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Posted: 3 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Susi26

I see a little change in Akshara and Aarohi’s characterization.. unlike Sirat’s death, Aarohi did not solely blame Akshara for the accident or cook up stories. She apologised and just stayed mum, and even realising Akshara’s love towards her. Akshara on the other hand trying to balance the relationships.. many are saying she is not giving importance to Abhimanyu, and not loving him back to the same extent. But, what will she do? If he is not understanding her other family ties.??

Now what concerns me is Abhimanyu.. He hasn’t changed even a little. There is no character growth in him. He is still that possessive and obsessive lover trying to control her. He is hurt for Akshara not confessing about the truth which is right, but he is not able to understand and think even a sec from her side. When she said she confessed it in the hospital, what happened to his trust.. why he is not able to think and trust her in that matter. And he is putting a condition for the marriage that Aarohi shouldn’t attend the rituals.

What kind of condition is that? What right he has to commend someone from his in-laws family? I will definitely not marry the person who tries to dictate me or keep me away from my family relationships.

P.S :- I’m a neutral fan, neither anyone’s supporter. Just watching the show for HC.

True.. No person has the right to force his/her partner to give up any of their other relationships be it friends or family members. Even if Abhimanyu's intention and sentiment are not at fault as some have said, the way he is high-handedly forcing a break between Akshu and her one deep relationship is wrong and very stupid. Because if Akshu does put Abhi first and stay away from her sister it would cause her to have a resentment against Abhi for taking away this relation from her. And also it will lead Aarohi to react in some bad way. Just like the entire accident kaand trigger was Abhi when he falsely accused Aarohi in mandir which led her to being so upset that she overdosed..that time it really affected her badly bcz none of her family believed her too. So from the beginning, though it is true that Aarohi has all kinds psychological problems, it has been Abhi since the time he came into their lives, who has been a kind of trigger to all the wrong that Aarohi does. Although being a doctor, that too one who shows himself to be so aware of everyone's inner thoughts, he should understand that this is not the way to handle Aarohi or to reduce her influence on Akshu's life.

I do think the main reason he hates Aarohi is because of his possessiveness towards Akshu, he just hates that Akshu loves Aarohi as much as she does him. Akshu has always loved Aarohi from the time she was born. For some reason even when Akshu was a toddler and Aarohi an infant Akshu has been overly protective of Aarohi. As they grew older and Aarohi was seen to have a prickly personality and didn't reciprocate the kind of smothering love which Akshu poured on her, she became even more loving and clingy towards Aaru. This has been the sisters' dynamic from even before Sirat's death. It isn't bcz of that death that Akshu has this abnormal love for Aarohi. It was there from before. But lately, Akshu had actually started scolding Aarohi and trying to correct her mistakes and speaking up against her. She had become more aware of Aarohi's wrong-doing. So at this point Abhi putting such a condition is definitely a wrong step which is likely to backfire. If Aarohi plans some revenge, Akshu will only have become more vulnerable bcz she would feel guilty for turning her sister away and might do something silly to compensate. But Abhi has never understood Akshu who he claims to love so much. He didn't understand her from the first day, and has never bothered to see what makes Akshu tick. Which I feel is the biggest flaw in his great soul wala love.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: rittika

why should he not protect he is her would be husband and is protective of her which is natural for her


akshara loves her sister but he cant see her destryinh her life in thr love and thats wht a righy partnet will do always

Ofcourse he can protect protect her from all negative things and negative people, being a would be husband he should do it.. But here he should be mindful of few things.

Firstly, Aarohi plays a major part in her life even after Abhimanyu entered, she loves her to an extent that she is ready to sacrifice anything for her, even her marriage by going to jail. Expecting Akshara to suddenly switch to his side and take him as priority over all the other family ties is not right.. Things will change after marriage, being in busy birlas house she will not get time to always prioritise Aarohi or other goenkas. she will realise her priorities only after she enter into a marriage.

Secondly, the sisters relationship is getting better. At this point, if he tries to pull them more apart, it will eventually end up into a mess.. Aarohi turns evil and try to cause troubles in Abhira’s marriage. There will not be peace between them. I’m sure by this condition, no one in goenkas family will be happy, especially Akshara. Akshara already tried to hide things because of his hatred towards Aarohi. And this will continue even after marriage.

So, what I feel is Abhimanyu should have some patience, control his anger and try to fix up his relationship with Aarohi by having peace with her, and try to be little nicer to her. In that way, he will not invite her kaands in their marriage.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

Step sisters who don't gel up and have a sour relationship? I'm sorry, but Akshu has sacrificed her entire life for Aarohi, and all Aarohi had done is taken advantage of her and manipulated her to get her way. Akshu would literally die for Aarohi with a smile on her face, whereas Aarohi does not care for anyone except herself. She has made that clear time and time again.

Just because they are related and "family" does not mean that their relationship isn't toxic.

It's not only children who have trauma. Adults can have trauma too.

Lastly, more than love, Akshu is burdened by Aarohi's responsibility and the promise her step-mother took from a CHILD. Akshu has a heart of gold, and she would have surrendered herself to the police for any other family member too yesterday. But, her relationship to Aarohi cannot be described as one of love. It is one of abuse, trauma, and nothing else. Love is not something that makes you feel scared, guilty, and unsteady all the time...and that is exactly how Akshu feels with Aarohi.

That step sisters statement I was said on a generalised note.. Their relationship looks such from outside, but if you go into details I agree what all you stated.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: aishapl013

Hello even I'm a neutral fan n don't watch the show for Pranali too.


I feel both Abhira had fluctuation in their character sketch may it be Akshu taking Aarohi's blame of almost hitting someone, or Abhimanyu taking proposal for Aarohi.🤡

Th only stagnant character is Aarohi, from day 1 she wanted everything for herself n be safe my pushing all problems towards Akshu. Lets start from manipulating her for Abhi, Emotionally pressurizing her to celebrate all the wedding festivities, then running away at first place n giving ultimatum to Akshu as if her marriage breaks its on Akshu.

Further hit n run, fire fiasco, etc, etc...


It doesn't end so for me she's the only character that has never disappointed me she was selfish from beginning n Eureka she's still the same.

So the never disappointing character is Aarohi Goenkas, others keep on taking turn in disappointing me

and my sassy queen never disappoints me!! 😂😂😂
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roman55

offcourse she can reject him for her aaru,that option is always there,reject him.....but abhimanyu is correct cent percent in keeping forth the condition of banning arohi from the wedding..........arohi hit his mother and didn't even bother to take her to the hospital,just left her to die like that on the road and here u r asking who is he to stop arohi from attending the wedding.....kya baat hai,arohi should be in jail with the charge of attempt to murder,she is a drugii........he has every right to decide who shall attend his wedding...... furthermore he hasn't ordered akshara he has just put his condition, akshara can reject it........

Ok, what if she rejects his condition or say instead that this marriage will happen only if he accepts Aarohi and forgives her for all her mistakes?? I’m sure she don’t have guts to speak up before Abhimanyu or may be more decent not to hurt him by putting conditions.. but what if?? He will be shattered again like tilak 1 scenario, thinking that there is no value for his love. So better he handles the situation in a much decent way instead of shouting and bashing. Aarohi’s medical license is going to cancel, that’s itself is a big penalty she will pay.. like a life time imprisonment for a career oriented girl.

Edited by Susi26 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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The condition part was not earlier in abhi's mind but he put forth the condition when harsh told akshu confessed that she was driving the car. As that time it hit him that again aarohi successfully emotionally manipulated akshu which he doesn't want it further for his to be wife. I don't think he is wrong. He has realised that akshu will never stand for herself he has to do that for her. And I am very happy Goenkas needed a bit of reality check about how they have been behaving with akshu since beginning ♥️♥️ i have all hearts for Abhi today

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susi26

Ok, what if she rejects his condition or say instead that this marriage will happen only if he accepts Aarohi and forgives her for all her mistakes?? I’m sure she don’t have guts to speak up before Abhimanyu or may be more decent not to hurt him by putting conditions.. but what if?? He will be shattered again like tilak 1 scenario, thinking that there is no value for his love. So better he handles the situation in a much decent way instead of shouting and bashing. Aarohi’s medical license is going to cancel, that’s itself is a big penalty she will pay.. like a life time imprisonment for a career oriented girl.

condition comes when he sees her sacrificing for arohi again, akshara is not just emotional she is an emotional fool who is letting arohi abuse her mentally for years now........i am sorry but u r just being totally insensitive here, abhimanyu could have lost his mother cause of the drugs and the hit....what about that,so Akshara putting a condition wouldn't be justified,but abhimanyu's condition is.... furthermore he has not sent arohi to jail that's in itself is a huge favour on arohi...... abhimanyu sees right through arohi,he knows she is an egoistical maniac who to get what she wants will stoop to any level,she has been emotionally manipulating her for years and will continue to do so, abhimanyu just wants to get her out of the mess,cause he knows now that till arohi is with akshara, Akshara couldn't be happy,she will keep creating problems in akshara's life,hell she would even take advantage of akshara's lifeless body for that matter..........
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roman55

condition comes when he sees her sacrificing for arohi again, akshara is not just emotional she is an emotional fool who is letting arohi abuse her mentally for years now........i am sorry but u r just being totally insensitive here, abhimanyu could have lost his mother cause of the drugs and the hit....what about that,so Akshara putting a condition wouldn't be justified,but abhimanyu's condition is.... furthermore he has not sent arohi to jail that's in itself is a huge favour on arohi...... abhimanyu sees right through arohi,he knows she is an egoistical maniac who to get what she wants will stoop to any level,she has been emotionally manipulating her for years and will continue to do so, abhimanyu just wants to get her out of the mess,cause he knows now that till arohi is with akshara, Akshara couldn't be happy,she will keep creating problems in akshara's life,hell she would even take advantage of akshara's lifeless body for that matter..........

Sorry i think you got me wrong.. am I insensitive?? No one will support the accident and justify Aarohi’s mistakes.. neither I’m supporting Aarohi, nor feeling pity for Akshara’s situation, or hate Abhimanyu.. I’m just disappointed with how he is dealing the issues. His anger need to be controlled,

Edited by Susi26 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susi26

Sorry i think you got me wrong.. am I not insensitive?? No one will support the accident and justify Aarohi’s mistakes.. neither I’m not supporting Aarohi, nor feeling pity for Akshara’s situation, or hate Abhimanyu.. I’m just disappointed with how he is dealing the issues. His anger need to be controlled,

abhimanyu hates arohi to the core,arohi hit his mother and left her to die and even after that she is breathing,he has not done anything to her,he hasn't sent her to jail even cause she is akshara's sister isn't this in itself not a proof that he is learning to control his anger........yes he is impulsive that's his weakness which he definitely needs to work on,u also made a point about his dealing with issues,now i will not talk about the earlier stuff,but if u talk about the contemporary situation isn't it how everyone of us would react,people want abhimanyu to believe that she told him the truth parde ke peeche,does it sound believable??? also given the history of akshara she has always shielded arohi even when she was wrong, remember the donation kaand, she also hid the truth from everyone else and when the truth came out she again defended arohi.......she blamed her love for manish's heart attack and since he is her love she unknowingly blamed him and when I am saying this i am not saying he is always right or doesn't have any flaws,his decision to marry arohi was the worst of them all,cause at one time u r saying that u love akshara and another day u r marrying her sister that was pauthetic no doubt........and then in Abhira's sangeet she cheated to make her family win which is alright kyunki functions mein ye sb hota rehta hai lekin abhimanyu brought Kumar sanu for her to their sangeet cause she wanted to meet him but she even didn't thought of that,she saw her family was practising for few days so she cheated for them to win but she didn't see what abhi did for her........ akshara unknowingly does that and she has made a habit of it....after all of this if he comes to know that that her family member,her aaru did the accident wouldn't he think that akshara was lying just to protect her sister.....how would he believe that given her history???
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roman55

abhimanyu hates arohi to the core,arohi hit his mother and left her to die and even after that she is breathing,he has not done anything to her,he hasn't sent her to jail even cause she is akshara's sister isn't this in itself not a proof that he is learning to control his anger........yes he is impulsive that's his weakness which he definitely needs to work on,u also made a point about his dealing with issues,now i will not talk about the earlier stuff,but if u talk about the contemporary situation isn't it how everyone of us would react,people want abhimanyu to believe that she told him the truth parde ke peeche,does it sound believable??? also given the history of akshara she has always shielded arohi even when she was wrong, remember the donation kaand, she also hid the truth from everyone else and when the truth came out she again defended arohi.......she blamed her love for manish's heart attack and since he is her love she unknowingly blamed him and when I am saying this i am not saying he is always right or doesn't have any flaws,his decision to marry arohi was the worst of them all,cause at one time u r saying that u love akshara and another day u r marrying her sister that was pauthetic no doubt........and then in Abhira's sangeet she cheated to make her family win which is alright kyunki functions mein ye sb hota rehta hai lekin abhimanyu brought Kumar sanu for her to their sangeet cause she wanted to meet him but she even didn't thought of that,she saw her family was practising for few days so she cheated for them to win but she didn't see what abhi did for her........ akshara unknowingly does that and she has made a habit of it....after all of this if he comes to know that that her family member,her aaru did the accident wouldn't he think that akshara was lying just to protect her sister.....how would he believe that given her history???

Yes, he controlled his anger today, HC was brilliant in today’s episode. But that condition part I’m not able to accept.. I even agree with the gyan and bashan he gave to goenkas about Aarohi. By this condition he is giving more pain to Akshara, more chance to Aarohi to plan for the next kaand and at last he being tortured within himself. Forgiving, Forgetting and dusting off.. isn’t it a good way to start the wedding rituals?

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