Daar ughad baye - Page 16

Well, I haven't watched the epi yet but I had a hearty laugh reading your post 😂 Haven't heard abt any such ritual , Nagar side chi asel tar mahit nahi...BTW Director la visar padlay bahutek yeh reel shaadi hain..

Roshan and Saaniya are quite close to each other , I have seen her sharing Roshan's sipper most of the time so tyana kahi farak nasel padla 😂..

Roshan, Saaniya and the actor playing Arya gone to Sawantwadi to shoot....

The product placement advertisement for the money transfer app showed Papya's name as "Narhe Sunil Shivaji."

Months have gone by without the show revealing Rāvasāheba's and Bhāūsāheba's given names. Would they actually tell us Papya's given name?

Or, did the post-production team forget to blur the name of a real person to whom the owner of the mobile phone (producer, actor, whoever) sends money in real life?

I suspect that they forgot to blur the amount being transferred too. Does anyone send Rs. 100?

They also let us see that Sarang has an account at Punjab National Bank 3166. A quick internet search tells me that branch number 3166 is located in Saksohra, a pair of villages in Patna, Bihar. That's 1,611 km distant from Ahmednagar.

Although it's the morning of Valentine's Day on the show, they showed us that "15 Feb, 09:17 PM" was when the money transfer occurred.

It has been established long ago and very recently reaffirmed that Mukta cannot read English. Why would Sarang teach her to use an app with an English display? This scene could have been scripted between Yuvaraj and Madhavi, Renuka and Ved ...

They were promoting some money transfer app so wouldn't have bothered to go into much detailing though all your above mentioned points are valid!!

What I found amusing was a foreign returned Sarang who's hopelessly romantic was going to Papya for honeymoon tips...It's no rocket science that what actually happens in a honeymoon and Sarang whose testosterone levels are pretty high nowadays shouldn't be shown as going to Papya who is an amateur in this matter..

Also when Papya handed over the gift , Sarang had asked him to bring for Mukta, I thought it would be a lingerie but thank god they were books!!

BTW, when is this couple going to consummate, Too much drama is spoiling the essence of the show, Shaadi main drama, first night too bickering over petty issues and then sleeping the night away..they should just stop showing these two romancing on Hindi songs..it looks out of place....with idiot Arya hot on their heels , I have zero expectations from honeymoon track..

In the first scene between Sarang and Papya, Papya wanted to know if the U.S.A. is a place where that sort of thing happens "OK meṃ thank you!" And Sarang said that he had no experience, but now that he's back in India, he wants to fall in love!

Whatever. The tame contrast of Papya's curiosity versus Sarang's absolute monogamy is calculated to appeal to an audience with a conservative taste for romance.

This is supposed to be the story of Mukta making a name for herself as a drummer, so I would like to see that instead of whatever intimacy could be implied between her and Sarang. I don't even like to use the word "consummate" because sexual acts are diverse and there's no biological reason to draw a line and say "done!" Sarang and Mukta have already spat mouthfuls of water on each other, and that metaphor is enough to imagine that they have playtime in private.

The show did a disservice to its audience when Arya felt up Sarang in his sleep and neither Sarang nor Mukta condemned her action as sexual assault. I don't want to see more of that.

Absolutely, it is Mukta's journey not only as a Sambal player but also her complete acceptance in the Nagarkar household working parallely with Sarang and Mukta's love story..

In the Valentines epi, when Mukta asked Sarang if it was his first Valentines ..he answered not very pleasingly that there's a difference between friendship and love..wonder if she was referring to Arya..

Anyways.. Sharing a video.of wot all is in store in the honeymoon track..

https://youtu.be/z6BxTatJTlw

मी एक प्रोमो पाहिला याचा.

की मुक्ता पाण्यात पडते, आणि कोणीतरी तिच्या पायाला धरून खाली खेचतय..

म्हणजे तिला बुडवतंय असं.

किती वाईट दाखवतात रे हे 😢

Ho, Renuka and Raosaheb tya Arya la pathavtat Mukta cha jeev ghyayla..

Serial suru zhalya pasun hyancha ekach agenda ahey Mukta cha jeev ghya ani ata hey sagla repetitive hot laglay...Serial Che writers na kadhi productive ani positive dakhvatach nahit...

Sarang forcing his way into the bathroom to bathe with Mukta was not romantic!

Afterwards, when he said, "Tū zabaradastī karāyalā kā lāvalīsa?" he sounded like an abusive partner. "You made me do it. If you had given me what I wanted, I wouldn't have had to take it. Why do you provoke me?"

Shame on Dāra Ughaḍa Baye for sending the message that "No, don't!" is just shyness ... he can make intimacy happen and she will thank him later.

So what if Mukta went swimming with Sarang? Does she have to bathe with him as the next step? Any sexual partner always has the right to take a step back, not forward!

So what if Mukta agreed to wear clothes that left her arms and shoulders bare? She doesn't owe it to Sarang to let him see her naked!

If anyone is viewing this with youngsters, please take a moment to talk to them about consent. When someone says no, assume that s/he means it. It isn't an invitation to be bolder. There is no rule that intimacy has to happen on a honeymoon, or within any time frame. If you've made someone uncomfortable by invading her/his privacy, you should feel sorry, not lay guilt on her/him for not sharing.

Dāra Ughaḍa Baye is marketed as a story that challenges restrictions on what women may do, but here it is perpetuating the TV convention that a heroine must be embarrassed by flirtation. She cannot say yes to intimacy, never mind initiating it!

Wouldn't it have been more romantic if Sarang had said this? "You forgot the towel. Open the door, and don't say anything. Just choose between my two hands. You can take the towel from one hand, or you can take me by the other hand."

Another unromantic observation: the necklace that Sarang gave Mukta misspelled अहो as आहो! Uh! - Oh!

I haven't watched the epi yet so will reserve my comments until then ..

Now Sarang being Raosaheb's son must have inherited his traits ...I see it as a build up to the future wherein Sarang will start to impose his wishes, opinions on Mukta which might lead to some friction between the two..

Ideally he could have secretly bought her a dress and made her wear it behind closed doors only for his eyes...but he chose to change her clothes without her consent..when Mukta tried to reason saying she isn't comfortable he snapped at her saying she never listens to him..

If you notice closely , Sarang has been this way since the beginning...always doing things without caring abt wot Mukta might think..He started persuading her the moment he laid his eyes on her, who can forget the famous maang bharo sequence where in he applied the vermilion on Mukta's bhaang without giving a thought to Mukta's opinion..

Wot Arya is doing with Sarang is wot Sarang has been doing with Mukta.. forcing yourself upon someone!!