Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
Yup yaar I personally did not like the idea of Dr. Riddesh se help lete hain even to find a buyer . They can tell him that they have landed in financial soup but again yeh baatein aise nahinki jaa sakti given the nazuuk nature of their rishta abhi.. aaj kal ke daur main logon ki genuine problems feel naataks that too at this mod beti de rahe hain Dr. Sahib .. anyone can misunderstand poor K's in various ways.. and am glad they didn't seemed all in agreement with that even though sabki neeyat saaf hai . And I am sure agar help maangte bhi toh bhi Dr. Sahib kar dete but baat wohi hai it then starts sounding like some fraud by K's and dahej types shaadi ho jaati toh nature changes again .. they hardly know kuch bhi..but then I do totally understand the nature of urgency and helplessness too given itna zyada paisa Hai..
See even in general also people are going to comment on K fam bringing a rich bahu in their fam especially because if superficial qualities are considered, Gun as an individual does not seem to match Anu. Yeh bakwaas kal AS bhi kar rahi thi ki Anu is only marrying Gun because she is a rich bimbo.
So if they ask for financial help then of course it would seem like they are doing the rishta for money only. Dahej jaise hi dikhega logo ko. So even if they themselves & even the Bhatanangars will understand ki it is a genuine crisis & will help but phir wohi inequality wali baat ho jayegi in the rishtedaari as well as their image in society. So I am glad that they are not asking for help from them.
But they do need to tell them the reason for cancelling or delaying the marriage instead of letting them worry needlessly. It is not fair to them ki they just accept that shaadi will be postponed because of some unknown trouble.
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