Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin Spoilers Thread # 15 - Page 62

Originally posted by: Nja91

He says he is sorry about diya visarjan. Today he says he buried his feelings behind gussa n disappointment. And in his monologue and to Sunny he acknowledges that Sai has worked really hard to manao him but he is "scared to melt" . So in all this he acknowledges that he has been too angry n stretched it. But never has he acknowledged that he was wrong. Never has he reflected on what Sai felt. And it was very very briefly touched upon when Sunny told him- thats how a wife would react and you didn't tell them anything. And in his own monologue to himself he says anyone would have reacted like the family coz they didn't know the truth. But in ALL this, the makers are brushing away his mistakes. He sheltered a CRIMINAL. He called another woman his wife in front of Sai. He signed on a birth certificate and officially remains Sahas' father on paper. These things are not to be taken lightly. Even DIG let him off saying intention accha tha toh whatever.

I hate that they keep minimizing crimes all the time.

He should have been suspended. Unofficially toh anyway he is on chhuti only bit he should be suspended, not on "sick leave".

"So in all this he acknowledges that he has been too angry n stretched it.*

- any particular scene to this bit?

Yaar i don't get it he's shown understanding his family reacted based on what they saw & apologized to them but not to Sai whom he treated so bad and let others too.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

"So in all this he acknowledges that he has been too angry n stretched it.*

- any particular scene to this bit?

Yaar i don't get it he's shown understanding his family reacted based on what they saw & apologized to them but not to Sai whom he treated so bad and let others too.

Because he expects Sai to have a third eye like Mahadev Ji!

Ya its not been a clear explicit conversation. Its largely inferred from his monologues and the overall mood/dialogues etc. He nods and agrees when Shivani Raj say that Sai had to work hard to manao him and it wasnt easy and speak about how broken and defeated she was when he spoke of leaving for good and did that visarjan.

Thats why I am saying he really needs to sit down and apologize for all his mistakes - its a long list. Its one thing that he may get emotional about his fear to lose her and talk about all that. But that is not enough. He needs to understand Sai's fears, her insecurities too. This is not only abour him and why he did what he did but also about Sai and her valid reasons for everything she has done too. I really hope that its not ignored.... I'm worried it will be 😥 because so far everything is focused on Sai apologizing and V forgiving. Even Vs apology has been only for getting "too angry" and not for the actual mistakes and crimes.

This has been our issue with Vanku in every track . Its all about Virat and his dukh, dard, peeda 🤔 as if Sai is just an extension of Virat’s personality and when Virat’s dard is addressed, Sai’s dard gets addressed automatically 🤔 No Vanku it does not! Sai is another individual

Vanku seems to have an issue with focusing on what Sai goes through , at the end of every track, they sweep everything under the carpet like cleaning up a crime scene 🤔

I have a feeling that the team as a whole is misogynistic 🤔 thats why they dont even see these unresolved issues as a problem 🤔

Sadly, in real life too , in many families, the focus is on how the men get affected in a situation Women are either ignored or are expected to pick up the pieces by themselves and move on without complaining.

Agar aadmi kand karne ke baad bhi sorry bolke wapas aata hain tho aurat ko bas maaf karke zindagi mein aage chalna hain bas. Usko kya chahiye, ye koi poochtha hi nahin. Sad state of many marriages in our country

Word.

Additionally though, its just all criminal activities of both men and women on the show that get swept away. Ninad omi, Bk n pp also get away with pretty much everything. BK is a criminal too. She is the one that orchestrated many a kaand. And pp has erred big time. From forging letters to wanting infidelity and illicit relationships- she has committed major mistakes but everything has been ignored. Never has anyone called her out for it publically and punishment toh dur ki baat. Rather Sai has been insulted for her valid questions and Ashwini has brought it up but only in private and her intervention has been useless because she has no power.

Sai gets all the scrutiny and brickbats but criminals and worse offenders go scot free with some token tears or absolutely nothing.

But Sai's every loss and pain is either ignored or swept away way too quickly- one apology from V n its done and never to be mentioned ever again.

Sai herself does not dwell on it because she does not like being perceived as "weak" or "affected" or displaying her fears/insecurities. She always shows herself as strong and confident. But thats why its all the more important that V understands the impact of it all on her. Just coz she does not cry buckets or complain, just coz she is optimistic, upbeat and jovial, just coz she knows how to pick herself up and retort back with anger/sarcasm - does NOT excuse what she goes through. At least now, when they have reached a new milestone in their relationship i really hope V realizes everything Sai had gone through/tolerated.

Because it is now when he is most likely to be receptive that we have hope that he will listen and observe to what Sai feels.

So true. The timing is right - Its NOW or NEVER !

But given the Ghum track record, I dont feel that optimistic Vanku will sugarcoat everything with some romance and then nobody complains. He is already very confident about viewers’ partial amnesia 🤔

Either way, they are propagating the wrong message 🤔

With the dedication, enthusiasm, passion the so-called ML performs tasks without caring much about his safety, getting hurt in SJ to what he does in Ghum on-screen just shows his priorities 😆😆😆

Yaar I may sound like broken recorder but ML's scenes with 3rd angles or even his family for that matter on-screen the physical contact is well maintained by the ML in every scene whereas with Ayesha it's clearly visible the physical contact isn't done properly. It's hit & miss mostly miss. Especially when he puts his hand on her bare back or hand or face the awkwardness, discomfort and proximity issues, hesitation with Ayesha clearly comes reflects through the screen. He doesn't keep or put his hand fully or with tight grip. He keeps it loosely or most part of his hands fingers don't touch her properly. It's on air. He holds back, restraints... I notice it everytime. It gets caught on camera. Can't be accidental all the time. Even when he holds her hand or palms. He seems desperate to get out of her touch or move/leave his hand as fast as possible everytime I come across their scenes. The pattern is visible. I'm not over analysing or making non-existent theories out of my dislike for NB at all... He's always the one to break/leave the hug or hand hold or any type of thing first between them max time. When I watch episodes I notice these things carefully the most & cus of him my viewing experience has been ruined.

OMG!!!!!

Hulu actually has a blurb up for today's epi. No text there but there's actually something uploaded - the pic is just V's face ...can we really expect an episode on time today?! Ya phirse its just a scam where they put the blurb but the link wont work when all the other episodes are available....

I was rewatching the recent episodes and I still cannot get over how V said "Sai maan rahi hai ki usne Shaadi kein shart rakh kar galat kiya"

The deal was proposed by HIM.

She was just fulfilling those deal terms longer than him because she didn't have clarity on where he stood.

I absolutely hate the factual inaccuracy there.

Unfortunately Sai herself didn't bother refuting or reminding anyone who proposed the deal and why.

I really really hope she reminds V in private why she couldn't give him a chance sooner than now. It took her really long to come to terms and take a chance with her feelings because of HIS behavior.

So as much as I am glad about this name change gesture, I really really hope that a mirror is held up to V.

I really hope that Sai reminds him of the whole "commitment" to another crap he gave her on the day of their wedding.

He needs to know just HOW much he has screwed up and HOW much Sai has been hurt.