Ek vinu ko Kho chuka Hu ab dusre ko nahi khone chahta hu - Page 31

Originally posted by: Rosyme

I think they shot the scene of BK insulting Sai n front of her friend , when Sai s with broker.

There one pic of BK with another lady for navratri Pooja outside.

So Pooja is happening outside CN?

Btw why Aria & Tanvi wearing similiar dress. What's the occasion

Originally posted by: mysticriver

So Pooja is happening outside CN?

Btw why Aria & Tanvi wearing similiar dress. What's the occasion

For Navratri, every day there is a colour. Usually ppl wear those.

Today s blue i think.

So those were the personal clothes they wore from home i think.

Don't know i think that BK s scene was inserted just to abuse Sai before she entered the hospital.

From White To Pink, Significance Of Nine Colours Of Navaratri Festival. ...

White: Peace & Serenity. ..

Red: Passion & Love. ..

Royal Blue: Richness & Tranquility. ..

Yellow: Bright & Cheerful. ..

Green: Fertility & Nature. ..

Grey: Emotions. ..

Orange: Positivity & Energy.

.......Energy.

Originally posted by: Rosyme

For Navratri, every day there is a colour. Usually ppl wear those.

Today s blue i think.

So those were the personal clothes they wore from home i think.

Don't know i think that BK s scene was inserted just to abuse Sai before she entered the hospital.

If those were personal clothes then why entire is in same color lol that too offscreen

Originally posted by: mysticriver

If those were personal clothes then why entire is in same color lol that too offscreen

We also used to wear the same colour for work during Navratri.and take group pictures. It was not compulsory though. Some similar shade of that Colour. It felt good to break the monotonous routine.

I worked n a school for last 6 yrs. So all teachers wore the same colour and our principal posted it n the school groups and FB.

I don't mind you putting such beautiful thoughts😍

There are some very good points, like,

Vinu doesn't really have to pay. His parents are paying and suffering.

Totally agree. Parents feel hurt when their children is hurt.

Pakhi getting but not really getting anything. She's not happy. She's just restlessly surviving with her insecurities. All the time, she's scared of losing, that doesn't even belong to her.

Also, about bk. Agree. She doesn't have much to lose. She did that as head of the family.

Virat is suffering a lot, due to his own mistakes. Hope he actually learns now.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Karma and its varied ways of teaching a lesson! Bear with me while I put out my random thoughts.

Yup Vinu chosing his mother will be the ultimate justice delivered by Bappa to everyone involved in this mess that is surrogacy. Remember Ashwini's words to Sai on the night of Surrogacy. Bappa will take care. That is what is happening I guess. Everyone is reaping for what they sowed.

The main culprits of surrogacy kaand is Pakhi, Virat and BK in that order. BK though demanded Pakhi to be surrogate, her intentions came from a family head PoV, so her hand in this mess is little. Bad karma is also little. Anyways she has nothing to lose. She didnt gain any love or trust from anyone to lose. She is living her own pathetic life as always. As a matriarch, she lost the lamp of her family which she will suffer mentally. Which is again her own doing.

Virat is bigger culprit though Pakhi orchestrated everything. He failed Sai as husband, Vinu as father and Pakhi as human being. He could have saved Pakhi with his decision, if Pakhi is going to have illness as in KD. His Karma is the biggest if not equal to Pakhi's in this mess. Why not equal because, somewhere he did operate as a husband and father though selfishly. He wanted to provide the joy of motherhood to Sai and make their marriage happier. There is some good intention which makes his Karma not as bad as Pakhi's. However he suffered the most. The worst suffering he could ever have. The guilt of losing his child and wife. Heartbreak for losing his love. Nothing can be worser than the life he lived during this separation.

Bappa however will ultimately deliver happiness to Virat because he kind of redeemed himself with the adoption. Only remaining thing is his loyalty to Sai which we are hoping he would be redeemed in some way. Then he will get his family intact, bonus is Savi whom he always desired to have. If he had done any good Karma like taking care of Pakhi (in some way) then Savi will be the result of his good Karma for sure. Extra happiness.

With Sai, her payback is till less except for the heartbreak. Which she will soon be recovered from once Vinu's adoption is revealed. Still it is in Virat's court to bring happiness to them. Till she is tied to Virat, she will suffer because of his Karma of marrying Pakhi. :(

Also, Sai lost Vinu and Virat. But Bappa gave her Savi who gave her will to live and reminded her of Virat's presence. She suffered less when compared to Virat. Which I would expect. The karma of being Virat's wife will be there and she has fulfilled it. Only karma she will be still paying now is heartbreak. Because she could have trusted Virat a little bit more and could have avoided the accident. Because of this, she had to endure some bad consequences. Misunderstandings which will give her heartbreak and guilt that she lost Vinu to an accident.

Vinu did suffer a bit for his Dad's mistake. That is the karma he incurred in birth for being his son. He had congenital disease and lost his initial years in orphanage. This is also a kind of punishment to his father who called his mother an orphan. His own progeny who he fought against fate to bring into this world and fought against his love to give him a family, lost both. So through Vinu, it is Virat only who suffered the consequences. Vinu quickly got his family and dad back indirectly freeing Virat from his ousting karma. Now when Sai heals him from the congenital disease, Virat will be free from his Surrogacy karma too. Actually there is no payback for the kid. He didnt do anything willingly to suffer these consequences. It is his parents who are paying their Karma through him. He is just a facilitator like Bappa himself, Vinayaka.

Pakhi is actually paying her Karma every moment. She is perennially in pay back mode. She has everything she desired but nothing is hers. She cannot ever be happy. Her life can never be normal. Now if they follow KD, mental and physical illness will cause her more damage. This damage is permanent. If the illness is a result of surrogacy, she is paying it first hand and it is permanent. She might stop being unhappy if she frees Virat. From any responsibility and leaves that house. It is all in her hands now. Because, once Virat is back with his family, he will be happy and will not interfere with pakhi like before (pre-surrogacy). It is again Pakhi and her own willingness to be near him that will take a toll on her. So yeah, the only way she can be happy or start afresh is to come out of Virat's life!! In short, once Virat gets his family back in tact, he has no karma associated with Pakhi. He has done his payback.

PS: I dont know why I wrote this. Got inspired from Anilaanu's post above. I incurred too much Karma writing this. I have to go and work now :)

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Its virat who is facing worst(not considering pakhi here...she will be left with unhappiness only which she deserves) by karma...

When vinu was pregnant...sai was kept away and it is also evident virat didn't cross any line....he was near the child but there is a difference between having your child on wife's womb and your and your wife child on other woman's womb...he was near pakhi as father but he couldn't enjoy as husband....also Sai was seen to be happy during godbharai day and also they seemed to have an understanding....also they shared many intimate moments....savi is the result...

When sai was pregnant with savi she got to know every phase but virat will never know it unless sai will have another child....virat has never seen how a child smile ,how it starts to talk ...how it take first steps...but sai was blessed with it...also virat was more with vinu than sai but he longs for sai but savi is more longing for vinu not virat..

Pakhi has nothing CN members will flip to sai today or tomorrow.....virat only used pakhi for his selfishness...vinu will go to sai atleast through savi...she is biological mother...

Vinu going to kangoli was God's planning to give back sai her lost happiness

Wow It is beautiful and I agree probably the makers want to show how karma is playing with these. While Patralekha’s karma is fairly established, Virat will soon face for his past decisions.

Yeah Virat is the one who suffered. Then Sai also. See in marriage, both suffer for the deeds of one person.

Virat had done terrible mistakes from surrogacy to separation. His intentions for Sai were always clean like you said but he did turn selfish in surrogacy kaand. Sai also could have given him BoD during separation. Trusted him a little more that he will handle Pakhi better. So both suffered for their mistakes because they are tied by love for each other and through marriage. It is very painful. Thats why I say this separation has to teach them for life, how to work as. a team. independent of Pakhi. Thats what Aaba said. This separation has to rectify the core mistakes they did in their marriage.

they remained loyal through out separation. Virat will still have to prove the marraige and willingness to stay loyal forever. This is requried because Pakhi is not any other woman for Sai to easily trust him. Sai stayed loyal to him, proved her love so he should learn to value her more than his family.

Pakhi again had nothing to lose. virat or vinu was never hers to lose. she has only her life and mental peace to lose. If she needs to learn anything then it is her own self worth.

When she was younger, it was okay but I wish Sai learns some tact to handle situations. I wish both fight everything like a unit. I wish they learn that lesson.