Originally posted by: GaramTawa
didi brain is ekdum accurate to describe this soch...wohi along the lines of aadmi ka rape kaise ho sakta hai cuz he has no other option but to "enjoy" it
....Imlie ji ke bhi C genes activated here to give into itni ghatiya soch about her own husband
.....Im just
at the twisted bakwaas real life didis bring about "pattern" of having sex with M...Im sure yeh Rapist Didi ne bhi aise kuch kahaan hoga sometime about how 7 mahinon ke liye "pattern" tha when Adi had not yet realised his love for Imlie toh the "pattern" can be brought back.....koi switch hai kya
and what was Imlie thinking jab Adi ne in no uncertain terms had accepted M as his wife....isko Meera banne ka shauk tha then but Adi considered only M his wife then and not like Imlie wasnt privy to this
...lol iske retrospective expectations jaag uthe for a relationship that Adi did not even consider valid at that point
....matlab she also expected like kuch log ki Adi M ko wife maane but "save" himself for Imlie
....yeh kaise expectations hai ki ab it's Adi fault ki he's not a fortune teller also to not know he would realise his love for Imlie at a later point
yeh hai expectations of biwi who gave "unwavering support" to Adi apparently
@bold: LOL at koi switch hai kya....yes that is exactly how they think it is....cuz in their eyes Adi couldn't ever REALLY have fallen in love with Imlie after 7 years with Malini jaise ki woh kitna blissful dikhta tha with Malini😆 - the "bliss" showed so clearly in him choosing his work assignments over her constantly and getting pakaaoed by her insecurity filled guilt trips 😆. So to justify their inability to comprehend the fact that someone can go through their life for a long time on autopilot without really knowing love until it unexpectedly lands in their life - those are the people who come up with the "men are born cheaters" logic to justify the fact that Adi apparently ditched Malini for Imlie and then jumped back to Malini when the mood struck him.....lol cuz again - remember....the goal is to dehumanize men. Only women are eternally suffering/sacrificing humans, while all men are pigs.....lol.
Didi brain also runs on the desperation for sex at any cost....lol I've said this before also but Malini's obsession for sex with Adi was next level when it clearly didn't come across as having been memorable for him in any way😆.....JM was hardly the first time he couldn't remember anything I bet....lol their entire relationship was an obligatory sham....Adi was going through the motions on every level if anyone bothered noticing. But then wohi Didi brain problem....lol they think only people in some eternal love with each other can have sex😆. Sex is the basis of all love for them whether or not there is anything actually memorable in it.....lol....isilye even after Adi's obvious detachment from her, even after the fact that Malini mostly had to beg Adi for dates and gestures in their "relationship", and later on even beg him to touch her😆......Malini for some reason thought everything was "perfect" in their rishta and he will "happily" come back to her cuz Imlie is just a "passing fancy".😆
People forget that Adi was never coercing Imlie for anything despite them being properly married and Imlie reiterating again and again that she considers him her husband.......yeh "tiny" detail somehow escapes people in all the many smears they throw on Adi😆....everything that happened between them was MUTUAL....every hard line was drawn by Imlie who never had the guts to actually take her rights as a wife even while acting mahaan about thinking about Malini's rights first.....lol Adi was a gentleman with Imlie throughout and aaj usi baat ko log uski failing bolke mock karte hain....the fact that he RESPECTED her youth and was gentle with her is considered a "failing" now....lol waah re so called "feminists"....lol

.....Im just 
...lol iske retrospective expectations jaag uthe for a relationship that Adi did not even consider valid at that point


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