Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 5) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch (ARY) - Page 98

Originally posted by: spnfan

For him, his mother has gone back to being the sensible caring lady she was before all the shooting and daadi scene happened. He talks about everything he feels to his mother and it's perfectly normal for him to say how he felt about giving the jewellery to ushna. Naima is not just his mother but is like a friend to him and his confidant. He clearly won't even think that the mother that told him to love ushna, take care of her and sets dinner dates for them will try to manipulate him to destroy his marriage. According to him his mother has always only given good advice to him. It is true that men (esp men from a cultural background where mothers are considered to be above god) will never think the worst about their mothers until they get to see it themselves. They grew up in a cultural setup where from a young age they hear 'maatha, pita, guru, daivam'. Even though pak is a Muslim country i am sure they have this cultural similarity with india when it comes to mothers. If any guy that has a normal kind of relationship with his mother won't even think there is evilness in their mother how will someone like shehroze can see it? A guy like Hamza won't belive that his mother is capable of killing his own child. Shehroze is totally out of question and he is certified mumma's boy.

No hun I am not questioning his not trusting his mother she has not given him any reason not to.

Let me explain better - he was saying to his mother you shouldn’t have given your jewellery to Ushna she was very careless. I am not happy with that statement. A good husband would have asked his mother that she said some really terrible things and maybe now it won’t happen. But it’s Shehroz so I will let that go.

That conversation was not needed. His mother said no Ushna must not have meant it. That is my issue. Why does his mother need to say that? He loves Ushna and knows her maybe not as well but enough. That talk was not needed and he shouldn’t have.

Rest, unless he sees his mother being bad he won’t believe it even if she says she did it - I get that my issue is the talking behind Ushna’s back.

Originally posted by: Rubabbb

Hyy guys what happened last night episode main?

Btw it to hot in Pakistan right now I'm feeling like dying

It's raining in Kerala and i am lying on my bed under a blanket😆

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

What 😳😳 She did this?

Yes she gave abortion pills to Hala

Originally posted by: Rubabbb

Hyy guys what happened last night episode main?

Btw it to hot in Pakistan right now I'm feeling like dying

Shehroz pagal ho gaya hai aur wheelchair Naima aur bhi pagal ho gayi hai. Wahab feels like dying too, and zainab and Ushna are emotionally almost dead.

Udhar both Rs and their family are over everything too and we saw Huzaifa 😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

re: sadaf and sufiyan and their 'love' for shehroze and ushna

so this isn't love in the typical definition. this is about possession, about a game, about winning.

I want to relate a story about when I was in university. me and my friend were yakking in the canteen when this classmate of mine popped over -- he had borrowed my notes as he had been sick. when he gave it back to me, he asked me why I had let him borrow. I was perplexed and couldn't understand. he said my notes were too good and what if he gets more marks than me. I was like "so????". he didn't understand that I was more interested in competing with myself.

he then commented about what me and my friend had been conversing when he joined the table -- my friend was telling me about her weekend where she hung out with her cousins and sister. he revealed that he had a difficult relationship with his brother and non-existent ones with his cousins because they were brought up competing with each other.

my friend then said, "how can you have a relationship if you are competing with everyone you meet?"

his response: "that is what my parents taught me. either they are competition or you put them under your feet so you can use them."

and my friend's response "if you cannot be happy for someone, you will never have a relationship with anyone."

his response: "I don't know how to stop"

I share the above story to explain sadaf and sufiyan. they were taught like this classmate -- that is why sadaf used to have meltdowns that ushna was doing better than her university. however, since sadaf doesn't have much interest in studies, her goal was to "win in life". maybe she figured that none of these girls are going to work anyway and so the life section was more important. how was that going to be achieved? to marry some rich bloke and show off. now, ushna got the guy sadaf set her sights on. so ushna won the game. that is what is upsetting sadaf. for the first time, she lost the game that was dear to her.

same with sufiyan -- he sees rejection from ushna as a check that he wasn't good enough. that is what is really bothering him. again, it boils down to competition. neither sadaf or sufiyan have brains to compete in life/work and so they were competing in romance (to get what and who they want) -- it was their way of making themselves feel superior. now that castle like a bad biscuit has crumpled to the ground.

there are life lessons here larger than the drama -- you have to be able to be happy for other people if you want to have relationships. you need to know boundaries to competition. you cannot compete with every person in your life unless your aim is to be isolated. you have to know that life will throw you curveballs. you need to have grace to accept when things don't go your way.

if we see raeesa, she still hasn't taken accountability. she doesn't see it as a result of her upbringing. instead, the starting point is zainab getting married and she thinks she made a mistake with that move.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I agree with everything you wrote - absolute gold 👍👍👍👍

Originally posted by: Rubabbb

Hyy guys what happened last night episode main?

Btw it to hot in Pakistan right now I'm feeling like dying

Sadaf is getting married to someone else by her parents.

Shehroz was lovey dovey with Ushna in bedroom when she was sleeping.

Zainab is getting blamed for stealing khandani jewellery.

Shehroz being mama's boy goes against Zainab and Ushna without listening to their sides.

Wahab being spineless busy pleasing his wife.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Yes she gave abortion pills to Hala

What the hell

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

What 😳😳 She did this?

Shahjahan gave some pills to hala to abort the child and she fell sick. The doctor asked her about what she ate and she showed her the pills. The doctor said the pill is so dangerous that it could have killed hala also and not just the child. When hala tells shahjahan gave her that hamza didn't believe her. Not believing her was still understandable because hamza wanted to assure himself that his mother cannot be that evil but they butchered hamza when he said hala did it herself. 😡

Originally posted by: spnfan

We are forgetting the fact that shehroze is an entitled arrogant brat and will blabber whatever comes to his mind. He is capable of thinking the worst in his father without any evidence then zainab kya cheez hai.

The only change in him is that he learnt to love someone other than his mother and that's it.

This is true and I think it’s evident that only change is he loves one more person. He was getting such good growth now all ruined until last few episodes.

Originally posted by: Rubabbb

Hyy guys what happened last night episode main?

Btw it to hot in Pakistan right now I'm feeling like dying

Then why Romeo is wearing jacket like it's snow fall in Pakistan. How is he able to move around in jacket when it's hot like hell?