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Honestly

Makers are trying to show how bad Raavi is

Pichle 2saalon se they couldn't show.

So now they are trying to show how unreasonable she is

Bcoz only Raavi ka mistreating Chiku makes no sense

Wese kids abusing is always wrong but they are trying to show ki Chiku se Raavi ka kuch nahi hain still mistreating him.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

💯 agreed. If she doesn't I will 😡
He had become a little normal after last time ki pitaayi. Looks like he is a laato ka bhoot.

As soon as these two crazy women re-entered in his life, he has started to take Raavi for granted again. Well technically he never stopped but he was way better in Vadodra.

I felt a disconnection between them today when he called her MKBKB. The bottom line is Shiva is hopeless.

He neither respects nor values her. She is only good while she lives her life according to him and fulfils her 'duties' towards him and his family.

He also doesn't talk to her but rather at her. Him never bothering to keep their conservations private has continued since the start, and now he has also made the children the spectators of this regularly occurring event. It is extremely insulting and humiliating.

Originally posted by: anoniya

I think they are trying to show how everyone has been adversely affected by the past.

Suman treating the child as the reason behind the family breaking is just how she has always been. She has always blamed children for their parent's or guardian's actions.

Rishita has become bitter after losing her daughter. Being back in that house doesn't help either. She blames Dhara and, by extension, her son. Him being the biological son of the woman who took her baby from her, she might view him as a living reminder of that incident

Raavi seems to have become extremely weary of Dhara. She believes the latter will do everything in her power to once again control her husband and take advantage of his current situation. She probably thinks everything Dhara's son is doing is under she guidance. Since she previously used the child to repeatedly call them, Raavi might consider this to also be part of her plan. Her being overly protective towards her child and not wanting him to get into any trouble (or be around any bad influence) could also be another factor.

None of these things make treating the child badly correct and I'm annoyed they are involving such young kids in these matters. They should either stop, or quickly and properly address these issues.

Dhara talking about making him "a part of the family" sounds like a joke given how she wasn't bothered about it during those seven years and even made the child think Suman's ill-treatment of him was normal. He's only questioning it now because she is behaving differently with the other two. It also makes me wonder just how much he knows about the past.

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

His memory slipped back 25 years ago when he used to call her weird names lol

I genuinely don't understand what is happening with him.

While his condition obviously makes it difficult for Raavi to say anything back to him, he really does require a good talking-to.

It's becoming quite hard to keep sympathising with him.

Originally posted by: anoniya

He neither respects nor values her. She is only good while she lives her life according to him and fulfils her 'duties' towards him and his family.

He also doesn't talk to her but rather at her. Him never bothering to keep their conservations private has continued since the start, and now he has also made the children the spectators of this regularly occurring event. It is extremely insulting and humiliating.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

Each one of them have gone through their own journey. They have their own bitter experiences and have developed a thought process. But the problem is, it is neither justified nor acknowledged.

The things that they try to prioritize should be much lower in the list.

They should prioritize to tackle each and everyone's pain instead of depicting staying away from each other as the biggest pain in everyone's life.

For them, if they start living together everything will be back to normal.

Isn't it very high expectation from the set of people who have gone through so much in their lives. Just because you want it, they should forgive and forget and start living with you. Is it really going to solve their issues with each other or issues in their lives.

The fact that the priority is getting them to start living under the same roof together rather than helping them overcome their respective grief and trauma is quite disturbing. It is basically the same as ignoring and sidestepping all of it.

Going back to living in that house would not be a good decision for any of them. That house holds too any bad memories to forget even if they do forgive the ones responsible. Also, even if everything gets solved and Dev and Rishita get their daughter back, Shiva recovers and Krish receives whatever respect he desires, it doesn't change a very big problem i.e. the control Dhara exerts over them.

She is still continuing along the same lines as before and there has been no change or growth in her behaviour. The refusal to address this will just make things go back to how they were before, with the brothers neglecting their wives and blinding doing everything Dhara tells them to. So Raavi and Rishita would lead better lives staying away from all that. Even Krish would be foolish to give up everything he has now. Unless they show Prerna being the one to break up with him leading to him losing it all...

You know:

No mother pushes her child in harms way. Mothers take burnt but protect bachchas from troubles! fight. sheild. Teach them right thing. Everything.

Raavi : with all the hardships has taught Mitthoo being honest, has kept his innocence guarded. He does go out play but is still a baby - 4 yr old & mama’s boy! Mom is his sheild, comfort, everything.

Dhara on the other hand has everything, she literally pushed all others in trench to buy this bachcha!

And is acting absolutely Non motherly.

She is pushing this child to listen to Suman’s taunts - knowingly. He is made to babysit & protect drunkard Zombi. He is burdened with onesided ronadhona w/ added masala by Dhara ‘Maa’ herself. He is forced to be extra over concerned about Zombi’s brothers & families.
why????
Inshort he is denied normal childhood.

At this point: shweta uses chhutki for her advantage similarly Dhara uses chikoo for her own advantages.

and they are deliberately adding this unnecessary name calling for chikoo to make viewers feel sorry for Dhara & her bachcha.
but it just adds question on Dhara more than others.

for eg: meanie pakhididi was always shown as supportive protective mother : ghum played out bachcha karte in past 6 months very sensitively.

Pandyastore is clearly on wrong foot on that.

There it comes again.. MKBKB 🤢

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

Shiva has been like this.. He wants Raavi to be certain way. His love has always been conditional. If you love my Bhabhi then only you can get my love. If you don't go out and talk to other guys, then only you can get my love. If you behave in a certain manner, then only you can get my love. The moment Raavi has behaved a little out of his expectations, he has either spat verbal venom on her or has dragged her and thrown her out.

However Raavi's love has always been unconditional. She accepted him the way he is and once she started to love him, she has made him her priority. Like Shiva, Raavi could also have come up with conditions like he will have to respect and talk nicely to her maasi (his Maami). But her love has always been unconditional. That's what makes me feel he doesn't deserve her.

Yes, he has always wanted to be accepted the way he is but refused to do that the same for her. He has unrealistically high expectations of her while not even doing the bare minimum himself. It's been too much of a one-way street till now.

The constant comparison with Dhara have also been uncomfortable to watch. Ironically, he would never tolerate Raavi actually behaving like her, and he himself has never even tried to treat her the way Gautam treats Dhara. Instead he kept trying to or threatening to break their marriage every time things did not go his way. Why has she alone had to always carry their marriage on her shoulders. What exactly has his responsibility been, apart from protecting her from physical harm which is something he would do for any anyone.

Raavi's love needs to start coming with conditions like trust, respect, understanding, communication. She can't just allow him to treat her however he wishes. It's not right and definitely not the kind of message they should be propagating in today's time. Hope something changes soon, or he gets better and she leaves him after realising nothing ever will.

Felt so bad for Chiku. Poor kid could have had a good life with his Nana-Nani. Instead Dora forcibly kept him with her in her selfishness. That ruined not just the family, but took away the love and care that both Chiku and Chutki deserved. And yet some people feel that Dora has not anything wrong. Truth is, she is the most selfish, self-centered woman, who is worse than many ITV vamps. Both Dora and Swetha needs to be put in jail for stealing and abusing children.