Ye na thi hamari Qismat |Ary|~ Hira M, Noor H, Muneeb B - Page 19

Ayaan & Munteha ❤️

plus Noor as Yasir eye candy as ever ❤️

Alishba is extremely childish and insolent. However Yasir is a hypocrite. He rejected Muntaha and wanted to marry Alishba because ‘she’s beautiful’, ‘has a lively personality’, etc. And now he basically wants to mould her into someone more like Muntaha - who he didn’t want!

Why do men do this? Marry a woman you genuinely like, not a trophy that you will then try to mould. For goodness sake. And that argument about Alishba not taking his clothes out for him was ridiculous. You are not a child, your wife is not your slave, why can’t you take your own clothes out!? Never in my life have I seen this sort of thing in real life. My grandfather not only took his own clothes out (shock-horror!) he also ironed and washed them.

Alishba does need an attitude readjustment in the way she talks to her elders, and the childishness of constantly wanting to go out and spend like mad. However Yasir is a major idiot, for all the aforementioned reasons.

Originally posted by: BlueWaters20

Alishba is extremely childish and insolent. However Yasir is a hypocrite. He rejected Muntaha and wanted to marry Alishba because ‘she’s beautiful’, ‘has a lively personality’, etc. And now he basically wants to mould her into someone more like Muntaha - who he didn’t want!

Why do men do this? Marry a woman you genuinely like, not a trophy that you will then try to mould. For goodness sake. And that argument about Alishba not taking his clothes out for him was ridiculous. You are not a child, your wife is not your slave, why can’t you take your own clothes out!? Never in my life have I seen this sort of thing in real life. My grandfather not only took his own clothes out (shock-horror!) he also ironed and washed them.

Alishba does need an attitude readjustment in the way she talks to her elders, and the childishness of constantly wanting to go out and spend like mad. However Yasir is a major idiot, for all the aforementioned reasons.

I think that was not the issue ... She messed up the whole room including wardrobe

I knw what m gona say is an unpopular opinion but when you have a loving husband who is providing you with luxuries and fulfilles your demand then she should also be considerate. She is not a working woman unlike Muntaha where Ayan should be considerate towards her in the same way

There should be a balance

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

I think that was not the issue ... She messed up the whole room including wardrobe

I knw what m gona say is an unpopular opinion but when you have a loving husband who is providing you with luxuries and fulfilles your demand then she should also be considerate. She is not a working woman unlike Muntaha where Ayan should be considerate towards her in the same way

There should be a balance

Originally posted by: BlueWaters20

You should absolutely be considerate towards your husband, however men also need to learn to do little things for themselves. Why can’t he take his own clothes out? Why does he need his wife to do that for him. It’s ridiculous, a small child can take out their own clothes. The other issue is Yasir is highly hypocritical. He knew Alishba is a loud mouth, he said himself he wanted to marry her because she has a ‘lively personality’, which basically means he liked her because she isn’t a wallflower. Now he wants to mould her into Muntaha mark 2. That’s not right. You either marry Muntaha or someone with similar traits as hers, or you marry someone like Alishba. You don’t marry one person and then attempt to mould them into another. Like I said, Alishba is disrespectful and she needs a major attitude check, the way she speaks to her elders is not ok, nor is the fact that she spends the majority of her time either whinging or splashing out on material things. But Yasir is also a major hypocrite and I will never understand why men in these dramas need either their wife or their mother to take out their clothes. It’s beyond silly. I do think Alishba’s parents are too soft on her. My parents are far more liberal than hers and they would have bought the house down shouting at me if I was anywhere near as disrespectful as her, but her parents continue to mollycoddle her. The slap was stupid, instead of slapping her tell the girl off and stop babying her.

I agree about Yasir..serves him right ...i want Ayan to succeed just to rub it in Yasir and Alishba's face

...they keep calling Alishba and her antics childish and that she was ladli blah blah blah ...thats no excuse and an insult to children ...Alishba very well knows what is doing

I don't like it

when Munteha says bacchi hai main samjhaoongi

bacchi hai parents also knew why they got her married

baraat laut jaayegi duniya kya kahegi izzat ka kya hoga ek beti ne ye kiya tum bachao humari izzat

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she messed up the wardrobe he asked her to make compartments

she didn't

fine

find your own clothes iron them wear them

i don't get wash the clothes iron the clothes

hire help for jhadu pocha kapde bartan dusting and all

cooking they want ghar ki auraat to do for other things also i haven't seen a helper

yasir deserves what he's getting the badtameezi too

he rejected munteha now he compares munteha and alishba

alishba is not even consderate and respectful towards her own parents

my dad brought me up single handedly from the age of 15 to 23

no one can say i was brought up without a mother so i'm like this or that

he brought me up right

sometimes parents give the right upbringing but the child doesn't live by it not parents fault

Mano ka koi kaand jald hi saamne aayega

this is very entertaining drama..I am really liking the chemistry between ayaan and Munteha

I also feel parents were soft, but I liked their logical approach .

Main people I have major problem with is Phupho's beti and ayaan's sister

Obviously Yasir and his wife are sab fasaad ki jad.

I think there is never mention of cleaning and dusting and their house are spec and span, so I assume they have a kaam wali bai for it ,they just don't show it.

Sab log Palak hi khate rehte hain..am sure their Iron is good😆

I think the daughter will have a boyfriend wala phada very soon and other girl is going exploit it to cause issues for Ayaan and Munteha.So far though this drama is bit realistic .

It is natural to soften towards a person who is so caring and never complaining. But rudeness of sister makes me think she is for major karma..