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Posted: 4 years ago
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Did anyone of you guys notice that only Harsh smiled when he saw Anisha?! There were varied reactions from the others, Parth & Manjiri were kind of surprised, Mahima & Anand were shocked and also furious I think. But Harsh was the only one who was genuinely happy to see her. The moment he saw her, he did not care that she was with Goenka's. It was something he realized a minute later.

I think everyone in the Birla family is close to someone or the other - Parth, Abhi & Neil are close to Manjiri, Abhi is also close to Anand & Mahima. The only one who does not share a close bond with any one of the children is Harsh. He despises Neil, cares about Abhi but supports him in nothing, and Parth! Well, I don't think there has been any scene between them yet to understand their equation.

I really wish the makers show Harsh and Anisha's bond. It would be good to see him bonding with Anisha, motivating her, and most importantly understand her feelings. He was genuinely worried when she fainted so that does mean he at least cares about her like the way he said that she was closest to him.

What do you think?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think a part of it is Anisha reminds Harsh of himself. Harsh deals with an inferiority complex, fuelled by Anand and Mahima, that he’s not a real doctor and Anisha is given heat for the same. Moreover, with one child rejecting his embrace (Abhi), Anisha probably filled the empty hole in his heart.

I agree with you! Abhi is close to everyone except Harsh so I wonder what he’s so angry about. His relationship with his father is self explanatory and the trauma is evident from witnessing the mental and physical abuse. But he always says he’s running away from his family too. He says that he’s alone but I don’t really see that. I think those lines apply to anisha, not him. Unlike Anisha he has the support of the entire family as he’s living up to the Birla name. Anisha’s parents despise her and she feels worthless because she’s an outsider compared to the esteemed Birla doctors hence her suffocation in the house. But Abhi was a state topper renowned surgeon with a doting mom and the support of a family, especially his brothers.

Abhi reminds me of a person who takes his blessings for granted sometimes. He says he only has two people in this world - Akshu and Manjari but what about the others. Parth and Nishta look up to him and I can tell that Parth always has Abhi and Manjari’s interests in mind. Likewise, Neil would die for Abhi yet he doesn’t make Abhi’s list? He says Anand is his mentor and I cannot imagine not having my mentors as high ranking people in my life.

Abhi, in his war with Harsh, is pushing people away, thereby letting others become collateral damage and I don’t blame him. While he pushes others away, harsh takes out his frustration by punishing the rest (like getting rid of Neil).

I don’t blame Abhi. I see him as a flawed human and we all are.

Edited by Baarish_Sim - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: yogakshema

Did anyone of you guys notice that only Harsh smiled when he saw Anisha?! There were varied reactions from the others, Parth & Manjiri were kind of surprised, Mahima & Anand were shocked and also furious I think. But Harsh was the only one who was genuinely happy to see her. The moment he saw her, he did not care that she was with Goenka's. It was something he realized a minute later.

I think everyone in the Birla family is close to someone or the other - Parth, Abhi & Neil are close to Manjiri, Abhi is also close to Anand & Mahima. The only one who does not share a close bond with any one of the children is Harsh. He despises Neil, cares about Abhi but supports him in nothing, and Parth! Well, I don't think there has been any scene between them yet to understand their equation.

I really wish the makers show Harsh and Anisha's bond. It would be good to see him bonding with Anisha, motivating her, and most importantly understand her feelings. He was genuinely worried when she fainted so that does mean he at least cares about her like the way he said that she was closest to him.

What do you think?

@bold I noticed it too…harsh will get this marriage get materialized lol I’m missing his akshu akshu though…lol

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Posted: 4 years ago
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No Birla elders love is conditional.

They abhi becoz he is doctor like them.

If he also choosen another career options he also treated like others. He become doctor becoz he want to serve people.

If anand mahima children are good doctor then didn't care about abhi.

They look at him as option

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Oldest daughter of the house has returned after a long time, she didn’t leave the house on a happy note, yet nobody even cares to hug her or relieved to see her safe and sound and elated that she’s back home! What kind of people are these Birlas……it was finally so good to see her in Abhis arms, someone cared.


Manjari atleast should have played a role of welcoming her with a big hug.

Harsh should have plunged or moved forward to hug the apple of his eye, but he might have remembered oh no I will have to do kanyadhan to this Goenka family

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: In_love

No Birla elders love is conditional.

They abhi becoz he is doctor like them.

If he also choosen another career options he also treated like others. He become doctor becoz he want to serve people.

If anand mahima children are good doctor then didn't care about abhi.

They look at him as option


Rightly said, Parth should pursue his music career Atleast apart from gardening.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: In_love

No Birla elders love is conditional.

They abhi becoz he is doctor like them.

If he also choosen another career options he also treated like others. He become doctor becoz he want to serve people.

If anand mahima children are good doctor then didn't care about abhi.

They look at him as option


Yes, I think that Parth either put his foot down and say that he wants to pursue music . He should at least say something when the rest if the family is taunting him'

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: yogakshema

Did anyone of you guys notice that only Harsh smiled when he saw Anisha?! There were varied reactions from the others, Parth & Manjiri were kind of surprised, Mahima & Anand were shocked and also furious I think. But Harsh was the only one who was genuinely happy to see her. The moment he saw her, he did not care that she was with Goenka's. It was something he realized a minute later.

I think everyone in the Birla family is close to someone or the other - Parth, Abhi & Neil are close to Manjiri, Abhi is also close to Anand & Mahima. The only one who does not share a close bond with any one of the children is Harsh. He despises Neil, cares about Abhi but supports him in nothing, and Parth! Well, I don't think there has been any scene between them yet to understand their equation.

I really wish the makers show Harsh and Anisha's bond. It would be good to see him bonding with Anisha, motivating her, and most importantly understand her feelings. He was genuinely worried when she fainted so that does mean he at least cares about her like the way he said that she was closest to him.

What do you think?


Anyone Harsh likes, I automatically get a bad feeling!🤣

I have this terrible feeling that Aneesha is not good for Kairav nor the Goenka's and Harsh will use or influence her in his vendetta against the Goenka's.😒 I don't mind seeing their bonding as long as it is good but anything else they need to go.😃

I think in all families certain members are more closer to one than to another. With Harsh, he has been verbally abusive to Manjari. He completely disregards her dignity in front of others and any child would hate that just as Abhi does so I don't blame him for the way he acts with Harsh. I wish he would grab his collar and just chuck him out of the house because verbal abuse is just as bad as physical if not worse because of the constant mental trauma and effect that person undergoes. For this reason I also dislike Anand/Mahima for staying quiet because that makes them complicit to Harsh's abuse. This also tells me he mostly likely has been physically abusive to her as well but maybe no longer because Abhi will go ballistic if it happens now so maybe when he was a child.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

I think a part of it is Anisha reminds Harsh of himself. Harsh deals with an inferiority complex, fuelled by Anand and Mahima, that he’s not a real doctor and Anisha is given heat for the same. Moreover, with one child rejecting his embrace (Abhi), Anisha probably filled the empty hole in his heart.

I agree with you! Abhi is close to everyone except Harsh so I wonder what he’s so angry about. His relationship with his father is self explanatory and the trauma is evident from witnessing the mental and physical abuse. But he always says he’s running away from his family too. He says that he’s alone but I don’t really see that. I think those lines apply to anisha, not him. Unlike Anisha he has the support of the entire family as he’s living up to the Birla name. Anisha’s parents despise her and she feels worthless because she’s an outsider compared to the esteemed Birla doctors hence her suffocation in the house. But Abhi was a state topper renowned surgeon with a doting mom and the support of a family, especially his brothers.

Abhi reminds me of a person who takes his blessings for granted sometimes. He says he only has two people in this world - Akshu and Manjari but what about the others. Parth and Nishta look up to him and I can tell that Parth always has Abhi and Manjari’s interests in mind. Likewise, Neil would die for Abhi yet he doesn’t make Abhi’s list? He says Anand is his mentor and I cannot imagine not having my mentors as high ranking people in my life.

Abhi, in his war with Harsh, is pushing people away, thereby letting others become collateral damage and I don’t blame him. While he pushes others away, harsh takes out his frustration by punishing the rest (like getting rid of Neil).

I don’t blame Abhi. I see him as a flawed human and we all are.


I loved your write up about Abhi. ❤️🤗

At the moment, he seems to be cribbing about nothing. I feel that soon something will happen that will put him at a crossroad that will change who he is and force him to rethink how he thinks of himself and the blessings he takes for granted. HC will kill those scenes - guilt, self loathing, realization- he will ace it!

Harsh and Anisha - I simply cannot understand how Harsh can be so close to her when he treats every other female in his life like crap. I dunno something doesn’t add up there. I mean with Akshu he thinks she’s not good enough for his son and Manjari is his punching bag. I would like a backstory to help me connect this Harsh- Anisha bond otherwise it simply looks like they added this new dimension to Harsh just because it was convenient for them to soften him up a bit at this juncture.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think Harsh doesn’t like Manjari because she’s a fool who believes in love; he doesn’t like Akshu because he makes Abhi a fool in love.

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