Akshara-Naitik vibes - Page 3

Why are you ppl bringing caste in this discussion? Matlab kuch bhi bolo just to prove your point.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Why are you ppl bringing caste in this discussion? Matlab kuch bhi bolo just to prove your point.

I understand it fully well. I just want to say that no ITV serial is too big to get heartburn over the portrayal of characters. Take them at the face value instead of finding some deep meaning hidden behind their farcical story. I learnt it the hard after following ghkkm.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I understand it fully well. I just want to say that no ITV serial is too big to get heartburn over the portrayal of characters. Take them at the face value instead of finding some deep meaning hidden behind their farcical story. I learnt it the hard after following ghkkm.

And i have been skipping lot many epsiodes from past 3 months.

I do not like itv drama. I majorly like comedy and supernatural shows. I only watch itv drama if i see any actor who has proven to he good in their previous shows. Like hc in s3. So just gave it a try but yrkkh is never been my cup of tea nor i will like these ddp.

I just watch it for harshali now as abhira are butchered already. But now i have stopped doing that too. May be i will resume watching once the focus goes back to harshali. But may not be continuous as i have already lost interest in the show.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I do not have any complains with nav my complaints are with abhira and makers. Abhi was butchered for trp.but we can not compare nav with abhi as abhi has family and he lost brother and his kids and he reacted. We are not sure how nav would have reacted if he was in abhi's place. Can we for sure say that nav will not behave like abhi if he had a family. No right as we don't know his past nor we know who are his parents.

How akshu or anyone is so sure that abhinav is not a criminal or a person who may have some history which is not good for abhir. Everyone are going by just the episodes which they have seen from past 3 months which makers wanted them to see. Nobody saw waht good things abhi did from past 1 year worth epi and 1 white day epi made abinav a hero.

Now fl is god her decision of trusting unknown is very good decision. In future if some one gets humiliated by her in laws she should trust some random stranger instead of her friends and relatives. She should marry them randomly. I see flaws in both abhira. Abhi for loosing his sanity and akshu for loosing her common sense.

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Yaar why do we go around assuming that abhinav will turn out to be a bad person just to unite abhira ? Jab hoga tab hoga but saying that akshu made a wrong decision to trust a stranger is far fetched..as of today it's not relevant it's not true . For 6 yrs he has been a good father to abhir and a support to akshu..this angle has been done and dusted ,what akshu did when she was thrown out. Her own family termed her as a murderer , she couldn't go bk to them..if it was not for abhinav she would be in jail for prostitution. He helped her throughout her pregnancy and child birth , only after that , aksu gave him the right to be abhirs father .

I already replied to the first para in the other post..naitik had the same dilemma as abhimanyu..his tayaji died due to aksharas decision n his bhabhi ma threw akshara out of the house but he stood by his wife . In this very serial we were shown this so why do we say abhinav would have done the same as abhimanyu ? Why not say that people are capable of doing better/reacting better than this ? At least appreciate the man for his good deeds , fck with what the writer will write in future. I have always trolled akshu uptil Neil's death n see everything frm abhimanyus perspective but white day is not something that can be balanced against his good deeds.

If anything I wish that makers at least show his act was cruel . No matter how big aksharas crime was , it was so wrong to divorce her when she miscarried and kick her out of the house at odd hours. What akshu did, it took her 6 months to reach a decision while abhimanyu took 6 mins. How do we put both at the same pedestal ?

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

It does not matter who Abhimanyu is surrounded with. He himself is responsible for all his misery. A grown-ass adult should take responsibility for his actions

If Abhimanyu is actually "influenced" by "criminals" it will be better that Akshu and Abhir never return to him

Thats the whole.point..he is the one responsible. Doesn't he have the brains to judge? If he is a.product of a toxic environment, how is he functioning as a doctor ? By English shows standards , he should be admitted to the psychiatry ward.

I'll appreciate if he or somebody else points out his real problem and he works on it or takes therapy..but he has consistently cried abt his mother's suffering alone. Is admi ko kuch aur dikhai nai deta. Ajeeb hai. Parrot ke jaise "women must be respected " ka ratta laga rahi hai but he didn't get his brother arrested for dv...

Originally posted by: Krinya

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Yaar why do we go around assuming that abhinav will turn out to be a bad person just to unite abhira ? Jab hoga tab hoga but saying that akshu made a wrong decision to trust a stranger is far fetched..as of today it's not relevant it's not true . For 6 yrs he has been a good father to abhir and a support to akshu..this angle has been done and dusted ,what akshu did when she was thrown out. Her own family termed her as a murderer , she couldn't go bk to them..if it was not for abhinav she would be in jail for prostitution. He helped her throughout her pregnancy and child birth , only after that , aksu gave him the right to be abhirs father .

I already replied to the first para in the other post..naitik had the same dilemma as abhimanyu..his tayaji died due to aksharas decision n his bhabhi ma threw akshara out of the house but he stood by his wife . In this very serial we were shown this so why do we say abhinav would have done the same as abhimanyu ? Why not say that people are capable of doing better/reacting better than this ? At least appreciate the man for his good deeds , fck with what the writer will write in future. I have always trolled akshu uptil Neil's death n see everything frm abhimanyus perspective but white day is not something that can be balanced against his good deeds.

If anything I wish that makers at least show his act was cruel . No matter how big aksharas crime was , it was so wrong to divorce her when she miscarried and kick her out of the house at odd hours. What akshu did, it took her 6 months to reach a decision while abhimanyu took 6 mins. How do we put both at the same pedestal ?

My only point is we all know its in writers hand. They may write abhinav as negative character in future too. I am not saying they will definitely write but knowing how itv works they write anything rubbish.

I would have loved if nav would have came as akshu's friend/best friend/college crush anything but not stranger. Because that would have made more sense to me that a friend his helping her in her difficult times where as family failed to support her. Yes in yrkkh abhinav is shown as sane till now and he did not had any negative character vibes but in real life will we recommend any girl to trust strangers over her friends and family knowing how bad the world is?

If we are mocking abhi for his deeds considering what would have been happend if some one would have done it in real life then i am looking at akshu's scenerio also .

Because shows like yrkkh should also show that girls should be careful before trusting anyone. Its applicable for both abhi and abhinav. Akshu trusted abhi and married him in hurry and now she trusted abhinav too and they showed she was okay to marry him within 6 months if i am not wrong where as by that time i don't think they would have got divorce also. Was she not repeating the same mistake which she did with abhi. i.e trusting someone so easily without even thinking about consequences. My problem lies in that.

They should have atleast shown something like she married after some years instead of just showing it so soon. She just got married and never gave abhinav rights of being a husband for past 6 years. Yes being a abhira fan i would have felt bad if she would have moved on but i would stopped watching the show as abhira and harshali would end on that day but i will be happy for akshu that she moved on.

Now it looks more like she married abhinav and used him for 6 years and now since abhi is ready to marry arohi and arohi also have given her a warning to not spoil her life she wants to move on with abhinav.

What about abhinav nobody showed how he agreed to marry what made them to marry each other. If it was really because of security abhinav deserves something better.

Which makes it even more wrong if i look at abhinav as if abhinav is really a good human being and accha aadmi he atleast deserves some one who loves him genuinely.

Now she really decided to move on and for her son she is calling abhi to operate. I know its all itv planned tracks but if she would have continued her singing career she would have afforded better medical care and doctor for her kid. If abhira was end game why to show navra are married. I am shocked to know that shows like yrkkh does not respect marriage where as i was under assumptiom that yrkkh respects relation and marriage but they have made mockery of everything.

Originally posted by: Krinya

We need to broaden our perspectives ..mummy ke ghar nai jaane diya , mummy ki side le li, dhobi ka hisab galat kar diya , subah time par nahi uthe, ye zindagi ke masle nai hote..

Naitik stood up against his own family for his wife , not bec of any right or wrong but bec he knew his family is not in the right frame of mind to understand a sensitive situation like that..it was his tayaji also , doesn't mean akshara wasn't his family.

When naira ran away, he was separated from his dear daughter till adulthood ..he turned his back on akshara but he didn't blame her and throw her out of his life..they were still together , not in a way they used to be but they were..what bigger trauma can somebody face , but both of them faced it together .

Ab we say hypothetically if somebody close to abhinav dies bec of akshara what will he do ? Yahi toh saara crux Hai...not everyone will react like abhimanyu . He cud do a lot better.

That's what I am saying. Naitik cannot be compared to season 3 characters.

I wasn't saying Naitik was similar to Abhi, I was saying ki character traits like anger issues or calm and composed behaviour can be posssed by more than one person but that doesn't mean they are same character wise.

Neither Nav nor Abhi can qualify to be compared to Naitik imo. Naitik can be compared to characters like Suraj from Diya aur Batti Hum.