Originally posted by: nethraa_99
Agree with the part that as a father, Virat has every right to spend time with his daughter - Pakhi's wish that she & Vinu should be first in Virat's priority is natural but not possible in the present circumstances. Savi is going to be equally important to him. I didn't find NinAsh's concerns wrong- it arose because it was causing problem in their son's marriage....not because Virat was wrong in spending time with Savi. Few days ago, they also advised Pakhi to accept the truth that Savi will always be a an important part of Virat's life & hence he will invariably be meeting Sai often. They are trying to save their son's marriage - so far, they are balanced in their approach. And they are only acting out of their son's interest ultimately not Pakhi's. This is what they failed to do in SaiRat's marriage. A husband & wife have to work things out carefully in such a complicated situation. Given that Virat met his daughter after years, I understand his emotions in spending the night at Sai's place to take care of his sick child ..but as elders, NinAsh have to look at the situation from multiple angles. They are not asking Virat to limit his time with Savi...only advising him to make his wife secure.
He has the right to spend time with Savi..
But in all of this he can't spend it with her mother around at their place, where the mother has no partner of hers, given when he has not discussed it with his own wife..This cannot just be his decison.I have said it before also he needs to come to a conclusion with Patralekha..Not everything can be blamed on Patralekha here..Virat is more at fault.
Patralekha is his official wife, he needs to first discuss things with her, try to bring her in this with him, rather than declaring he will do what he has to do & women concerned need to accept it.. that's no the right behaviour.. For Savi he can't ignore his wife and their son. Virat is wrong in the way he has handled it all, thrown tantrums and taken decisions without consulting anyone.. he is a slefish man & very very self centred, one reason why i never feel bad for him is his this nature...
It's seems like he used Vinu and Patralekha when he felt like using them and is discarding them when he got his own real daughter...
Edited by asmi_ekaa - 2 years ago
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