Say whatever you want about goenkas, but they care for their daughters in their own way.
Bade papa's refused to accept their relationship is more because he don't trust Abhimanyu.
Birla's not sure that they about Anisha enough to do that... Atleast the power players of the house.... Papa Birla, anand and mahima.
Abhi is important but he can't make them do something that isn't related to him.