GHKPM Social media update thread #44 - Page 87

we as audience have been commenting on the diff between both women as people and as mothers but the makers dont highlight it explicitly. They showed that temple scene where Sai accepts prasad from P but P doesnt.but nobody else witnessed it and spoke about the diff in both women. BK claimed Sai and P both ran away with Vinu- NO. Sai told everyone and left, P ran without informing. Sai has always been up front. Even post Sam return when she left, she left a letter. Pullu knew. So it wasnt running like a coward. She has been kind to those who dont deserve it. She saved Ps life, Vs life, cured Vinu, was nice to K, M everyone! But the other characters do not speak up or compare and point out how Sai is far superior a person and is on a pedestal whereas P in comparison is in paatal lok. P is called mahaan by V and CN folks. her mamtaa is glorified. She is not a mother, she is a nanny.

Originally posted by: Svt611

Bohot log hai. They keep giving so much importance to her and her existence. Bhai you don’t like her stop talking about her opening threads on her and giving her that weightage. But this constant that Pakhi this that usko yeh milega Aree jab ayega dekhenge till then stop with theories, it just makes it hard to be positive.
like this rose thing, let it come and we will see before that only everyone has made up their mind and changed the entire topic to Pakhi today…. Kyun yaar.

They're obsessed with Pakhi & Aishwarya. Even the other secret forum has turned into main forum. Nobody's expecting or asking you to be positive but some of the theories are so so absurd. I literally have to skip through most of the users comments here because I don't get to read anything new. It's same rant in a bottle of whine. In this last few weeks there had been so much of SaiRat yet how the topic is how Pakhi isn't there, oh Pakhi will do this now, Pakhi's coming back next episode. She's one of the major ckts ofc she'll not be bowed out of the show. So I don't understand this. Either the topic will go back to offscreen or Virat Pakhi. I've limited my visitation here for a reason. Kuch comments toh dekhe lagta hai people just say them to spam the page with irrelevant points & the threads. It's become a headache everywhere even that secret forum 😞

Originally posted by: mysticriver

They're obsessed with Pakhi & Aishwarya. Even the other secret forum has turned into main forum. Nobody's expecting or asking you to be positive but some of the theories are so so absurd. I literally have to skip through most of the users comments here because I don't get to read anything new. It's same rant in a bottle of whine. In this last few weeks there had been so much of SaiRat yet how the topic is how Pakhi isn't there, oh Pakhi will do this now, Pakhi's coming back next episode. She's one of the major ckts ofc she'll not be bowed out of the show. So I don't understand this. Either the topic will go back to offscreen or Virat Pakhi. I've limited my visitation here for a reason. Kuch comments toh dekhe lagta hai people just say them to spam the page with irrelevant points & the threads. It's become a headache everywhere even that secret forum 😞

Look Mystic I get where you're coming from. I don't hold grudges or indulge in arguments with anyone honestly, but my friends on what you call the "secret forum" are not there to be "negative" as you claim. They feel a certain way about the show and the characters and pour it out there. I don't always agree to them, but instead of constantly calling them out for stating their opinions, I respect their opinions. I also do not agree or like many comments made, but I just ignore the users and their posts. They don't have ill intentions as I've already mentioned before. I get that everyone is frustrated, but at least most of them are polite...The rest is on you. No hard feelings, as always ! I don't want anyone to feel like they can't express themselves in that forum I created.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Siya, Getting trolled is not part of any job description. It is unacceptable. It's unfortunate that actors face it. But no way can it be normalised. It is like saying a girl should get used to lecherous looks from men because that's how the world is. Even as an uninvolved party, my experience in SM...reading the nasty, horrible comments...one can sense the dent it will cause to the targeted person's self esteem. And that's cruel. And it is incessant. Trolling is very very very problematic...it can never be okay.

Aree nethraa chod do aap. How much ever we tell nobody is going to listen. And I can't understand how they treat it as normal. It is the mindset that when u don't like the person or hate the person anything and everything they do is a problem for them

Originally posted by: kashmayurfan

I do agree to that.

I’ve not read the last comment you mentioned. Agree it’s distasteful if it’s repeated. That’s why I avoid reading most things. I think it’s the only way to not get frustrated. I used to read everything before, but not anymore. Usually, things from members I know..

there’s a reason I left twitter and I limit my conversations here to only when the episode comes.

Originally posted by: kashmayurfan

I do agree to that.

I’ve not read the last comment you mentioned. Agree it’s distasteful if it’s repeated. That’s why I avoid reading most things. I think it’s the only way to not get frustrated. I used to read everything before, but not anymore. Usually, things from members I know..

Yeah that is the best . Only from members u know and who understand ur pov and won't create a stir.

Originally posted by: Svt611

there’s a reason I left twitter and I limit my conversations here to only when the episode comes.

I don't find much difference between the members here & those twitter folks at this point. The kind of distasteful comments you get to read about VP scenes. I agree people may hate their touchy scenes but they act like it's soft po*n or something 😭😭😭

They really need to relax & chill.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I don't find much difference between the members here & those twitter folks at this point. The kind of distasteful comments you get to read about VP scenes. I agree people may hate their touchy scenes but they act like it's soft po*n or something 😭😭😭

They really need to relax & chill.

I’ve honestly started skipping their scenes. I don’t watch until it’s Virat screaming at Pakhi 🤣 the only time I watch them. Other than that I skip all Pakhi scenes cannot tolerate her one bit.
usually I stick to Savi and Sai scenes as they give me happiness. Rest depends on my mood. But p scenes never unless she is facing the music for her crimes. The only time I sit and tolerate her

Originally posted by: rac1

Aree nethraa chod do aap. How much ever we tell nobody is going to listen. And I can't understand how they treat it as normal. It is the mindset that when u don't like the person or hate the person anything and everything they do is a problem for them

I’m not saying that people should treat it as normal but the fact is that many of the actors get it done on purpose too. Sympathy gaining strategies they are called. So today it doesn’t baffle me when actor do certain things for fame…. I personally know of someone who has done it.
we can never tell who the troll is…. Best to ignore them, block them….. we have that power today.

Originally posted by: Svt611

I’ve honestly started skipping their scenes. I don’t watch until it’s Virat screaming at Pakhi 🤣 the only time I watch them. Other than that I skip all Pakhi scenes cannot tolerate her one bit.
usually I stick to Savi and Sai scenes as they give me happiness. Rest depends on my mood. But p scenes never unless she is facing the music for her crimes. The only time I sit and tolerate her

I never skip PakRat scenes mostly watch to see Virat's reaction or what he does or says ykw 😆 Pakhi is inconsequential to me.