Did you have/will get heirloom KANGANS from MIL /Mother - Page 3

Originally posted by: shruti46

Beta will not wear it which means DIL will get it and that will be you.

It means you are paying for your own jewelry and loaning to her🤣

As my parents have many siblings

So shayad kisiko bhi khaandani jewelleries nahi mili hain 😆

I don't think aisa koyi scene bhi hain hamare yaha 🤣

New jewelleries are made and given to each other on weddings.

But now in our family all have started having 2 and most of my cousins have 1 kid toh shayad khaandani haar ka system start ho 🤣

Originally posted by: shruti46

You too only got kangans not other jewelry pieces?

I did get other stuff from my in laws but from my mom’s jewelry I got her kangan as I have other siblings too 😆. So I decided to give kangan to both of my kids.

I dont know🤔 i m younger one in family so maybe my sis get my mother's🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: sreeja_rox

The hindu weddings in Kerala are actually very unfair . The engagements and weddings both are done from the girl’s side and it wont end there . We got this new custom of giving kangans to MIL and groom ki sisters .

For Tamil Brahmins like me, engagement and it’s expense is footed by boy’s side and wedding is footed by girl’s side.

But, more less, what you said is there.. girls side has to spend a lot for the wedding & gifts

I think my mom has kept hers for me😳