Arey logon ne aajkal sab terms ko itna twist kar diya hai ki actual definitions sab bhool gaye hain. Larger than life se nahin ho jaata narcissism yaar.....and I know you don't mean it that way but logon ne aajkal aisa karna shuru kar diya hai ki anyone playing a powerful or assertive character is automatically narcissist unless he is playing with orphaned kids on the side or giving daily motivation gyaans to people 😆......itni reductionist soch ho gayi hai logon ki.
Viraj is a powerful character who wields money and influence but is not a narcissist. Even poor people can be narcissists....it's not dependent on having power or money. It's about a craving for attention and stems from low self-esteem. Viraj ka issue so far is not self-esteem....it's cynicism, bitterness and trust issues.
Oh one other bit from the Bournvita date I forgot to mention....I liked how he walked her through self-diagnosing her own panic attack😆.....that was so smooth and well done without showing forced attitude or anything. He literally just pointed out her behavior and asked her how she would diagnose it if she saw someone else in this state😆....and solution bhi usse khud hi bulva li....while also simultaneously managing to calm her down😆.
Agar yeh Gul show hota toh pehle 10 minute ka slow motion and 10 page ke "I know everything" type dialogues hote from ML to self-praise before getting to the point😆. When the funny part is viraj actually Knows everything😆 unlike the faltu ke claims..he is like ok I do not need to brag. I liked their borunvita night out too once again how smartly viraj made her fall for his game again that she is indeed in danger and took her back in..I liked woh end bit of entering again with him giving her a disclaimer ke iske baad try na karna it was rather intresting to see in the sense that how sly viraj really is..he made her believe that she has a choice when in reality she didn't really but all that still not looking like he is forcing her into it and making decisions for her when in the same episode he is seen saying that kavya cannot take decisions the only one who can is me.. I liked the vibe of this trip and I agree I liked how he made her treat herself and calmed her down to open up enough and then went on comforting her to win her trust .. lol his I am not a rakshash ke itna bhi bura nahi ...like you really thought I will hit the kid😆 ok woh toh zyada ho gaya tha kavya ji..viraj kaisa bhi ruthless hi woh toh maine bhi expect nahi kia tha.. wohi toh the understanding side of viraj came thru beautifully that below all that is a human who can empathize too..I really really liked it too with how easy it was and how comforting..for a sec there really it was not about the whole thing for him and genuine human to human courtesy tha. Insaniyat dikhi.
The other bits i liked was the way he just closes when his nom shows uo and was like duniya ki gandagi saaf karte hain and inke saamne nahi discuss kar sakte along those lines and told her to leave business on him and not interfare..and lol that it is in my blood bit hahah we need gifs for that..baaki his trust issues become more and more apparent..and i am liking how they are so far showing parent issues too .they arw very obviously there but he doesn't make himself a sorry figure and bade ache se deals with them atleast in front of others like how he aaram se inserted there ke main luck pe believe nahi karta when kavya started talking about her mother. And then again woh iss sabke neeche ka viraj the son kinda peeping who doesn't have that luxury and have such strained relationship that's to his mom ne jo bhi kia. His trust esp in family is what stands out .
Baaki i agree about the generalizing of terminology to the point that it starts losing the exact meaning and being thrown aise hi and the whole internet slang cahnging entire way of using terms



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