other times she slapped, humiliated. Kicked out etc etc
No relationship with sis in law
Hayaâs issue is given no importance she regularly badmouths and insults meerab and gets away with him