Originally posted by: Stardust91
I agree with this...
I don't think Neil is going to remain positive for much longer. I think there will be jealousy that his bhai gets everything and he gets nothing; it will conveniently be forgotten than his bhai went to medical school and trained to be an interventional cardiologist. He will resent that his bhai is the heir to the Birla name and fortune forgetting that his medical degree and experience mean that his bhai can go anywhere in the world and practice and earn a good living for himself and his bhai's Akshu.
There will also perhaps be some distance from Abhi's side because Abhi somewhere feels betrayed that Neil isn't seeing his POV and is bent on trying to pacify the one person who isn't worth it.
I also can see things from Abhi's POV and I understand what it is that made him say what he did to Akshara. Did he mean to say it? Perhaps not in the way it came out. However, Akshara should know that her husband is LOVE and has more kindness and empathy in his little toe than her sasurjee has in his entire being. Now imagine that husband brings her to his home and thinks he will make up for all the tears she cried at GV and how lonely she must have been when she left for university for 3 years.
So day 1 not a proper welcome home,; day 2 plates broken and Abhi vs sir; then the anniversary fiasco and not being able to take her to Chicago or highlight her singing and musical talent; then the hospital issue where she insisted she wanted to work at the charity hospital and then the next day insisted he couldn't come and throw a tantrum where she worked. Fine. She was right but look at it from his POV. He just wanted her to be happy and be around him but she as per him is working in this charity hospital which he feels isn't even up to the mark. OK he gave in. It was all good as long as she was happy. Her happiness remains his number 1 priority. He asked her not to interfere or intervene in his stupid family's stupid matters. However, she is Akshara, she is what she is....so Parth wanted guidance and a new job and he asked her so she gave her 2 cents and Parth's parents pounced on her. Even than was OK..he handled it...he sulked but he was fine. Then DNA day...why O why did she go to the DNA lab...fine she went and remembered that she had promised jaan that she wouldn't interfere. .why didn't she tell the nurse that she wasn't going to take the file. Then she told maata mahaan she knew the truth. So obviously mata pounced on her because she won't blame pati parmeshwar and Neil ran after daddy not so cool because well validation. Mahima found a reason to be rude to Akshara also. And in all this as much as Akshara was trying to pacify and pamper Abhi, he kept thinking that mata mahaan was angry at her more than she was upset with sir. So he couldn't be happy with her because there was this issue where everyone was blaming her for the truth being revealed even though it wasn't her fault.
Then we get her not realising that he wanted this victime of domestic abuse to leave her abuser and if she was supporting mata mahaan it would.mean mata would never see that daddy not so cool was her abuser. Akshu though didn't want mata mahaan to blame jaan for forcing her to get divorced but wanted her to get to the decision herself.
So in all this.. when he was triggered he thought the one person who was pure at heart and the love of his life and the epitome of goodness thought he was like daddy uncool...he didn't realise that all she meant was that he needed to calm down and not force his decision on Manju like daddy not cool.
The mistake dialogue came from realising that despite all efforts he couldn't keep her happy. Was he wrong to utter it? Yes. Was he heartbroken because he did? Yes. Did he want to stop her from leaving him? Yes. Lekin his anger.
Did I analyse him correctly or do you have different views?
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