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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tirchinazar


Priya applied blue and green colors on Ram. On one hand, it is poison(Vedika) and on the other hand, she will be jealous. Ram only applied on one side which means he will be with Priya together to handle the poison(Vedika)


Jealous Priya (Full of taanas)

Angsty Ram


Bechara Ram will have to use his coupon now 🤣

I still can’t handle jealousy using the ex. It sounds so backwards, I want Ram to be jealous with Priya having somebody she can talk to. Jealousy using V angle sounds so boring and not believable since Priya thinks ex is past and needs to come out of it to live in present!
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@bold...yes this is what it needs to be. Else the one who is going to suffer more is Priya. From a society point of view, Priya would have found it very embarrassing and humiliating to not know that Vedika was his ex. I mean think abt it girls , her husband has told her that he is still in love with his ex though she has moved on and that Priya should not expect love in this marriage. She accepts it but I doubt if she would have thought this love of his is going to walk to his life as his present.

What I dislik abt Ram is the fact , he hid the past even when Priya brought Vedika home. I know many will say by then he was over Vedika etc. The point is if there was role reversal and Ram had brought Neeraj home would he have accepted Priya keeping quiet abt her past. I doubt .....

In this case the whole world knows abt Ram and Vedika . In fact she has seen them together hand in hand/holding each other etc.

This is one of the worst situation that any woman can be. It just breaks you as a person and you start loosing your confidence . That is the reason I really do not want Priya to accept his love that easily. If he needs to come clean then he needs to learn to say NO to people and protect his wife from pain that is caused due to his past.

Priya has multiple times taken decisions when she understood that it is going to affect Ram including giving her life. I think her not bring out MS into open is for her to know who is behind it. She has a feeling that if MS is caught then the real person will go into hiding.


I think they have shown that he is accepting that he has wronged her… I am sure Priya would speak her mind without mincing words and convey her hurt and how he has let her down as a person, partner and wife.

I feel he realises he is wrong and will definitely make up for it… what matters is the person feels it, then even a a single heartfelt sorry is enough… you can see it in the other persons eyes.


Same way I think Ram will under Priya’s hurt and would not be insensitive towards her reaction. it will be a heartfelt apology, more reflected through his actions and he will learn to say No.

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Posted: 3 years ago

I also have a huge trust deficit in Ram so I will wait to see

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@bold...yes this is what it needs to be. Else the one who is going to suffer more is Priya. From a society point of view, Priya would have found it very embarrassing and humiliating to not know that Vedika was his ex. I mean think abt it girls , her husband has told her that he is still in love with his ex though she has moved on and that Priya should not expect love in this marriage. She accepts it but I doubt if she would have thought this love of his is going to walk to his life as his present.

What I dislik abt Ram is the fact , he hid the past even when Priya brought Vedika home. I know many will say by then he was over Vedika etc. The point is if there was role reversal and Ram had brought Neeraj home would he have accepted Priya keeping quiet abt her past. I doubt .....

In this case the whole world knows abt Ram and Vedika . In fact she has seen them together hand in hand/holding each other etc.

This is one of the worst situation that any woman can be. It just breaks you as a person and you start loosing your confidence . That is the reason I really do not want Priya to accept his love that easily. If he needs to come clean then he needs to learn to say NO to people and protect his wife from pain that is caused due to his past.

Priya has multiple times taken decisions when she understood that it is going to affect Ram including giving her life. I think her not bring out MS into open is for her to know who is behind it. She has a feeling that if MS is caught then the real person will go into hiding.


So true, aptly she said “ruswaai”. Roughly translated it means humiliation or disgrace. That is the exact thing Ram has caused to Priya. He has exposed her to ‘jog-hasaaye’, to the ridicule & pity of people.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Bana


So true, aptly she said “ruswaai”. Roughly translated it means humiliation or disgrace. That is the exact thing Ram has caused to Priya. He has exposed her to ‘jog-hasaaye’, to the ridicule & pity of people.

Yes and when women face such situation , the entire world including friends and relatives will look up on her with such a pity . There will those unwanted remarks from people like her mami , his mami , MS , her ex etc. For people like Priya who has held her head high , will feel miserable . All because Ram is incapable of taking decisions on his personal front. No one comments abt his deeds . The world sees only his good side because all those people benefit from his actions except his wife. His caring /protective attitude for Priya awakens only when people outside his family and friends attack her. If its any of his friends and family he always steps back and hide . Such attitude is worst that antagonist plotting and planning. The worst pain is when your own people hide/cheat and dont stand up for you.

Thats what I dislike about Ram.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Bana


So true, aptly she said “ruswaai”. Roughly translated it means humiliation or disgrace. That is the exact thing Ram has caused to Priya. He has exposed her to ‘jog-hasaaye’, to the ridicule & pity of people.

That I will not oppose. He has done exactly that.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Balh2fan


I think they have shown that he is accepting that he has wronged her… I am sure Priya would speak her mind without mincing words and convey her hurt and how he has let her down as a person, partner and wife.

I feel he realises he is wrong and will definitely make up for it… what matters is the person feels it, then even a a single heartfelt sorry is enough… you can see it in the other persons eyes.


Same way I think Ram will under Priya’s hurt and would not be insensitive towards her reaction. it will be a heartfelt apology, more reflected through his actions and he will learn to say No.

Yes change is always nice and should be accepted with open arms in a relationship especially between married couples.


But what I do not understand is why he has a different approach to his ex and her ex. What makes him think that he can behave friendly with his ex but not hers.

People might argue that Neeraj is not a nice person where as Vedika is good towards Ram etc. But here the question is not about ex being good or bad. Its about one moral value for Ram and another for Priya.

Why is that women are always questioned on such grounds. Why should Ram be left off so easily. Moral values should be the same for all .

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Bana


Actually Neeraj-Vedika disclosure needs no blue dress or anything. All it needs is for the dumbo Mythri to open her mouth properly & tell the whole thing instead of adha-kuda.
Ram asked this question even - how did she get to know, but Stupid Sara dismissed it. How come Sara & Bri who heard the whole not wondering ki Neeraj Vedika ka kya connection hai beyond banking.


Mat poocho. Nehin toh Pri and Ram jhagda kis baat pe karenge? smiley37

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I still can’t handle jealousy using the ex. It sounds so backwards, I want Ram to be jealous with Priya having somebody she can talk to. Jealousy using V angle sounds so boring and not believable since Priya thinks ex is past and needs to come out of it to live in present!


Well she is in love and she thinks Ram loves Vedika. So there will be a bit of jealousy. It will be a feeling Priya has never encountered

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

Did Ram hug Priya because of the song lag ja gale? Like he understood she needed that hug? What do u guys think ?


(Sorry if it was discussed before... You were all on 🔥 🔥🔥 there are just too many posts to read all)


Yes, she asked for it. And biwi maange aur pati naa de, how is that even posible? smiley37

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