Unpopular Opinion - Page 2

I actually agree with you. Even though Pakhi and Toshu are badtameez and talk in such a disgusting way I agree with the crux of their arguments.

Firstly, very easily Anu said to Pakhi that she is no longer welcome to his house. Even if Pakhi had talked this way to Baa-Bapuji this way in front of Vanraj would he have told her she is not allowed in his house? Because in this setting it is also Pakhi's house. So clearly, the freedom or right Pakhi has in Shah house she doesn't have in Kapadia house. Which is fine in itself. But Anupama and Anuj need to stop pretending that this is not true.

Secondly, who is Anuj to interfere between Anu and Pakhi? He is an outsider. Pakhi may or may not be interested in Adhik for his lifestyle. We can understand her POV because we see everything that is happening. But what would Anuj know about that? What right does he have, with his incomplete information, to accuse Pakhi of being a gold-digger?

The crux of the issue is choti Anu. Toshu and Pakhi cannot accept her as a sister. They lost their mother to another house and now have to share her with another child stays with her all the time. I know we all say that Pakhi Toshu and Samar are adults who don't need her, but we all know that unfortunately, children don't consider themselves to be separate entities from their parents. Here, if Anu's children should stop depending on her, she should stop expecting them to treat her with the same level of affection/love? Because the relationship they have shared thus far is not a healthy, independent relationship and both sets of individuals have clung to it.

Why does Anupama list out the number of things she has done for the family? When parents do things for their children, they should not use them against her in the future, in a separate argument. And Anu implied that when she did one thing for herself her children had an issue with it. She has been doing a lot of things for herself (marrying Anuj, adopting choti Anu) and that is great, because everyone should live for themselves, but that is not the issue her children have with her. She expects her children to accept her decisions whole-heartedly (by bringing choti Anu to the Shah house always and calling it their nanu-nani's house), without giving them the space to come to terms with it, if they ever do.

Disclaimer: Toshu and Pakhi are toxic AF but at their core, their arguments make some sense.

Originally posted by: Riddhi2Saini006

abt anupama's adamance to be in shah house and doing drama

I agree with u 100% there are people in this world who do what they want to do and dont need anyone's validation but the problem with Anupamaa is that she will do what she wants to do but she wants everybody to accept that which is wrong. sometimes children are not able to accept the fact that they will have to share their parents with siblings and here Anupamaa wants her children to accept the daughter she has with her second husband. So thats why I think Toshu and Pakhi's anger towards Chhoti Anu is justified byt their way is toxic

and also Anuj taking a decision of not letting Pakhi come to Kapdadiya house will only intensify her hatred towards them cause at the end the whole argument comes down why anu didnt let pakhi stay at the kapadiyas

Please watch previous episodes anupama never saiid to her children ki anu ko accept kar hi lo she clearly said to her children if I am in their place mujhhe bhi bura lagta she clearly said to toshu u r free to take time in accepting anu as sister

Ahd yes required for anupama tell her children ki usne yeh kiya woh kiya. Yes अगर जो lazy bsttameez bsche apni maa ki baar baar bina wajah se insult ksrenge thhen of course anupama will tell both ki usne family le liye kiya hai

Pakhi ko apni maa ko school mein lene jaane mein insult hoti hai aur toshu ko anupama ko rakhi ke saamne introduced karane mein insult feel ho rahi thi. In toshu bsa vanraj ne bina anupama ke sagai kar liya, ( kintosh engament)

Aur anupama in dono battmemej bache ke liye care karti rahi aur itna karne ke baad bache agar battmzi dege to बिलकुल anupama kahegi ki usne family keite kya kiya hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Please watch previous episodes anupama never saiid to her children ki anu ko accept kar hi lo she clearly said to her children if I am in their place mujhhe bhi bura lagta she clearly said to toshu u r free to take time in accepting anu as sister

Sirf bolne se kuch nahi hota ! Leela , pakhi , toshu doesn’t consider little anu as their own and they have already informed anupama but it’s anupama who is forcing choti anu on all these people by taking her every next day at their house. Le ayi leela nani ke ghar 🤮

In which episode anupama is forcing anu to three children

अगर anupama yeh bolti है कि anu se theekm se baat karo iska matlsb yeh force karna ho gaya ?

Anupama never said ki anu ko apni sister mane lag jaao but iska matlab yeh nahi agar pakhi toshu little anu ko apni behan nahi maante to in logo ko little snu ko insult ka right mil gaya

They have no right to insult little anu

In toshu और pahi ko apni behan nahi manna nshi maane ( anupama ne kabhinl nahi bola apne bachon se ki anu ko accept karna hin ha)i but insult karne ka right nahi aur agar yeh dono pakhi toshu anu ki insult karenge of course anupama will speak

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To kya anupama little anu ko kapadia, ghar mein akeli chod ke jaayegi . Kaun dekhega little anu ko ghar mein if anupama go to Shah house

Originally posted by: surabhi01

In which episode anupama is forcing anu to three children

अगर anupama yeh bolti है कि anu se theekm se baat karo iska matlsb yeh force karna ho gaya ?

Anupama never said ki anu ko apni sister mane lag jaao but iska matlab yeh nahi agar pakhi toshu little anu ko apni behan nahi maante to in logo ko little snu ko insult ka right mil gaya

They have no right to insult little anu

In toshu और pahi ko apni behan nahi manna nshi maane ( anupama ne kabhinl nahi bola apne bachon se ki anu ko accept karna hin ha)i but insult karne ka right nahi aur agar yeh dono pakhi toshu anu ki insult karenge of course anupama will speak

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Here I have used forcing in the context of taking little anu at those people’s house who doesn’t consider little anu as their own and they have already informed anupama about the same.

Agar koi Muje yeh bol de ki tumhare bacche ko accept karne mai humko problem ho raha hai toh simply mai unke ghar apne bacche ko kabhi ke kar na jau ! Because I understand it’s their house and I have self respect so mai apne bacche ko unke ghar nahi le Jana chahugi.

Jaise toshu and pakhi ka little anu ko insult karne ka right nahi hai waise he unn sab ki marzi ke bina unke ghar choti anu ko le Jana anupama ka bhi right nahi hai.