Daar ughad baye - Page 4

Renuka told her mother that the things she does with her boyfriend Ved, sometimes all night long, are unmentionable, unbearable for Vaijayanti's generation ...

Yet when we saw Renuka nestling into the crook of Ved's arm, he seemed to care much more about Renuka's feelings than for her body. The whole time he laughed at her and chased her, I got the impression that they are taking their time with intimacy.

Renuka's own father leers at her more than her boyfriend! And for whatever reason, Renuka likes to say hurtful things to Vaijayanti. I suspect that she exaggerated this time.

When Rāvasāheba smiled at Renuka's disgust for Sarang's choice, I thought, how long before he finds out about his pampered daughter's choice? Will his opinion of Renuka change?

Well I beg to differ, IMO Vayjayanti has been programmed by her husband to obey his orders 24×7 with her head held low ..Infact when she decided for the engagement to take place at the earliest fearing Sarang's feelings for Mukta Raosaheb reprimanded her for taking decisions without consulting him..

Also Sarang had once rightly proclaimed to her that kahi zhala tari Raosahebana dukhvaycha nahi. Also when Vayjayanti had asked him to sacrifice his love, desires, he vehemently said, for that he would have to be Vayjayanti Nagarkar and that he cannot live a fake life..

As for Arya, though her family has been wronged, she herself has to be blamed for her miseries,,it's good that she got a reality check, she was living in her delusional world where she thought that Sarang loved her too..She mistook bachpan ke dost for jawani ke humsafar...Sarang never reciprocated her feelings nor gave her any signals, it was Papya who proposed her once but she laughed it off .

Will be interesting to see now how Mukta and Sarang get together and fight the misogynist mindset of Raosaheb..

Originally posted by: Pr_b

As for Arya, though her family has been wronged, she herself has to be blamed for her miseries,,it's good that she got a reality check, she was living in her delusional world where she thought that Sarang loved her too..She mistook bachpan ke dost for jawani ke humsafar...Sarang never reciprocated her feelings nor gave her any signals, it was Papya who proposed her once but she laughed it off .

Sarang gave Arya plenty of signals.

First, when he was blindsided by the announcement that he must marry her, he didn't say no.

Second, when she hugged him, he didn't reject her.

Third, when she found him on his knees as if practising a proposal, he didn't tell her it wasn't for her.

Fourth, when he sent Papya with a "Love You" note and she read it, he didn't tell her it wasn't for her.

Fifth, he allowed her to put the ring on his finger.

Did I miss any more signals?

I agree that it's good that Arya knows the truth now. But her deception is not her own fault in any way. It was entirely Sarang's responsibility to speak up before the guests arrived for the sākharapuḍā. Arya didn't deserve to be hurt and humiliated like this, and Sarang failed as a friend.

I do sympathize with Sarang because he is financially dependent on his father, who has probably beaten him with a stick before. It wasn't an easy decision to refuse the arranged marriage. I wish the show had been explicit about Sarang's lack of means and his fear. Instead of asking Arya to slow down for his sake, his focus was on whether Mukta loves him too.

Originally posted by: Pr_b

Well I beg to differ, IMO Vayjayanti has been programmed by her husband to obey his orders 24×7 with her head held low ..Infact when she decided for the engagement to take place at the earliest fearing Sarang's feelings for Mukta Raosaheb reprimanded her for taking decisions without consulting him..

Also Sarang had once rightly proclaimed to her that kahi zhala tari Raosahebana dukhvaycha nahi. Also when Vayjayanti had asked him to sacrifice his love, desires, he vehemently said, for that he would have to be Vayjayanti Nagarkar and that he cannot live a fake life..

You say "programmed" and I say Stockholm Syndrome. Is that a difference of opinion about why Vaijayanti treated Mukta so coldly and cruelly? Don't we agree that Vaijayanti isn't pretending to be angry? She is angry at Mukta for being the reason that Sarang offended Rāvasāheba.

Rāvasāheba said to Vaijayanti, you know very well that in this house, men take decisions. Not women. How did you dare to speak, let alone decide the sākharapuḍā date?

You and I agree that Vaijayanti knows this rule, right?

She didn't break the rule and displease her husband by accident. It was a calculated sacrifice. If her husband browbeats her, she can bear it, but not that her child gets the stick.

Sarang came down from USA and the marriage thingy popped out of nowhere and was shoved on his face...wot was he supposed to do...He has grown up seeing his father's anger , of course he wouldn't have said downright no..He was caught in a sticky situation..Add to that this Arya..forever trying to cling to him..when she hugged him, he didn't hug her back, he was awkward, of course it was stupid of him to write I love you in English knowing very well Mukta wouldn't understand..but it was again Arya who took it forcibly from Papya thinking it to be for her..Sarang was also not sure abt Mukta's feelings towards him..If it wasn't for aaji hard words he would have gone ahead with the engagement too..

As for Vaijayanti, the onus of upholding the family's esteem is upon her shoulders and she's doing just that ...

Mukta's feelings should not have been a factor in how Sarang treated Arya.

You and I agree that it wasn't easy for Sarang to say no to the arranged marriage.

Arya thought that the note was for her because Mukta told her so. Mukta knew that Sarang wanted to say something to her on bended knee with a flower. She should have let Papya deliver Sarang's message.

Sarang didn't know that Mukta can't read English.

Finally watched yesterday's epi, superb performance by Saaniya Chaudhary...The anguish, the pain was beautifully expressed by Saaniya..

Raosaheb is adamant to get his son married to Arya, I thought at least this Nimbalkar would be a sensible guy, despite all the tamasha and now fully aware abt Sarang's feelings for Mukta, he has no qualms with getting his daughter married to the same guy, I think Arya should have taken a stand here and rejected the proposal..Hope the women in Nimbalkar house have the right to raise their voice..

Originally posted by: Pr_b

Finally watched yesterday's epi, superb performance by Saaniya Chaudhary...The anguish, the pain was beautifully expressed by Saaniya..

Raosaheb is adamant to get his son married to Arya, I thought at least this Nimbalkar would be a sensible guy, despite all the tamasha and now fully aware abt Sarang's feelings for Mukta, he has no qualms with getting his daughter married to the same guy, I think Arya should have taken a stand here and rejected the proposal..Hope the women in Nimbalkar house have the right to raise their voice..

Well, mishkil, it's too early to come to a conclusion...It was Saaniya Chaudhari and actors to the likes of Sharad Ponkshe and Suhas Paranjpe that made me give it a watch , let's see how the story progresses...also it has some decent TRP's .

कालच्या episode मध्ये आजी ने रावसाहेब ना जे सुनावलं ना, मला फार आवडलं.

Dialogues छान होते👌.

पण हा रावसाहेब किती कपटी आहे. मुक्ता ला तिच्या कामाचे पैसे दिले, पण आता ते ही हिसकावून घेणार आहे😡