Unrealistic expectations by Manjari

How can manjari decide untill when akshu can stay at goenka house? Ajeeb gundagardi hai !!!

If her presence is bothering Abhimanyu, he should not be marrying anyone.

Originally posted by: artizia

How can manjari decide untill when akshu can stay at goenka house? Ajeeb gundagardi hai !!!

If her presence is bothering Abhimanyu, he should not be marrying anyone.

Manju runs the town! She is blinded by her motherly love and concern thst she can’t see her son suffering! She wants him to move on but he can’t! And she knows he loves ak, but ak has moved on and she’s “happy”.. so she wants her son to be happy so she will do whatever she can to get him that happiness!

Even Surekha said that Akshara shouldn't have returned. Bhai q? Oska maika hai. Oski jab marzi aayegi tab aayegi. If that bothers you, stay away from her house. What link does Manjari have to Goenka house? She and her darling son should maintain their distance rather than banning Akshara and her family from visiting her own extended family.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Even Surekha said that Akshara shouldn't have returned. Bhai q? Oska maika hai. Oski jab marzi aayegi tab aayegi. If that bothers you, stay away from her house. What link does Manjari have to Goenka house? She and her darling son should maintain their distance rather than banning Akshara and her family from visiting her own extended family.

exactly...abhi ko pallu mein chupa kar rakh lo...

she said yum shaadi ke functions mein kyun participate kar rahi ho...and BP kah rahe hai kyun nahi karrahi ho...bhai shaadi ke function kahin aur jaa kar karo..

Yeah Manju, please have a destination wedding, Abhi is already very familiar with that 🤣

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

Sorry to disagree but I think she v.well sees her son's misery and that's y she's insisting him so hard. I didn't watch d whole track but that's what her ladla did for her when she refused to move on. Zabardsti divorce paper thama diye the. She didn't sign immediately but his brazenness initiated d process that ultimately led to MM leaving her husband and living a happier life. I think she's tryin to do d same for her son. By forcing him to marry she thinks she'll be able to change d track of his thoughts and he'll sooner or later be able to shift focus from past to future. Now d question arises y Ar? Cos that's convenient. Convenience marriages happen all round d world nothing new. MM's fully aware that she'll never be able to coax or coerce her son in choosing a completely new woman. Plus what if d new wife isn't so fond of Ruhi. So the simplest soln. in her mind is to get d 2 married as even Ar is refusing to marry a stranger for sake of her daughter. (Is MM jnr. best for Ar? I'm not going into that side of discussion 'cos Ar lacks basic mind n respect so she better take what's comin' her way).

When they white washed arrohi they also took her smartness away lolllll!!!! But I get your point the marriage of convenience for sure!

Before controlling akshu she must control her son.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Before controlling akshu she must control her son.

Abhimanyu is like fire you can’t control him! Maybe this one you can since he’s lost the way, but OG abhi you can’t touch! That is why Manju is trying her hardest to get him tied down again and throwing all the responsibilities on him!

Did Manju not say she will take care of aarohi and roohi when aarohi was broken after Neil’s death! So what happened now Manju, you want Abhimanyu to take on that role so you can go on permanent vacation?

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

Sorry to disagree but I think she v.well sees her son's misery and that's y she's insisting him so hard. I didn't watch d whole track but that's what her ladla did for her when she refused to move on. Zabardsti divorce paper thama diye the. She didn't sign immediately but his brazenness initiated d process that ultimately led to MM leaving her husband and living a happier life. I think she's tryin to do d same for her son. By forcing him to marry she thinks she'll be able to change d track of his thoughts and he'll sooner or later be able to shift focus from past to future. Now d question arises y Ar? Cos that's convenient. Convenience marriages happen all round d world nothing new. MM's fully aware that she'll never be able to coax or coerce her son in choosing a completely new woman. Plus what if d new wife isn't so fond of Ruhi. So the simplest soln. in her mind is to get d 2 married as even Ar is refusing to marry a stranger for sake of her daughter. (Is MM jnr. best for Ar? I'm not going into that side of discussion 'cos Ar lacks basic mind n respect so she better take what's comin' her way).

I understand you were explaining her perspective, and this isn't how you necessarily feel, but l feel such people gotta understand that it's never healthy to get your child married when they're not willing or mentally prepared for it. That expectation from a girl that she will reform him or win him over is downright delusion. And when that doesn't happen, they push the couple to bring a child into the mix in hopes that shared responsibility will bring them closer. Sometimes this formula may work, but more often than not, it creates further resentment and now it's not just one (the guy) life ruined but at least three. What that guy needed was empathy and therapy until he could get over his past traumas/Oedipus complex.