Originally posted by: DanceUntilWeDie
Question
If tomorrow Appu openly disowns Kutra as her cousin, will k family behaviour change and they will stop her from entering the house/joining any of their functions?
Cos they claim they're nice to her ONLY cos she's Appu's cousin. Vinayak had said famously, kutra manat nahi pan appu tila apli bahin maante na.
Will k family EVER stand by appu and openly against kutra?
Cos kutra has crossed all limits of shameless behaviour time And again.
Unless she gets Shashank into real trouble( like Ananya did to Babin in Khorkuto), I think they will always be more than nice to her, appears like everybody is trying Appu patience. According to Shashank she is spoilt brat, he is can never be wrong. Nobody question shis behavior, Even when Sua Aai raised the issue, he brushed it off saying out of kindness and she is a guest. Appu asked about cake same reason. Appu did try to explain to him with lion story but he did not get it. Dada kaka also gives all his gyan to DIL , never to nephew. Somebody remind Shashank how he felt when babi attya was going thru similar situation(not so severe, atleast bhaskar knew how to handle). Like Netra says he has some some feelings for her, it is not a similar behavior to all guests. He argued with Deepali, was quite rude to Abhay, rude to his MIL (all of them are guests).
MIL you can argue she is rude to his family, but by that logic Netra is rude and demeaning his wife(isnt she his family). I would like to see his behavior if Deepali and Babbi atya got a cake for Bhaskar and the same events occur, he justifies Bhaskar's behavior I will say he is person of character else I will say double standards.
Another questions that has bothered me for a while is why he did not answer the question "When all spouses went to Delhi why he did not take her" ? It has always made me think because he did not want to introduce her as his wife and then "BA fail". He is ashamed of her, which he has said repeatedly. I wish she had let him answer that question or we get an answer to that question in future.
To me, he doesnt have his basics right. I am yet to see why Dr Kaushik would marry his daughter to him. Can't deny family is love, As much as the family is important, it is important to see the right life partner. In this marriage she gives more.