#crocodile lives matter - Page 9

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Tell me please.. I haven’t been very regular in watching.. But what I understand is that Sai has had a mental block against believing in Virat's love throughout, from the beginning.. And in order to safeguard herself she has always pushed Virat away.. This kind of behavior always renders a woman's love doubtful. And especially to an insensitive, bull headed man like Virat.. So this cross wired thinking of these two has always been the crux of the conflict.. And the reason for the current MU post leap..For Virat thinking she didn't care enough about him to come back.. And Sai thinking he didn't care enough about her to come get her. Which is why he has been trying so desperately to move on. If it had been anyone else other than P we would have been able to sympathise more with V, and not just Sai.. But it is the writers stupidity and lack of finesse in the way they have written P's character, the entire arc.. and a lack of proper emoting on part of NB in conveying Virat's complex emotions. They want to keep suspense regarding Virat's feelings, but if NB could give more nuanced expressions, it would have had more connect..

perfectly said! that is the crux of the story. however, I dont believe NB is not acting well. He CANNOT give away more expressions because it will reveal his side of the story.

Virat said something during Sai's confession that her words touched him for life. so when he knew about savi, he kind of accepted sai's love for him. He knows she loves him. I guess. But he cant keep quiet for long because Sai might fall out of love...seeing him with Pakhi. Sai today knew he loved her in the past but she might give up now.

Even in any other cases also no one will sympathise with virat with d he behaved pre leap with sai

He has no character arc positively infact his character is destroyed and even makers cant revive his core character.

That’s what we r seeing in d latest episodes. Makers r trying to show his pain(which is invisible) hurt vulnerability. But we audience can’t connect this virat anymore. If makers try hard also we can’t wont connect to him at all.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Tell me please.. I haven’t been very regular in watching.. But what I understand is that Sai has had a mental block against believing in Virat's love throughout, from the beginning.. And in order to safeguard herself she has always pushed Virat away.. This kind of behavior always renders a woman's love doubtful. And especially to an insensitive, bull headed man like Virat.. So this cross wired thinking of these two has always been the crux of the conflict.. And the reason for the current MU post leap..For Virat thinking she didn't care enough about him to come back.. And Sai thinking he didn't care enough about her to come get her. Which is why he has been trying so desperately to move on. If it had been anyone else other than P we would have been able to sympathise more with V, and not just Sai.. But it is the writers stupidity and lack of finesse in the way they have written P's character, the entire arc.. and a lack of proper emoting on part of NB in conveying Virat's complex emotions. They want to keep suspense regarding Virat's feelings, but if NB could give more nuanced expressions, it would have had more connect..

Virat always feel guilt related to P before sam entry and after his death when sam is in CN he never entertain her and after his death he again become soft V choose P over S but if V know Sai is alive he correct his mistake and try her back in her life but now he feel that year which he live in trauma is waste and and he think sai not love him S said to V so many time u r nobody to me its hurt him too much that hurt felling and MU suppress his true feeling and V is now feeling less even he never feel P pain also when ninash and S told then he correct his mistake towards P but not feel is wrong even P told she love him but he never acknowledge on that way he did only his duty and as a friend and husband under ahsaan

Originally posted by: sadiltl

perfectly said! that is the crux of the story. however, I dont believe NB is not acting well. He CANNOT give away more expressions because it will reveal his side of the story.

Virat said something during Sai's confession that her words touched him for life. so when he knew about savi, he kind of accepted sai's love for him. He knows she loves him. I guess. But he cant keep quiet for long because Sai might fall out of love...seeing him with Pakhi. Sai today knew he loved her in the past but she might give up now.

Sadhika, I know what you mean he is portraying what is being told to him to portray. I got my cue from Ayesha's IV when she said SV told her only to think of her child..as a single mother with no other emotions. Thats how she's acting now.

You know yesterday when Sai hugged him crying Mera Vinu....did you notice the way he said hamara Vinu Sai...I thought NB did very well there. He has made himself unemotional where Vinu was concerned...the baby I mean. Sai's panic attack broke through his facade for a moment. He had to comfort her at that point because she was crying for all three of them.

Thing is it is becoming tiring to watch. Something has to give way from this point... otherwise it is going back to square one. Sai treats Pakhi and goes back...with the entire Chawan badmouthing her in return like they did after Vinayak's treatment.

They could have shown Sai injured and Virat going to Sai Niwas and taking care of her. He could have made up for not being there during Sais pregnancy.

What more scenes of VP they want to show? He's her husband and always with her and they stay n same room. She packs for him, irons his clothes, they eat and parent Vinu together and stay together n CN with blessings of all the inmates. Since leap we see only VP scenes during festival, anniversary dance etc.

Rather they can't show Sai and V together much, so atleast on the pretext of taking care they could have shown their scenes together. Kankavli scenes also they cut short.

When he was married to Sai he took full care of Shruti and P during surrogacy.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

No I meant for Virat. His main reason & guilt is of that she's done favours on him if the narrative was she's his love that thing won't have come up at such situation.

Maybe, subconsciously, Virat also has a lot of guilt wrt P bcz he wasn't able to keep that famous "vada" of not loving anyone else, whereas P has kept on loving only him (like a pest, we feel), and he can never return those feelings.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Maybe, subconsciously, Virat also has a lot of guilt wrt P bcz he wasn't able to keep that famous "vada" of not loving anyone else, whereas P has kept on loving only him (like a pest, we feel), and he can never return those feelings.

No he is not guilty of his vaada. cafe meet, he cleared it. He must be guilty of using her for surrogacy and stopping her move on process. It was utter selfish act that destroyed her life and his and his wife's life. Now kids are also suffering. If he is guilty, it should be for this act.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Sadhika, I know what you mean he is portraying what is being told to him to portray. I got my cue from Ayesha's IV when she said SV told her only to think of her child..as a single mother with no other emotions. Thats how she's acting now.

You know yesterday when Sai hugged him crying Mera Vinu....did you notice the way he said hamara Vinu Sai...I thought NB did very well there. He has made himself unemotional where Vinu was concerned...the baby I mean. Sai's panic attack broke through his facade for a moment. He had to comfort her at that point because she was crying for all three of them.

Thing is it is becoming tiring to watch. Something has to give way from this point... otherwise it is going back to square one. Sai treats Pakhi and goes back...with the entire Chawan badmouthing her in return like they did after Vinayak's treatment.

See if Virat expresses his love for sai, it is dead end for the story. The conflict is gone. It has to be revealed through side characters as we have seen today. However, I agree Virat has to show in his actions what Sai means to him. Like yesterday, how he saved her clearly showed what is Sai for him. BK cleared it today.

Tomorrow, when Vinu's truth is revealed he has to give him to Sai. Thats how he should prove his love. Till the end...I believe, the title song plays here. "Par kabhi likh nahin sakta mein uska naam". Neil's interview came at the point to remove this confusion from audiences mind I guess...He clearly said Sai is his love and Pakhi is his duty. You have to look at his emotions not the track. Thats how I have been seeing the episodes post leap.

Only pre - anniversary episodes confused me. If Pakhi is duty, why did he use her to make Sai jealous? I think it is momentary lapse of judgement in his own emotions. I didnt understand him only in those episodes. Otherwise, he was pretty clear where his emotions lie.

That should have happened organically.. he was attracted to her before picnic .. he paid full attention to her in the bus .. they can go back home n make out ..but I am glad Sai Bai got a role to find her out and operate on her . To show she really means well .. and you should not give up on the one you love .. she will herself tell Virat to accept his marriage to pakhi .. abd give her love ., she deserves.. Virat as it is had no plans to returning back to sai .. he had no problems flirting n romancing with pakhi in the bus or picnic then why the hypocrisy to consummate .. chal karo and exit the story fast