Upcoming : Akshu Selects Abhi | Precap : Mehendi + Drama | Update - Page 41

Originally posted by: tptwi

communication is the biggest thing missing in this relationship and the root cause of many of their issues. If they would just sit down and talk to each other, so much of this mess would automatically be resolved. Abhi needs reassurance and affirmation that he is Akshu’s priority. But the way in which he is expecting her to express it is not who she is. She is quiet and deep…he is intense and loud. Both are equally as powerful. And Akshu needs time and his patience. She told him that today, and I know that deep down he knows it too. He was the one to understand her trauma and conditioning when none of the goenkas did. But once again, his impatience, impulsivity, and insecurities are getting the best of him. My heart breaks for both of them. They need to heal..and only they can heal each other’s wounds. I’m actually glad we are getting this track before marriage so that they can enter their new life on a solid foundation. Yes, their shaadi is apparently tomorrow or in 2 days in the show, but it will last a month for us, and in that time, we will see these issues being tackled.

Yes definatly communication is the major thing lacking in this relation shipe and that is also major reason why the manipulations of papa birla or arohi works on them. They have never spoken about their traumas and the insecurites in past, hope they do it soon. I know shaadi is in two day but I am still keeping my hopes on runaway shaadi plus a drunkan night recap ir not night may be few hours away from family drama where they can just talk heart to heart. my heart pains to see either of them suffere ❤️

Originally posted by: tptwi

The biggest thing misleading about this precap is that it makes it seem like aarohi gets hurt but the more I watch it, the more it looks like the chandelier didn’t even hit her 😂

and to mee it looks as if abhi save akshu and not arohi 🤪

Originally posted by: Neha179

Wow.. so cute 🥰🥰😍

https://twitter.com/moonchilddxz/status/1517813111394377730?s=20&t=EuRzVrAtFN9iJMvLg8OpCw

yeh kya hai?? I hope it’s not her wedding outfit 🌚

Originally posted by: IAMHope

I hated it that Abhi discussed Ak in the third person with Parth.
He never shared why he is the way he is with Harsh

He never told her his mom ditched him for her husband all the time.

They are going to be married soon - when will he share all that with her? What is he waiting for, Christmas?

Soul connection and telepathy obviously is not working between them all the time.

They have to talk and actively listen also!

I agree with you that instead of talking to anyone else he should have spoken wto akshra directly.But that is the issue na they are never made to talk and each in them with either talk to irrelevent characters or to themselves.

Parth and neil are still nicer. Abhira really needs to talk and talk alot as much as they can specially about their feelings and insecurities and traumas.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Wonderfully put, Grace! While I agree with you that Abhi is used to cutting his relations when they turn sour, I do think that he’s more dramatic than he lets on 😂 For instance, he thinks he has cut Harsh out of his life, but we have all seen deep moments of concern Abhi has expressed towards him. The thing is that as impulsive and angry has Abhi is on the outside, he has a heart that melts in an instance. Even if he holds grudges, his heart never stops loving. He was so angry at Akshu, failed to trust her, was being a complete idiot during the confrontation. It took Manjari to knock some sense into him, but he showed up when it mattered. He has to work on himself, as does Akshu, but they both really do make up for each other’s downfalls. They both can and will learn a lot from each other.

I was thinking more about his priority jaap yesterday in the context of Harsh and Manjari. This man has never been the priority of anyone in his entire life. He has always chosen Manjari, and Manjari has always chosen Harsh. Again, this is another root cause of his insecurities. Akshu is not responsible for them, although her initial rejections of him did deeply trigger him. It’s so natural to want to be loved, to want to see that the other person loves you just as much as you love them. But, again, due to his rash and impulsive nature, his insecurities at this point are clouding his ability to see how much Akshu loves him and how much importance she gives him.

Him asking her if she’s upset with her decision was really sad looking at it from his POV, because again, he feared that he was actually her second choice. This entire thing of choosing and choices is wrong and not how relationships work, but given his insecurities and how impatient he has become, it makes sense.

I really wish he could have heard Akshu telling Aarohi why she’s going to Abhi yesterday. Again, Akshu is not as expressive and shows her love quietly. She didn’t say those things to Abhi, but it was the gesture of breaking free of Aarohi in that moment and going to him that showed how deeply she loves him and how he truly is her everything. And yet, he could not see that.

When Akshu told him to give her time and that she’s slow but that doesn’t mean she loves him less, it reminded me of the Udaipur contest scene. Abhi slows down to match her pace, and they reach the destination together. Later on, she gives her share of the reward to him for him to take home. That is the definition of their love. She is slow, and he is going to have to see that it will take time for her to break free of her traumas. He will have to match her pace. And the thing is, when he’s being rational, he sees it. He’s the one who saw she was being manipulated by Aarohi when no one else did. But, in his own insecurities, he forgets that and loses sight of it.

In turn, she will give him everything…her all, entirely selflessly expecting nothing in return.
That scene was truly symbolic of their relationship before it even started!

red: This!!!!! I so wish for everyone to understand this 👆

Blue: Ikr! All the time when he was sitting in the garden and having flashbacks, him wondering what’s taking her so long to chose, him thinking that she may be unhappy with her decision- all these made me feel so sad for him and so sad for them 😒 They both were having big talks about trust and then having monologues about their doubts.. I felt like shaking them and screaming, “arrey babba…don’t talk to yourself 🤦‍♀️, talk to each other about it” 😠😩 .. These both have such pure love for one another that it hurts so much to see them like this.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Actually on a serious note, when Abhi sees that the mehendi has been wiped off, he looks like he’s in so much pain. I think we are headed towards a parallel in one way or another, because he will remember him washing the mehendi off of her last time, and it will kill him. Just like on tilak, he apologized and made up for stuffing his face with the mithai and hurting her, I think we will be getting a similar scene here! He is still so triggered by the way he treated her in the past. It hurt him so badly!

I think the whole wiping of the mehndi reminded him of how he made akshra remove her mehndi last time, how rude he was with her and how much pain he had given her at that time. I hope we get happy scenes of their mehndi now with some exclusive abhira moments ❤️

Originally posted by: tptwi

That was made pretty obvious to me! The thing is that it wasn’t made obvious to Abhi even though he should have understood and known that. Again, his insecurities are preventing him from being able to see anything clearly.

I agree, but the way we (you, me and some others) see ak is very different from how many others see her. I meant if ak was given clear dialogues to justify her dilemma, she would have received a little less bashing from other audiences.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Aarohi is a drama queen. She just wants attention.

She’s doing all this so Akshu will invite her to the wedding! She’s like a nasty bratty 4 year old !


Sorry to those that have perfect 4 year olds.

lemme tell you a 4 year old will also behave better than her 🤣

Originally posted by: iheartChai

@red I am so thankful that she explained this to him. It is true almost every decision we have seen her make has taken time. Especially, major decisions that affect people.

@blue I totally agree with this line. He makes these grand gestures and say these things but when he is actually tested he faulters. Even Manjari pointed that out when he wanted to cancel the wedding. Either Akshara is not worth giving that chance or you are not worth giving that change to her or the relationship. Understandably it is due to his upbringing and the insecurities he has that Akshara unknowingly at times triggers.

@orange Abhi is use to cutting and running when relationships become sour. He has no issues cutting people out and only those he dearly loves he holds them close. He is practical in that way. You see how he has cut his father out of his life. But no matter how much distance he puts the truth is Harshvardhan is his father. That is a relation he can never remove. So in some sense you can say Abhi generally does not value family relations as much. Hence if he had to he could cut ties with his family members if they behave badly like Arohi. Akshara on the other and value all relations regardless taking both the good and the bad.

Abhi is still upset and his emotions are running very high. What he said about his insecurities are understandable. He has little patience right now for anything. As some have explained he's the speeding bullet train but Akshara is the old school locomotive He expects her to reach his speed but in reality things take time. He needs to learn patience.

loved your review grace so beautifully explained ❤️

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I don’t know about rituals but idhar toh apshagun hi ho raha hai 😂😂😂

mimi stress levels will be going high once again🤣