Akshara - a wrong representation of today's girl.

I'm sure a lot of young women watch yrkkh and what we watch does impacts our mindset too. Through akshara, makers are sending a wrong message in the society that tolerate abuse from husband, in laws, sister, family in the name of love. My issues with akshara's character :-

1) Not career oriented - I know a lot of people in this forum won't agree with me but Akshara's character is shown to be a music therapist but she's not at all shown sincere towards her work. Her profession is not given importance in the show and akshara herself seems laid back about it. I still don't know what makers are trying to achieve by showing music therapy. I mean at one hand they show it is a tun-tuna bajane wala profession and akshara gets demeaned by everyone for it and on the other hand, they show some hospitals actually need music therapists. If hospitals actually need music therapist, why ain't they showing ak has taken degree in psychology, worked hard for this and is actually working with disabled kids. Akshara definitely doesn't give vibes of a today's girl. Sonakshi used to give due importance to her career. I haven't watched ghum but i think that Sai character is also shown to give importance to her career. I didn't like abhi interfering in Akshara's workspace. She should have directly told him I'll work wherever i want to. She shouldn't have given abhi the choice..he can advice her but ultimate decision would always be here when it comes to her own matters

And if someone is themselves not serious about their career, people will mock them.

2) Taking abuse from sister first - Too much importance to sister angle with akshara being a mahaan sister. I liked when akshara used to give back to aarohi but there's been very few moments like that and goenkas normalised akshara taking shit from aarohi. That track of akshu staying away from 3 years should have been properly explored. I wanted one breakdown of akshu against goenkas and Aarohi for always taking her for granted.

3) birlas and abhimanyu - No today's girl would want to marry into a family like that and take one after the other accusations. I don't like how akshu is clinging to abhi as if asking for apology. I want akshu to call out abhimanyu for his behaviour that how he's not trusting her despite making such big claims, i want her to ignore him, at some point i would like akshara to become abhimanyu and shout at him for anything that goes wrong in her life and fam ...i also want her to express what kind of family birlas is... How she is taking birlas insult only because of her love for abhimanyu and he being the only support in this house is also not supporting her...i really want her to give back to manjari and birlas that she is nowhere responsible for this cheap mess of goenkas. Just hated how mahima mishandled akshara...it's so wrong. They are showing wrong message by making akshara submissive. They are showing for family peace shant raho... I want akshara to be like today's girl who cribs about her sasural... I wish they showed akshara having friend like varsha..even og akshara used to call out her sasural Wale when they went wrong and got frustrated.. but here they are showing akshara as superhuman with no families... Jo aata hai Bajake chala jata hai..

I really want akshara to tell abhimanyu that dare you show me this attitude. I want akshara to divorce abhimanyu at some point if this behaviour continues. I just want akshara to taunt abhimanyu if he ever tried to involve her in any family mess saying she herself doesn't want to get involved in his shitty family and he himself asked her to stay away..

Kinjal of anupama gave anupama her voice and supported her..but here manjari being the MIL that she is , is blaming akshara only instead... I thought they will show akshara as a progressive today's girl but they have to show her as someone who wants to poke her nose in family mess and since abhimanyu is everyone's fav, he has a big heart for forgiving abhimanyu.. why couldn't they show akshara as kinjal? Like supporting manjari and standing against harsh..

Isn't akshara human? Isn't she allowed to feel upset?

And I'm sure now abhi will allow his family members to royally insult akshu for something she is not even involved in... Even if truth came out through akshara what makes them think that akshara would intentionally reveal something like this?

I want her to remind manjari how she saved his son from fire, his reputation and why would she want abhi's brother to suffer like that..this manjari's tere wajah se" is so pure evil 🤢 she is giving pure vampish expressions

I want her to inform abhi why he didn't inform about his family dynamics to akshu before and for akshu to say that she never wanted to marry him for the same reasons that harsh doesn't like her...yet she married only for abhi's support but now he's giving her cold shoulder