Originally posted by: snatch
Are u a guy or a girl ? because there are no sanksari guys who listen to parents and stuff anymore, some are introverts.
for your information super majority of men are alike, given a chance they sleep around. as i said earlier some are introvert and don't have it in them to confidently approach women.
now why girls like ranbir ? the guy got the charm. decent phsyical appearance, good presence of mind , speaks well and of course a promising/ successful career
Lol I'm a girl... For more clarity about my post I want you to read my other post here :
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/162045766
I'm copy pasting here the same comment which is in the link :
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Don't take the words "Bad" and "good" as it is literally.
Here "Good = Shy or Sanskari types who don't approach you
Bad = bold/confident enough to approach you.
This definition is not given by me. I read it somewhere on the social media.. .
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If you read this copy paste I said that sanskari types means shy types who don't approach you... That's what you are calling "introvert".... So we made similar points about sanskari types but used different words. That's it.
As Sanskari/shy/introvert types don't approach a girl on their own they may not get a girl on their own, so they depend on their parents to look for a girl.
There are sanskari guys. I closely saw one guy in my own family and other guy in my class in college. This guy in my class( in professional college) was a topper,good looking,he alone used to sit in first bench. Yes no one used to sit in first bench. He was the only person always sit in first bench throughout 4 and half years. . In first year based on his looks and as he was topper few girls including one of my friends tried to approach him but he never used to talk to any girls in the class, never cared for those girls who approached him. We never saw him talking to guys too. After few months these girls did start finding him boring and stopped caring about him. In fact all girls thought he was boring cuz he don't talk to anyone. He is one best example of shy/sanskari types.. in your words "introvert".
About bad guys I gave you that definition too in above copy paste. These guys confidently approach girls, girls fall for them too but you see them interested only in short term relationships not interested in long term commitment like marriage. My ex was that type, he approached me a lot but was not the type of guy who was into serious long term commitment like marriage. After I broke up with him he was same with other girls too. The exes of my friends also were same, they approached my friends but none of them got married cuz their exes were not into serious committed long term relationships. So based on these observations I called them who are boy friend material or husband material.
Exceptions must be always there it's not like I know all the men in the world. I never had male friends except my ex. So based on my ex and Exes of my friends I made an observation.
My post was mainly about psychology of majority of girls and for whom girls fall generally.
@bold
As I really don't know all the men or majority of men in the world I'm not sure how much it is true that super majority of men sleep around if they are given chance. So I can't talk about it. May be you are true I don't know.
@Red
Well we are not just talking about girls "liking" Ranbir. We are talking about girls "falling" for Ranbir. He may got decent physical appearance, good presence of mind, speaks well, promising/successful career as you said but I don't think these were enough for girls falling for him cuz those girls were also too beautiful, good presence of mind speaks well, successful career if you see Deepika, Alia etc., So I don't think having those qualities in Ranbir was enough, he seemed to actively approached them, so those beautiful, successful actresses fell for him.
Edited by Newbird - 3 years ago
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