Katha Ankahee -- #10 daily episode DT - Page 95

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

it felt too nicely wrapped up ITV style; ever since they made him guilty, he has been too mellow. that doesn't seem real to me. especially a childhood incident that has made you so bitter for so many years and has crippled you from forming real relationships -- it can't be such a quick fix. instead, it has to be messed up, so messed up that when you are watching him process his emotions, you should feel pangs. I felt nothing in this conversation. only thing that was nice was her saying lets have tea. otherwise, meh. not one pang.

I was trying to figure out how to explain but I will share this clip -- I am used to dizi style where the trauma is amped up to 100 and it continues with ripples. here both ML and FL love each other. but he cannot open up to her because of his childhood trauma. it is complicated but he prefers to be alone and in the darkness. so he prefers to divorce her so he can put some distance -- so that his heart is safe because he really has no way to navigate the sudden waters he finds himself in.

even if you have no clue what this drama is about and just watching this clip, you will be taken aback -- I actually found this dizi because of clips like this. (see from 1 minute onwards to 4.34)

https://youtu.be/N3rxkc62AgA

so much of sparks and woah reaction -- lots of pangs because it is so raw. that is what I hoped from viaan. too high hopes. 🤷

Oh that’s too high hopes, in fact they were not going this way at all was written on the wall some 20/30 episodes ago, when they made Viaaan be like a scardy cat around her all the time. Btw the whole I will stay away from you than rather talk to you is done to death in Star shows I think. The show my mom watches - Yeh rishta - this is the way it’s done for four generations now.lol. I think Sony prefers it this way, idk this is my understanding. Off to bed, but promise to watch this clip tomorrow

Originally posted by: angelic2005

Hugs to you. You did best thing for both of you, you was not ready for the marriage cause you was still processing and you thought what was best for that guy too. Many would keep going hoping things get better and workout, when in reality they need to get themselves to a state where they can move on. Marriage should only be entered into if you both ready otherwise it causes that awkward pressure to make it work.

thank you so much for this, I appreciate you saying this. It’s true, I believe we must marry only when we truly know ourselves. Thanks again

Everyone who wants Nirjaji to be the other woman in Viraj’s life - y’all got too much free time in life to be wanting such complex thing out of a plot. 😂 Or shall I say that your life is very straightforward so you need more drama in the show. This includes me. 😂

Originally posted by: Twinklestar139

If Ehsan doesn't back off after what we saw in the precap, it seems to me like the writers are going to add unnecessary drama and negativity in his character. Ehsan isn't supposed to be this stupid because wasn't he the one who asked Viaan if he likes Katha initially in the show and telling him that not all girls are gold diggers. So if he continues to make a move on katha after she tells him off it's going to be very stupid.

Totally agree with this!!!

Because beyond this, it will seem as if they're just getting a 'villain' for the sake of it

Someone please explain to me the whole chai conversation they had and why people are saying Katha has forgiven him. I didn't understand that scene at all other than the fact that they both shared with each other their past.

Originally posted by: columbia

aiyyyo.

How can you expect him to be bitter when they have spent around 30 episodes breaking him down from his ego completely, they are showing you the culmination of what we were to interpret as his introspection while he was completely going through his “don’t know what to do with these feelings of guilt and confusion now that I know more about Katha”… his bitter phase was done and over with in the scene near the car where she yells back at him. At this point, he has reached a point of no ego. He has understood his mother is and has been delusional and that affected him.

Every scene you see since that day where he comes to tell Katha that he didn’t know she was a mother. She asking him “what if I wasn’t a mother”…and every interaction since then …his with everyone around him helped him answer that question.

To me, this was the story the writers built. The high drama they left for rest of the storylines,

Exactly...well said ..it was the culmination...and a very subtle one..I feel this is the way people behave in real life.. ..Our audience have been used to full dramatics that they need to see full shouting and crying for every solution..Viaan has been shouting and reacting in the first five weeks and his guilt is what has made him change..Guilt is a strong medicine...It really can change a person's perspective..Why people don't understand that is my question..Why they need strong reactions from the leads ..like repeating the reactions for five minutes..camera zoomed on and close ups...The camera angle also was very good yday..instead of close ups and zooming we got the reactions of both leads in one frame many a times

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

it felt too nicely wrapped up ITV style; ever since they made him guilty, he has been too mellow. that doesn't seem real to me. especially a childhood incident that has made you so bitter for so many years and has crippled you from forming real relationships -- it can't be such a quick fix. instead, it has to be messed up, so messed up that when you are watching him process his emotions, you should feel pangs. I felt nothing in this conversation. only thing that was nice was her saying lets have tea. otherwise, meh. not one pang.

I was trying to figure out how to explain but I will share this clip -- I am used to dizi style where the trauma is amped up to 100 and it continues with ripples. here both ML and FL love each other. but he cannot open up to her because of his childhood trauma. it is complicated but he prefers to be alone and in the darkness. so he prefers to divorce her so he can put some distance -- so that his heart is safe because he really has no way to navigate the sudden waters he finds himself in.

even if you have no clue what this drama is about and just watching this clip, you will be taken aback -- I actually found this dizi because of clips like this. (see from 1 minute onwards to 4.34)

https://youtu.be/N3rxkc62AgA

so much of sparks and woah reaction -- lots of pangs because it is so raw. that is what I hoped from viaan. too high hopes. 🤷

I watched the clip but i dont know, I didn't like it. Too much of rona dhona and zabardasti ka confrontation for me. Duniya bhar ka dialogues bol lenge but main issue ko address nahi karenge😆 I guess its not my cup of tea, never been. I started some shows like this but never been able to finish them. Too much complex characters makes me loose interest. I dont know why, this guy reminded me of Mr. Grey from 50 shades😆

Tbh, I like these kind of issues how they are dealing in with it in KA right now. I am liking the pace, the way they are navigating through kaviaan's changing equation.

I know some people didn't feel tug when katha talked about adi but its not necessary the clips of adi to be shown. Aditi's performance was enough to give you this feeling how deeply she loved him and how lonely she has been after him. How dearly she has hold on to his memories like her life depends upon it and how difficult its going to be for her to let him go and the realisation itself will be shocking that viaan has taken adi's place.

Some of our friends, social circle might have gone through this kind of pain but if didn't know or seen the deceased person then also won't we feel their pain? We might not be able to paint a picture in our mind but we can feel through their words...right? So the two episodes about adi's memories did that work for me.

And viaan, his character change is not sudden. People may find all this opposite to his character trait but we should remember this, he is already a changed man, he is not the same viaan anymore. And these changes started even before the apology scene. He was feeling guilty even before he apologized thats why he was going mad to know the reason. He had a hunch that he didn't do the right thing.

Then apology was his breaking point. The realisation he turned to be like his father did that for him. Right before apology when they showed him in balcony and it looked like he was about to jump, consider old viaan actually died there. I feel that was the significance to put that scene.

Ever since apology viaan is going through this painful process of change and realisation. And we have all witnessed it. He used to avoid her, even avoid looking at her, fumble before her and get all nervous. He just hates himself when she looked through him like he is not even present. Thats why in his imagination scene he implored her to look at him like he is normal person, he wanted her to know he is much more than that night.

The women policy of company he changed was not to impress her or lessen his own guilt but he was genuinely concerned about how much sacrifices a woman makes in her life for sake of family. Katha's remark about what if she wasn't mother, she was just a woman, made him do that. We have gone through episodes when there was no interaction between them but just he kept looking towards her with longing and replaying in his mind all his mistakes.

The ONS was not a small thing, its aftermath broke him, mould him, changed him forever. If his childhood trauma has developed several issues in him then his guilt redefined his character traits. He is not behaving out of character, he just a changed man.

And I would prefer it this way anyday rather than some delusional man constantly dealing with his past demons keeps destroying his present and future. We hate teji for same reason. How can we dislike viaan for not being that psycho?

Right now I have no complaints from the show, everything is going good, even the much needed negativity from ehsan amd reet is fine to balance things.

And its very difficult to please every viewer. Some had problem with slow pace while others wanted slow burn😆 Now some thinks they are rushing everything while other are excited to see love story kickstarts😆 it will keep going on like this but I am fine as long as the show don't lose the essence.

Originally posted by: columbia

Was she a prostitute or did T Rex tell him that?! The point is I guess full on delusional she was …and is….becos in the Arabic version, he tells his mother…my father loved another woman and you were never able to accept or let go, and this affected me too. I feel there is some version of this here, but they want to keep it open, for trp manipulation later

I think she was prostitute only bcoz tezzi said in FB inhi paiso se kharidne gye the na

If they want to show the other woman was not that bad and gold digger ,they can do that even if she was a prostitute

bulbul -- I hear what you are saying but for me, the scenes still feel flat and there was stuff missing. like I have mentioned in the parent conflict thread, I have had ringside seat to many family conflicts. no one is sane when caught in the grip of emotion. people say stupid things and people don't recover just like that. it takes a long time and one goes through various stages.

I have heard people get emotional over something that happened 20+ years ago and you can't even understand why.

thats why the clip I shared felt more realistic to me -- there is so much of undercurrents. I didn't feel that with viaan.

especially when it is a trauma that has shaped your thinking and actions -- that kind of wave of emotion and bitterness should be more evident. like I mentioned in another post, the scene really felt like random family gossip that I have been hearing non-stop for years. I was bored. 😆

so viaan still hasn't processed how he feels because the crux of the issue is what he feels about his father leaving them. he just says "who am I to judge?" -- well that does not make any sense to me.

you learn by bitter experiences which means you buckle down on the negativity and you question why things happen to you and why things don't. there should be confusion, anger, bitterness, defeat, sadness and all sorts of emotions that come in waves. that would be more normal.

so that itself tells you that he has no idea what he is doing. instead, it comes across like he is in some sort of okay place now because he addressed his guilt about the ONS. 🙄

that didn't feel real to me -- he should be like a live wire. the scene needed more undercurrent energy. it was way too mellow. they could have been discussing the weather -- that was the kind of energy level. 😆

viaan is not wrong to assume that the world can be a bad place and he needs to be bit defensive about who he lets in his life -- what he needs to learn is balance and how to figure who is safe. so the questions he should be asking is how does he do that in a way that makes sense and respectful.

there is still no processing how he lost his childhood and why he feels so resentful of his father leaving. there are tons of people who have divorced parents -- why was this so traumatic for him? what about it made him so anti-women? his test was downright stupid but at the heart, it was about safeguarding himself and he needs to ask himself why he feels so unsafe.

granted he does not know katha but he is talking about how memories can be bitter and painful and still affecting you 20-30 years later. the scene then needed to give you pangs. it was just meh. I was half asleep when watching. such scenes cannot work with subtle -- you need to feel the person's pain because it is emotional to them.

I had more reaction to reet deciding to play troublemaker than to viaan. 😆🤷

Originally posted by: Ssp123

On a serious note Mango pls write something about weird hormones outshining pregnancy hormones

I m shocked actually jitna mujhe pata pregnant ladies everything ko all about themselves bana dete h

Ye weirdo alag planet pe pregnant hui h 🤔

my only thought was she sounds like those housewives who are bitterly jealous of working women because they think those who work are like on some sort of excursion. 😂