Manjari Bursts out Epi: Air Date Mar 9 2023 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

This s nothing when abhir truth out kya kya blame upar akshu se ayega...she s answerable ..agree she was accused for not required , abhimanyu too blunder kiyaa...he ditched her indirectly so on...but who told her to give father position to abhinav ..main blame going to come from there

I agree with you about this .but again ak has answers for why she did this and i feel she will tell it all and give it back at this moment she is silent as she don't want the truth out.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Arohi is a snake. She never really loved Neil he was just a means to an end in her game to get into Birla house.

I really hope that we get Akshu solo breakdown scene tomorrow. And I really want Akshu and Abhir with Abhi scene as well. Abhinav ji can go get lost in the hospital corridors for 2 hours. If the hospital is big enough you can get lost in there. I know I have gotten lost once before 😆

Originally posted by: shrutiraina007

I haven't watched the episode yet. Anything good or hopeful?

I found it to be okay but nothing really about Abhira.

Just a bunch of Manjari yelling out her feelings and why she blames Akshu as she already lost one son and now her other son is in the hospital. She asked why did you come back? She asked if you ignored all of Abhi's calls why did you run to him the way you did? What is your relationship with him? Akshu runs away when Manjari start talking about how if anything happens to Abhi now its her fault.

Surekha Chota Ma says many things today Which I personally liked. She is just stating facts and is not really on anyone's side is my take. She didn't understand why no one at the Goenka house could see how Akshu and Abhi feel about each other. She then sort of said indirectly stated if they knew then

1) Why did they accept this marriage proposal between Abhi and Arohi

2) If they did accept it why is Akshu still here when they know it will affect the engagment?

I personally liked this dialogue she said about Akshu and Abhi's relationship 😆

"The bond between Akshara and Abhimanyu is everlasting like the one between Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. Their love for each other will never decrease or end. No one can stop them from having feelings for each other. Them being close is like inviting trouble. And you're making them gather at the same place and face each other. A catastrophe was bound to occur. Who knows? Maybe Akshara and Abhimanyu want to betray their partners and unite again!"

Originally posted by: Siri918

she is already under trauma. whether KM understands or now we know how much she loves Ab. she doesn't have anybody to share true feelings with. No family is with her or trying to understand.

In this situation, what she can defend? whatever she says KM will take diff meanings. do you think she doesn't blame her if she attends the call?

Even though Nav supporting, how can she share those feelings she has for Ab?

More than anybody she is in trauma, as Ab spoke with her before he become unconscious.

That also, she can't share. Even if she tries to defend why she left the house, she has to tell Abhir's truth which she doesn't want to reveal.

Exactly she don't want the truth out esliye chup heu.

Originally posted by: sunshining

Ok, I have another controversial question and I am looking for opinions. No chappals please. Probably the wrong day to be asking this question. I am sorry if I am making you more angry.

It is about Manjari the most hated mother.

Question "Is Manjari the worst mother in law on earth or has Abhi made her that"? I am talking about her as a MIL not as a mother.

Lets look at Manjari's perspective

- she thinks Akshu divorced and walked out of the house on white day. As Abhi's mother she isnt going to doubt that her son would have been responsible. She doesnt know what happened inside their room. According to her Akshu was responsible for Neel's death and her Abhi's kids. She is obviously not going to think about her actions and pushing Akshu etc.

- Whilst her family was still coming to grip with the loss, she hears that Akshu has gotten married and has a child

- As far as she is concerned Abhi has not been able to move on. Arohi is a widow, Ruhi has no father but Akshu who she holds responsible for their sorrow has forgotten everything and is leading a peaceful and happy life

- Seeing Akshu's happy family at the party and seeing Abhi still affected by Akshu, she riled up. This is her main problem with Akshu, the person who was responsible for destroying her sons and family's happiness has moved on without looking back

- now when she thought everything was falling into place according to her, her son chases Akshu and has an accident. Agree she should be asking those questions to her son not Akshu but she thinks Akshu being in udaipur as the reason for her son to have gone crazy.

I dont know whether she would have a different view had she known what her son did that day and also what Akshu went through, but for now you have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Ok I am ready for the chappals and gaalis. Fire away.

Good question. And I agree with your Manjari's perspective. Adding my thoughts below.

Abhimanyu is partly the reason. Post the 6 year leap he had multiple chances to stop his mom's rant and tell her what happened that day but he didn't. Not sure if it's because he was too ashamed to revisit that day or he himself has blocked it off his mind. What I do know is the only way a MIL backs off from badmouthing / taunting DIL is if her son draws the line. Son's silence is considered as him supporting / agreeing with his mother.

Although on Mimi's birthday, I recall Kairav saying the words - this man left Akshu when she lost her two babies. So I'm not sure who knows what and interprets what. For me, it feels like writers taking U turns and S turns making an a&& of themselves with their inconsistencies and character assassinations.

Another reason is Manjari is a woman who has taken abuse from her husband for years, knew about his affair and yet continued to live with him and love him with all her heart. So she either expected the same from her daughter in law or feels that Akshara has given up on her marriage too easily. Also she sees her son as Perfection Personified (as most moms tend to). She has seen him go all out for this girl the first time around and the subsequent heartbreak when the girl lied with a straight face - I don't love you. Then all the drama and marriage happened but then again... She had lost her trust when Akshara left with Dr Khera and never got back that trust again. Sees her as someone who is looking for excuses to walk away from Abhimanyu.

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

They should also clear if abhi submitted those papers to court or not , if he never submitted then they're still married, as according to law couple remain married even after staying seperate for years and years , to claim a divorce one spouse have to submit a divorce petition to court

After two/three years of sepration in case of abandonment and after 7 years in case of missing spouse .

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

My fundamental question why ak s keeping quiet ...you must defend yourself ...why someone need to ?

If she opens her mouth sab bahar aayega esliye chup hei.

Originally posted by: SejN

So much cringe! Twitter birds are going to rip Abhimanyu and his mom apart! Yikes! I am trying not to put this out in the universe but I don’t think Abhir’s truth will stop the wedding! And akshu will get bashing round 3 when it comes out!

I am still debating if I want to torture myself to watch the episode! Maybe with some chocolate or dessert?

This show is giving out wrong messages!!!!!

Abhir par aayegi toh chup nhi rahegi ak.

Originally posted by: sunshining

Ok, I have another controversial question and I am looking for opinions. No chappals please. Probably the wrong day to be asking this question. I am sorry if I am making you more angry.

It is about Manjari the most hated mother.

Question "Is Manjari the worst mother in law on earth or has Abhi made her that"? I am talking about her as a MIL not as a mother.

Lets look at Manjari's perspective

- she thinks Akshu divorced and walked out of the house on white day. As Abhi's mother she isnt going to doubt that her son would have been responsible. She doesnt know what happened inside their room. According to her Akshu was responsible for Neel's death and her Abhi's kids. She is obviously not going to think about her actions and pushing Akshu etc.

- Whilst her family was still coming to grip with the loss, she hears that Akshu has gotten married and has a child

- As far as she is concerned Abhi has not been able to move on. Arohi is a widow, Ruhi has no father but Akshu who she holds responsible for their sorrow has forgotten everything and is leading a peaceful and happy life

- Seeing Akshu's happy family at the party and seeing Abhi still affected by Akshu, she riled up. This is her main problem with Akshu, the person who was responsible for destroying her sons and family's happiness has moved on without looking back

- now when she thought everything was falling into place according to her, her son chases Akshu and has an accident. Agree she should be asking those questions to her son not Akshu but she thinks Akshu being in udaipur as the reason for her son to have gone crazy.

I dont know whether she would have a different view had she known what her son did that day and also what Akshu went through, but for now you have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Ok I am ready for the chappals and gaalis. Fire away.

I really think it's not about worst mother in law and who made her that way.

I really think its about the perspective and what you did was outline what Manjari is feeling from her perspective and from her perspective her anger and sorrow is justified.

No one would like to see their child pine and be depressed over some girl/guy for months on end. And especially in the way in which things transpired that day it was emotionally traumatic. So I can see how she hates Akshu for holding that much control over Abhi's life. That this girl who hurt my son so much then out of the blue gets married and now has a son and everything. So I say she is bitter that Abhi is still stuck in that 6 years time frame. That she is stuck in that 6 years time frame.

But no one understands that Akshu is also stuck in that 6 years time frame. She lost just as much as they did. But I feel she is so hurt she simply cannot say anything. She cannot bring Neil back. She cannot bring back the one twin that died. I have a feeling that all of this is setting up to when Abhir's truth comes out and everyone will want to be with Abhir, Akshu may not let them come near him.

I am really frustrated with the writers keeping Akshu quiet. We know she does tend to get quiet but we also saw a lot of anger in her in Kasauli. I know that was directed at Abhi. But we know she can talk. Even if it is just to say. "I know no matter what I say cannot erase the events that happened that day. Just as you lost a son. I lost a brother and friend. Just as you lost a grandchild. I lost my child. Just as your son lost himself. I lost my husband." I just want her to say anything at this point.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

then maybe they granted Divorce due to abandonment the question also arises how did Akshu get married within 6 months without a divorce if it takes 2 to 3 years The mind boggles how can one person just submit divorce papers without the other person being present, then anyone can cheat and remarry multiple times is that allowed only one person goes to court ?

Nope according to law can't get married within 6 month ....if she's actually married her marriage will be declared null n void but the kid is involved so court will give a divorce to Abhira and declare Navra marriage valid with some scoldings and some fine

But here the point is Abhir is not Abhinav's son so their marriage will remain null n void

Goenka's was in touch with Akshara, if abhi ever submitted the signed papers they could informed her for the proceedings but they never did till 7 months and after hearing her marriage news Jo bachi kuchi ajal thi he lost it all