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Posted: 3 years ago
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I mean akshara created a mess in her sasural and casually left for her pagphera with her family to goenka house..what nonsense is this..specially when her husband is in a terrible state of mind..

Abhimanyu was really good in controlling his anger issues..any normal husband would've lashed out at his wife and said some really hurtful words but he didn't say a word to akshara and kept silent..that's the level of maturity and sensibility that akshara lacks..her stupidity is crossing the limits..

How could she ask abhimanyu that her family wants to take her to their house for pagphera is such a serious situation..Matlab pehle tamasha create karo aur phir bhaag jao..waahšŸ™„

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think that she was entirely heartbroken and guilt-ridden so she could not find the words to speak. She came and tried to apologize to both Manjari and Abhi, but she could not find the words, so she left. They are the 2 most important people to her, and she knows that she has badly messed up -- she said it herself to the Goenkas.

Also, she knows what Abhi's anger is like. She tried grabbing onto his shirt and starting a conversation, but he, completely understandably so, was not having it. Abhi did need space, and she gave it to him.

At this point in their relationship, both of them need to work on communication. I don't think either one of them is wrong. Instead of giving her the opportunity to speak, Abhi shut down and shut her out. And, instead of speaking up, Akshu's guilt, pain, and fear took over, so she shut down too, and left. She was also so confused as to why all of this happened -- she has no idea about the past & Abhi hasn't told her his traumas... I don't blame him at all though, because it is so so hard to speak about these things even with someone you trust with your entire being.

I don't think either one of them was wrong today!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

I think that she was entirely heartbroken and guilt-ridden so she could not find the words to speak. She came and tried to apologize to both Manjari and Abhi, but she could not find the words, so she left. They are the 2 most important people to her, and she knows that she has badly messed up -- she said it herself to the Goenkas.

Also, she knows what Abhi's anger is like. She tried grabbing onto his shirt and starting a conversation, but he, completely understandably so, was not having it. Abhi did need space, and she gave it to him.

At this point in their relationship, both of them need to work on communication. I don't think either one of them is wrong. Instead of giving her the opportunity to speak, Abhi shut down and shut her out. And, instead of speaking up, Akshu's guilt, pain, and fear took over, so she shut down too, and left. She was also so confused as to why all of this happened -- she has no idea about the past & Abhi hasn't told her his traumas... I don't blame him at all though, because it is so so hard to speak about these things even with someone you trust with your entire being.

I don't think either one of them was wrong today!

I'm not saying that akshu was wrong..but leaving after creating such a mess left a bad taste..she should've taken the responsibility and Apologized properly even if abhimanyu was not in the mood..

Akshara gets so overly excited sometimes that she stops using her brains..did you see she couldn't process the situation even after seeing abhimanyu's dejected face in the beginning and only understood when harsh verbally threatened manjari..akshara gets really delusional sometimes because of 'HER IDEA 'of a happy family and doesn't realize that every family is not a happy one.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I'm not saying that akshu was wrong..but leaving after creating such a mess left a bad taste..she should've taken the responsibility and Apologized properly even if abhimanyu was not in the mood..

Akshara gets so overly excited sometimes that she stops using her brains..did you see she couldn't process the situation even after seeing abhimanyu's dejected face in the beginning and only understood when harsh verbally threatened manjari..akshara gets really delusional sometimes because of 'HER IDEA 'of a happy family and doesn't realize that every family is not a happy one.

I think we should wait. She will apologize when things have calmed down. I think it's very natural for people to shut down in guilt and pain. And, again, she knows what Abhi's anger is like too. They can't show everything in 1 episode, and I think that given the circumstances, it made sense why she left. And I totally agree that she gets caught up in her emotions and doesn't think rationally -- that is just who she is. She is very optimistic, and where she comes from, love & attention can solve any family's problems. Akshu didn't know the extent of how broken this family is & how a happy celebration for Harsh-Manjari's anniversary is impossible at this point in time. But, if Akshu doesn't try, then these truths won't come out & nothing will change! It was horrible and devestating in the moment, but in the long run, it is all leading to Akshu changing these dynamics.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree...she shouldn't have left specially when she created situation. abhi shutting her out is possibly the best treatment for her . Bec he comes bk to her with coochie coo talks , she says "sorry abhi" and all is forgotten. She wasn't quite apologetic for the accident too.


Even now she will put herself in danger , abhimanyu will come running to the farm.house, they will hug and over

.make another attempt to sr or have one , and history will keep repeating itself . Almost 200 epis and no growth coz dumb fl and her good intentions coupled with bizarre actions create drama. The bad part is, the hero becomes the Bali ka bakra ..we call him obsessed , arrogant toxic and what not . Manjari and akshu will take turns in being the ultimate raita Mata for a while..lol

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I mean akshara created a mess in her sasural and casually left for her pagphera with her family to goenka house..what nonsense is this..specially when her husband is in a terrible state of mind..

Abhimanyu was really good in controlling his anger issues..any normal husband would've lashed out at his wife and said some really hurtful words but he didn't say a word to akshara and kept silent..that's the level of maturity and sensibility that akshara lacks..her stupidity is crossing the limits..

How could she ask abhimanyu that her family wants to take her to their house for pagphera is such a serious situation..Matlab pehle tamasha create karo aur phir bhaag jao..waahšŸ™„


I agree with you.I understood that akshu didn't know but she did know how much pain the incident has inflicted on Abhi and yet she chose to leave.had she wished to give him space she could have done so while remaining near him as well....it seemed she just abandoned him and left and if I am not wrong Abhi had the same feeling that you put me in this pain and now you wish leave me there and go....it was very unfair and immature on Akshara's part

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I mean akshara created a mess in her sasural and casually left for her pagphera with her family to goenka house..what nonsense is this..specially when her husband is in a terrible state of mind..

Abhimanyu was really good in controlling his anger issues..any normal husband would've lashed out at his wife and said some really hurtful words but he didn't say a word to akshara and kept silent..that's the level of maturity and sensibility that akshara lacks..her stupidity is crossing the limits..

How could she ask abhimanyu that her family wants to take her to their house for pagphera is such a serious situation..Matlab pehle tamasha create karo aur phir bhaag jao..waahšŸ™„


I agree with you.I understood that akshu didn't know but she did know how much pain the incident has inflicted on Abhi and yet she chose to leave.had she wished to give him space she could have done so while remaining near him as well....it seemed she just abandoned him and left and if I am not wrong Abhi had the same feeling that you put me in this pain and now you wish leave me there and go....it was very unfair and immature on Akshara's part

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Agreed - Hosting the party was not an issue, but AK leaving was in a bad taste. Knowing Abhi’s anger her being scared makes sense, but first thing out of her mouth ā€œ my folks want me to take me homeā€ and that ā€œbuttonā€ philosophy make zip zero sense. Knowingly or unknowingly you made a mistake, Say Sorry!!!

AK is shown to be clueless - she just cannot read the situation.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I mean akshara created a mess in her sasural and casually left for her pagphera with her family to goenka house..what nonsense is this..specially when her husband is in a terrible state of mind..

Abhimanyu was really good in controlling his anger issues..any normal husband would've lashed out at his wife and said some really hurtful words but he didn't say a word to akshara and kept silent..that's the level of maturity and sensibility that akshara lacks..her stupidity is crossing the limits..

How could she ask abhimanyu that her family wants to take her to their house for pagphera is such a serious situation..Matlab pehle tamasha create karo aur phir bhaag jao..waahšŸ™„

I see your posts on twitter too, and I really like them.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

I think that she was entirely heartbroken and guilt-ridden so she could not find the words to speak. She came and tried to apologize to both Manjari and Abhi, but she could not find the words, so she left. They are the 2 most important people to her, and she knows that she has badly messed up -- she said it herself to the Goenkas.

Also, she knows what Abhi's anger is like. She tried grabbing onto his shirt and starting a conversation, but he, completely understandably so, was not having it. Abhi did need space, and she gave it to him.

At this point in their relationship, both of them need to work on communication. I don't think either one of them is wrong. Instead of giving her the opportunity to speak, Abhi shut down and shut her out. And, instead of speaking up, Akshu's guilt, pain, and fear took over, so she shut down too, and left. She was also so confused as to why all of this happened -- she has no idea about the past & Abhi hasn't told her his traumas... I don't blame him at all though, because it is so so hard to speak about these things even with someone you trust with your entire being.

I don't think either one of them was wrong today!

everything u said here is understandable but......bold blue----- i don't understand how did u come to the conclusion that abhimanyu is the most important person in her life,i mean yeah she said it once but her actions tell u otherwise,arohi is the most important person in her life, then the families the goenkas,the birlas and then its him.......and i am pretty confident with the chronology i put forth here.......

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