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Posted: 3 years ago

Yeah they have to address this chirag issue for sure. In my OS I made virat explain BK why only his child is important not mohits?. And now that savi is born, he has to make sure she is as much chirag as vinu is! I think they will address all these things.


also it kind of looked vinu will look and behave like sai… so CN will have her presence in her absence. And the girl is looking like virat and might be emotional like virat, emphasizing the presence of virat with sai in his absence.

I think there is a dialogue post small separation in KD where sai laments that she stayed away from rono during her initial pregnancy and rono says that he was always there with her in the form of their unborn child…


all these things make sense if they show virat wallowing in pain for the words he spoke. I am sure todays episode will have some more mudsling from both sides. I can’t believe he steered the confrontation from Pakhi to joint family crisis 😬. I am sure he will almost die of heart attack for the words he spoke 😭

Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Very true.

He did all surrogacy mess. What does he think pp can bring the baby with him and sai should stand n a corner and watch ?

Yet he didnt do anything. Poor girl she collected facts and filed a police complaint and got her arrested.

And he brought her back? He negated everything that Sai did.

Noone knows what he wants exactly. No communication or discussion with wife.

He told he wants to have a child only with Sai when she miscarried. But doesnt he want Sai and himself bring up the same child? Why he wants only Sai s eggs and not her contribution as a mother?

Things r only going to me Messier with the kids around once she s back and Pp permanently in Virats life with full control over him and vinu and the family.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Yeah. But when that whole joint family is available, why does Vinu need a designated "mother". Sab log hai na. V himself said that i may be by birth Ashwini 's son but everyone has had equal claim/role/love on me. They even established kinda ego thing in early scenes where bk repeatedly takes sadistic pleasure and ego kick when V or Sam take her blessings even before their own parents etc. So despite being kaku her stature was equal/bigger than their maa baap. So when all that is the case even more reason that theres no real reason for one "mother" figure. Sab toh hai.

Whereas as a single parent with no support often people may opt to marry again just to give the child a semblance of family. Often two widowers/divorceees may marry each other to give the kids a sense of normalcy.

Thats why I really won't understand the narrative of pp being given the maa title, V being pushed to remarry or play ghar-ghar with pp. Because pp has been given a haq on Vinu even in the presence of Sai by these people, so in her absence why is there a need to put a label on the relationship with V or Vinu.. they can still keep her as badi kaku or whatever. And jabb itnee log hai, why to force any sort of devar- bhabhi marriage/relationship etc?! It'll be the most scandalous thing too.

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Posted: 3 years ago

That is what my disconnect with Sai is too. I agree they have shown a very organic journey with her being the stubborn out spoken girl to becoming more calmer version of herself. But in all this she has maintained her values. And V has constantly stepped on it. This has been their reason for their many arguments.

But a girl like Sai should not be tolerating such abuse and language at the hands of anyone. That does not define her character. While she has mellowed, her core value system and ethical foundation remains intact. All that has changed is her tolerance and acceptance. So she does not react at just about anything triggering or insulting. But can you really imagine a girl like Sai responding to someone name calling her?

Today her walking out today was so like the Sai. But, at the same time why did she keep tolerating V's ignorance and casual behaviour towards P's intentions? Why did she go all out getting humiliated by the family after SH incident?

The marriage and CN has changed her, but not to the extent that she forgets what is made of.

There is no comparison to V. He is non existent as a character. He can be turned and twisted the way they like. The Vaada phobic, can never stay true to his words. His flips faster than lightning. Sai forgave him and he goes all out giving promises to trust her, and within hours he has let her down. And then he says he is known to keep his word and go to any extent for it. He watches his wife abused day in and day out but stands mute, but can fight it out with her incase she shares anything negative about anyone...which is an obvious truth. He can't hear anything about his family. They can kill someone and he will still save them. But she doesn't fall into that category..because she is adopted..not his true family. LOSER

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Posted: 3 years ago

For that to comment, I'm still waiting for leap to play out, to see how are they fitting Pakhi in Vinu's life, because right now everything are just predictions and presumptions, we definitely not know anything and Vankar has habit to go out of the way, plus the promo can be misleading too bcoz somehow I still feel Virat & Pakhi will not play Ghar Ghar with each other, it's just doesn't add up but can't comment surely bcoz here characters flips in hours not even days🥲

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Shree15

Also one thing I notice, there was a lot of emphasis on Joint family upbringing and single parent upbringing in recent episodes, I guess this will be the main point of narrative post leap. With Vinu's upbringing will be Joint family pov & Savi's upbringing will be Single parent pov and the drama will start when both these povs will collide with each other.

Today lot of abuses and taunts were hurled at Sai for being orphan and being raised by single parent, I think this was to move forward the plot and to show that Single parent upbringing is no less than Joint family upbringing, all what the child need is love, care, concern & warmth, then no matter whether it's single or joint family, also it'll emphasis that even after raised by Single person, a kid can have everything, whereas even after raised among so many members, a kid can be lonely, most probably Savi will be the mature, understanding and sorted kid due to Sai's upbringing, whereas Vinu will have problematic traits due to parenting problem and confusion, even after raised by so many people......... also, I feel Virat most probably will be absent father in Vinu's life......


Also, there are lots of mentions regarding the so called "varis" and "chirag" of Chavan Khandan, Chavans think that they got their Varis in Vinu, but I feel the real Varis that they are desiring will be found in Savi, it can also emphasis the fact that a heir shouldn't be mandatorily, a male child, a female child can be called as heir also, the gender shouldn't be the parameter to decide the heir....


Also, technically it'll be Savi only, who'll take forward the legacy of Chavans, bcoz as per promo Vinu wants to become Doctor, so he'll take forward Sai's legacy, whereas the legacy of Nagesh Chavan, which was taken forword by Virat Chavan, will be later taken forword by Savi, after Virat, she'll become the IPS from the family, and it'll also serve Karmic justice to Kaku, Pakhi and whole Chavans, who were blind to get thier heir and did create a hell out of the heaven for that heir, will not be the actual heir, they used to proclaim........but it'll be Sai's upbringing, which will take forward their so called celebrated legacy..........




Ps: I hope after reading this Vankar don't change his mind💀


I hope they actually show Virat detached with the kid. That will be the best writing. Who was so obsessed with kid, isn't interested in him after Sai's presumed demise.

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Posted: 3 years ago

But people do make compromises they never would just because of love, emotional attachment and conditioning. Getting into CN for Sai is like a free bird thrown into a cage. So after a few years there she's changed and not necessarily all in a good way.

A bird caged for too long will forget to fly and perhaps not even realize that the door of the cage is open.

Its like the elephant story Sai told V.

Sai herself is also a victim of conditioning now. Few years with these horrible people have impacted her, and not necessarily in a good way.

So the way I see it her core is the same but her tolerance has increased so much that people compare her to the older self and think- why did she allow people treat her so badly. But Its what happens when you are brainwashed. In Shruti track she ultimately allowed everyone to trample her self respect because she was literally brainwashed into thinking she was the one who was responsible for it all. Till date V says you "misunderstood" me. There was not one discussion between them where he apologized for his role, his major part. And unfortunately being in that coop of CN with no support Sai had no one to say to her- No girl, this isnt you, you dont need to apologize to anyone anymore. You may have faulted but everyone else sinned. So dont bend anymore. She had no family/friends to back her. Whej the whole world tells you that you are wrong, you start believing it.

But she took it then because she felt guilty. Whereas now she knows she has done everything right but she still had to tolerate some crap just until baby came out. She had another thing holding her back. But now, baby is out, so her fierceness is back. Now she has nothing to tie her down.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yeah they have to address this chirag issue for sure. In my OS I made virat explain BK why only his child is important not mohits?. And now that savi is born, he has to make sure she is as much chirag as vinu is! I think they will address all these things.


also it kind of looked vinu will look and behave like sai… so CN will have her presence in her absence. And the girl is looking like virat and might be emotional like virat, emphasizing the presence of virat with sai in his absence.

I think there is a dialogue post small separation in KD where sai laments that she stayed away from rono during her initial pregnancy and rono says that he was always there with her in the form of their unborn child…


all these things make sense if they show virat wallowing in pain for the words he spoke. I am sure todays episode will have some more mudsling from both sides. I can’t believe he steered the confrontation from Pakhi to joint family crisis 😬. I am sure he will almost die of heart attack for the words he spoke 😭


Pata nehi kiya dikhayenge after her supposed death cus they've started shooting for post leap & done with Sai's ceremony. I hope Vankar makes it emotional and give justice to Sai atleast after her supposed death. Don't be cruel & insentive to this extent 😔

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Posted: 3 years ago

Yes this chirag things wi surely come up when Sai & Virat will get back together again and I hope they take realistic and progressive approach regarding that, bcoz right now it's so regressive, when they call the male child as chirag plus BK is on the verge of making Pakhi some Devi, bcoz she gave birth to their Chirag, even after committing all the crimes🙄


As for Virat, yes even I feel he'll regret those words, this anath, no family and all will come & haunt him forever, the guilt to not end up on good note with his love before her presumed last breaths will kill him internally, and that's why I feel he will be absent father to Vinu, whether ppl believe or not it was strongly established in the show that Virat loves Sai, so her death and the scenario before her death, will not be taken easily by Virat, he'll be lost for sure, although he had effed up a lot in his actions and it's another matter of discussion but I still believe that he loves Sai only....



But at the last I don't have an ounce of trust on Vankar and makers, I hope they play out this presumed death track properly, specially from Virat's pov and give Virat some introspection and redemption......if they want Sairat to be endgame, he should repent and repent very hard..

Edited by Shree15 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mysticriver


Pata nehi kiya dikhayenge after her supposed death cus they've started shooting for post leap & done with Sai's ceremony. I hope Vankar makes it emotional and give justice to Sai atleast after her supposed death. Don't be cruel & insentive to this extent 😔

I guess they will show virat breaking down or shutting himself in an episode. That’s all. How he deals with her loss will be shown post leap ?

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