Originally posted by: diya_snow
Totally agree with you....Deba need to be careful...its ok to love yourself but obsession wo alag baat hai....Shraddha Arya wali baat Maine bhi notice kara tha ab Shraddha arya is in industry since long wo pakad hi legi aisi baate but still she treated Deba sweetly....mujhe laga tha follow karenge ek dusre ko but I guess ek aur baar milna padega inhe ....
What I feel ...Deba can never be that type of girl who can think highly of herself...even KV said in a IV "she even doesn't know herself that how much she is talented" . It's just that she isn't able to use the right words .If she says that "I do write stuff but don't know whether it's good or not" or "ppl say I have a good voice"....that would never sound wrong.It's just how one places the words...and that's why I say she needs to articulate things.
Deba before coming to acting industry shy nature ki thi as per her IVs baad me Jake she become opposite but I still feel wo old wali Deba kahi na kahi hai and may be isiliye wo samjh nahi paati kabhi kabhi kya bolna hai kaise bolna hai...
May be her shyness peeps out sometimes...
Ek baat jo mujhe lagta hai Deba ko sikhni chahiye wo ye ke to understand other person POV and feelings....Fans ko yahi lagta hai ke Deba fans ke feelings nahi samjhti..
Fans ko toh Deba ke barein mein bohot kuch lagta hai.And mostly who create fuss about each and everything of her....I feel their motive is to pull her down to show their idol to be the best.
Kuch fans aise bhi hai jo ye sochte hai ke Deba fans ke paas tabhi aati hai jab jaroorat ho...jaise kal trend kara to Twitter pe aa gayi....baki time Fans pe dhyaan nahi deti....
I do really feel she shouldn't distance herself so much from fans...there are a lot of genuine fans and hatred by fans/ trollers is common for every actor but still she should realise that there will be some haters among a bulk of genuine fans.I loved that she acknowledged the fan's trend.A little bit of pampering the genuine fans is required to lift their mood.If she really loves her fans then she needs to show it also .
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