Regional Version KKIS 7 : All discussion here - Page 87

Originally posted by: kshitu_20

Same same same!! I was a silent member on IF for years before TR happened.. So both the show and this forum are special to me 😍 BS mujhe kitna bhi irritate kare mein nahi jane wali 😆 I really hope though that one day everyone comes back!!

I have been pretty active in several forums before. Most of the forums that I have been a part of were incredibly beautiful. I met wonderful, wonderful souls in IF whom I otherwise would have never known.

I remember joining IF years ago when I was dealing with a huge loss. IF practically made sure that my sanity stayed intact in those hard times. Why IF will forever stay special to me! It kept me going when I wanted to give up. I shall always be immensely grateful to IF.

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Originally posted by: kshitu_20

This is a woman who has repeatedly insulted his wife and is into him and he knows that 😡 As you said, very frustrating, annoying and irritating at this point.. 😡 Writers have some mercy on us 🙏

I am kind of not very appreciative of taking what is happening at your home to the outside people. Be it the differences of opinions, fights or anything else for that matter. Allowing others to have an access to the vulnerability of your family members and your relationships have never seemed a good thing to me.

Originally posted by: ishqi

I can understand that...happened with many a shows...BALH 2, Meet and PS for me most recently...I liked how they began each for a diff reason, one had a mature love story, one had a diff type of FL and a diff type of start to a mature marriage, and one had amazing brother bonding and bhabhi-devar bonds, but all of them quickly deteriorated and I quit them all. But I never loved any show as much as TR (not even Shappu themselves but more the whole family and relationships)....so I'm still excited for the episodes right now.

I desire this excitement back. ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: ishqi

Yes, that's exactly why I'm still patient with this track!!! You explained it perfectly! Without Netra's interference, neither of their character flaws and actual relationship flaws could be addressed. They would have just kept going on either stagnant or started loving each other only looking at the positives (like DBS was doing before this track started)...and of course true long-lasting love can only stand if you accept both the flaws and the redeeming qualities.

Also as much as we may dislike these episodes - they are actually helpful if we look at the bigger picture.

We are a bit more into analyzing than criticising. Doesn't mean that we don't get upset - but we try to keep aside the anger, offense and hurt to see what makes these character make the choices that they make, what makes them say what they do - just what makes them who they are!

It is a habit that we will develop eventually if we keep doing it and our mind will not keep it limited to only characters so even in real life - we tend to pause and try to understand the other person no matter how brutally he/she has wronged us. We tend to keep aside our hurt, and see what made them hurt us.

Increases compassion and empathy in general.

Makes us better human beings.

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I'm with you in this! I'm also more into analyzing DBS's words and actions rather than just criticizing him...like we've said before, he has a precedence set for most of his accusations from the first meet of coming to hit a houseworker with the stick...not that it's right but if we really analyze both Shashank and Appu, most of the anger goes away and you can see the brighter side that this whole mess will be good for their relationship in the end!

And I wish that such perception can also translate to real life...but sometimes our own anger and pain cloud our judgement...but either way we will learn from it and be better! ❤️

Originally posted by: ishqi

I'm with you in this! I'm also more into analyzing DBS's words and actions rather than just criticizing him...like we've said before, he has a precedence set for most of his accusations from the first meet of coming to hit a houseworker with the stick...not that it's right but if we really analyze both Shashank and Appu, most of the anger goes away and you can see the brighter side that this whole mess will be good for their relationship in the end!

And I wish that such perception can also translate to real life...but sometimes our own anger and pain cloud our judgement...but either way we will learn from it and be better! ❤️

Absolutely.

It is easy to keep aside the hurt when it is not our situation but when it is our situation - we tend to take things a bit too personally. And like you said, the choice to see other person's perspective and understand no longer seem easy but again, like you said - we will learn and be better and that matters, doesn't it? ❤️❤️

Also, Ishqi, I hope your hand is a little better. Don't type much. Let it heal. 🤗❤️

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Also, Ishqi, I hope your hand is a little better. Don't type much. Let it heal. 🤗❤️

Pain is coming and going...I'm trying to type as much as possible with one hand only...thankfully it's my left hand that's injured so at least writing is not affected and typing is just much slower. ❤️

I feel like my mom who types with two fingers!!! 😆

Actually is vakt muzse DBS ke liye kuch achha bola hi nahi jayega, and bura bolkar dusro ka mood off karna wrong hai 👎🏼

Faltu me negativity spread karna muze bhi achha nahi lagta, is liye mera yaha se break lena hi best option hai

But I definitely miss you all my friends 🤗

Agree,,,staying until it turns out like hindi version or any hindi shows …..this is my only entertainment…wether i understand or not….hum 3 deviyaaan (not literally but like movie) non speakers have to stick together and go thru this..