If you could give your younger self a piece of advice... - Page 3

Originally posted by: SmittenKitten

Solitude doesn't mean being alone when you'd rather be with other people.

I have a somewhat philosophical take on it. Samajh mein nahi aaya toh feel free to read, roll your eyes and skip to the next post. ❤️

The way I see it, we're all bound by our daily obligations that require us to set ourselves aside to get things done. When we're out in the world, at work, hanging out with friends, at school, etc., every single action and reaction to others that we put out there add up to how we are perceived as a person by others. In that process, we oftentimes tend to lose ourselves cuz our interactions might not necessarily be in tune with how we envisage ourselves as a person and how we perceive our inner sense of *self.*

We would have nothing left if we were only giving and giving our energy to the world without taking the time to sit and reflect to connect with ourselves, reconciling our actions with our core values and what we strive to be as a person on the whole. So, solitude is important to sit and be able to rethink things, reflect, do things that feed your inner sense of "self" without anyone or anything interfering you ... and that usually leads you to strive for a better tomorrow so that how you operate in the real world aligns as close to your inner self as possible.

Solitude is not being alone or feeling lonely when you're craving company. I hope you see where I'm coming from. :)

Originally posted by: infinity101

Don't lose sleep over anyone or anything, ain't worth it. And also nothing is permanent, everyone and everything around you changes at one point, gotta learn to deal with it. P.S solitude is amazing ❤️

I agree with this whole heartedly.

Regarding Solitude, only someone who has experienced life will understand this..❤️

There's one more important lesson that I learnt but didn't add in my post - It's okay to be a little selfish. give yourself your first priority.

have all the fun you ever wanted. Life's going to still turn out wonderful😊

Originally posted by: nema123

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Time is money...

Invest in yourself! Body and Mind

Invest in learning!

Invest in building relationship!

Invest in your family and friend!

Invest for your future financial stability!

😆you're sounding like an investment manager with all those investing tips😆

Originally posted by: mintyblue

What would it be???

Just curious.

For me:

Every story has 2 sides to it. Learning to see things from others' perspectives would be mine.

The stuff that is eating you up on the inside. That stuff is eating up every other person on earth. So don't think your the only one going thru it

oh I got one:😛

Read all the wonderful advice people are dispensing here.

They sound so wise, like they've got it all figured out.😆

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

oh I got one:😛

Read all the wonderful advice people are dispensing here.

They sound so wise, like they've got it all figured out.😆

To be fair, the thread asks for advice, Mr. Birdie. Don't diss the advice givers, and more importantly, don't hold it against them if they sound wise. 😛

Don’t lose your character over celebrities, writing mean comments for your fav stars rival is so pathetic

Originally posted by: mintyblue

What would it be???

Just curious.

For me:

Every story has 2 sides to it. Learning to see things from others' perspectives would be mine.

I can't help but wonder if this is coming from the Hrithik interview on Kangana that had you in tears?

Being stuck in jam for hours due to work and these ppl in pic are robots.. At 8 years old, parents that send kids to school looked like robot to me when i see them from car.. I never notice about this, I would have run away