Originally posted by: DrModel
Well it's most likely clear that I am unabashedly and unapologetically team Abhimanyu because I understand him. Akshu has, from the very start, done a lot of things that have taken me time to understand. I can eventually see what she says and why BUT Abhi I can understand what he says and why he says it almost immediately and then I wait for him to have a scene where he states his reasons and I find that I am right with my reasoning about him.
For Abhi it has always ALWAYS been about his people. He isn't a character who gets angry because Akshu didn't do what she could for him. He gets angry because she doesn't do what she can for herself and then he has nothing to say or do to protect her from any of the consequences.
I said in another post somewhere that even when they were taking their marriage vows, Abhi's were about them and their relationship and Akshu's were about him and the family. She even said to him that family and helping family build their bonds are her greatest strength. She doesn't know his family though. She doesn't realise that they don't care about her or what she feels or thinks. They belittle her professionally and it bugs Abhi because he is a new age doctor who thinks that all members of the MDT contribute to holistic patient care. The older doctors are old school and only think that it's all about medics and surgeons.
Akshu has progressively seen how badly Manjari, Neil are treated. She has seen how caustic Mahima is and yet she wants to poke her nose where it doesn't belong. Off course Abhi will get upset because her self respect matters to him.
I can clearly see his reasons and Akshu again, like she did when she said her love was going to be a menace for her family, put her foot in her mouth. Even after papa in law became sir, she compared her husband whose love for her is the stuff of legends to that man.
Yes, I still say stuff if legends because he be sleeping on the floor in the courtyard and she be at Goenkas.
He is done with mata also. The only thing is that he misses her soooo much and he is hurt that she doesn't even see where he is coming from as usual and doesn't even want to invite him for saawan milni.
Those saying ohhh he said the marriage was a mistake is wrong. Fine. However what about the context? Are we going to care about the context? Or does he deserve the loneliness snd solitude he has been plunged into?
Not so Birla ki toh baat hi maat karo
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